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what are you getting your boy/girl friend?


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 5:10 pm

what/(did) are you getting your boyfriend, wife, husband, or girlfriend for.....
there birthday?
christmas?
&& valentines day?

=] thankkkk YOU =)
ps. anyone know any cute sites to make love crafts?
with like paper glue and stuff lol thankss.


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confused?


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 5:01 pm

theres this guy i met in school in augest.
i have liked him ever sence then.
mostly 3 months,a little of augest.

we started talking more in november.
he use to text me at 11:11 and everything.
he was soo sweet.

but then i saw on his myspace a girl was right behind me after he moved me up as the first girl on his top.

and i knew he would like her or move her up.
well he did,shes before me now.

me and him was talking on a message one day and somehow he knew i was upset,he asked what was wrong,i said nothing then i finally said,do you like me anymore? he said i liked u then when i told you,why you ask?
i said well you just said then.
he...

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i'm gay:(


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 4:50 pm

ok, 16/f. i'm gay. and nobody knows! i really want to meet a girl because i've never had a gf, and i want one, but what do i do. The thing is, i go to a tiny school, nobody is homophobic really, but some people are uncomfortable and awkward around it. for some reason, out of all of the girls in my class, the ones i'm friends with are kind of preppy, "i love boys" type of people, and the out lesbians in my grade are REALLY annoying, so i don't hang out with them. if I came out i feel like i would be expected to switch "groups" or be kind of unwelcome in my group. they wouldn't be mean, it would just make life really uncomfortable and we probably would stop hanging out. what should i do? i'm friends with a bunch of seniors...

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girl


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 4:44 pm

ok, so i'm 16/f and i'm gay, but not out of the closet. like basically no one knows, and i'm not really outgoing. there is this girl who's 18 at my school, and she has a girlfriend. her girlfriend is kind of an ass though. they've been together a while, but i think she hooked up with this girl in the first place to make an ex jealous, and now is just staying with her. basically it doesn't seem like a really intense relationship. basically i like this girl a LOT. i used to talk to her last year, like i was in a class with her, she was just one of those people i'd say hi and smile in the hall to. this year everytime we pass each other we both look away, and i don't know why! i haven't said one word to her all year, but i reallllllly like her....

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Sucky position


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 4:39 pm

Okay background info first.
so I went to a show the other day, and there was some guy that needed an extra ticket. I had one, and let him have it really cheap, and I chilled with him the whole night, he picked me up the next night, I hung out with him for that whole night and stayed over there with my best friend. The next day I got to kind of know him, and we cuddled and made out. He's a really sweet guy, but the only problem is he lives a good 30 minute drive away, and I can't drive. Also doubt my dad approves of me dating a guy 3 years older than me. Right now i'm pretty limited to only seeing him at shows, or unless he comes and get's me on weekends. I guess what im trying to get advice on is making the decision of either going a...

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I like him and its killing me..


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 3:58 pm

Ever since I was 12 years old, I had a crush on this guy (same age). We're now both almost 16 and he still doesn't know. He's been in most of my classes from the 6th grade to the 10th grade. We don't really talk. But we sometimes sit next to eachother (either from a seating chart or somewhere else) but we still never talk. Now, believe me...the crush is HUGE. I have ALWAYS tried EVERYTHING possible to get his attention lol.
Me and this guy speak the same language. The problem is that..I think I intimidate him ??...Like, I'm one of the smartest people in my class and I think that's a big turn-off because you'll always hear the teacher calling my name as the highest score or something. I also always used to cry in the 7th/8th grade bec...

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I like him and its killing me..


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 3:56 pm

Ever since I was 12 years old, I had a crush on this guy (same age). We're now both almost 16 and he still doesn't know. He's been in most of my classes from the 6th grade to the 10th grade. We don't really talk. But we sometimes sit next to eachother (either from a seating chart or somewhere else) but we still never talk. Now, believe me...the crush is HUGE. I have ALWAYS tried EVERYTHING possible to get his attention lol.
Me and this guy speak the same language. The problem is that..I think I intimidate him ??...Like, I'm one of the smartest people in my class and I think that's a big turn-off because you'll always hear the teacher calling my name as the highest score or something. I also always used to cry in the 7th/8th grade bec...

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finguring yourself


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 3:38 pm

ok so i am now 14 and i have been gettin weird feeling about my body and i have beenwanting to fingure myself and have sex. so the other day i fingured myself and i loved it. i did it for about 30 min. and then i had a guy do it. is that bad.

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Talking to Crush!!!!!!


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 2:07 pm

f/15

Well I really like this guy and he's in 1 of my classes, but the problem is, he literally sits on the other side of the classroom from me. So that makes it harder for me to go talk to him. If he sat like beside me or in front of me then I could talk to him, but now I don't even get the chance to! So what can I do??? Any ideas on how I can go about talking to him??? Thanx in advance!

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emo/gothic guys


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 2:02 pm

why do i always fall in love with the emo/gothic guys, it doesnt matter who they are or what they look like, i mean he could be the ugliest and fattest guy in the world and i will still fall for him. can anyone tell me why im in lvoe wiht all the emo/gothic guys?!?

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Oh boy, life sure is funny, huh?


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 3:37 am

When I finally think I'm over this a**hole (who used me..) life puts a spin on things.

You see I was so excited that I finally liked someone new, that I was getting this loser out of my head, that I decided to introduce him to my friends (I didnt tell them I liked him, just that we were friends) and the first thing they say? "Wow he's exactly like Richard, they could be twins!!" (Richard, of course, being the A**hole!) ha ha ha ha - funny, right?! >.<

And I take a second look, and its true. They look a like, act a like, have the same intersts, same attitude towards woman (plaaaayers!) same EVERYTHING!

Now what do I do about this? Keep going around falling for Richards all the tim...

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everything sucks =[


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 1:44 am

my boyfriend used to be the one to care more and like me more and everything so he used to tell me to care more and now im the one who is overcaring and telling him i love him..he used to tell me he loves me and now doesnt anymore because he says i take it too seriously..how do i get him to do nice things for me again and show me again that he DOES care..please help me im so hurt. =[

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falling for a guy over the internet!


Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 12:27 am

first off im 16. ok so a few days ago i met this guy on facebook. we started talking a lot, and then talking on myspace. we dont live like anywhere near eachother but, i really am starting to like him! he is only like a year or 2 older, super cute and funny. and hes so sweet. we have a lot in common too. i mean im not too worried hes gonna come and rape me or anything haha, i havent said many personal things, and he seems like a good guy, im even talking to some of his friends. we talk a lot, and it seems hes starting to like me haha. please dont say omg be careful he could be an old creepy guy haha. i am just wondering, is this weird? whenever i talk to him i cant help but smile. am i weird to feel this way? haha thanks.

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tell me im beautiful!lol


Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 11:54 pm

ok so i really like my bf but hes kinda unexperienced in some stuff!like giving me comments!!all my friends bf's tell them their sexy or beutiful but mine doesnt!he treats me good and i truelly beleive he does think im pretty i just want to hear it from him!i dont think im ugly but it feels nice to hear your bf tell you how pretty he thinks you are! but how do i get him to tell me that?ive talked to him before about him giving me comments and he was all like what do you want me to say!he shows how much he likes me but i want to hear him tell me it to!so how is my question?ill rate and thanx!

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CHristmas!!


Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 11:53 pm

Okay hey i am a bi-sexual. I have a girlfriend named haley and i love her to death. and since christmas is coming up i do not know what to get her. im so scared cuz she already got me something. and said i will love it so any idea's?? please help love yall please help me

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my crush, my love note, and me (the chicken) - srry kinda lo


Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 10:21 pm

OMG! when i was walking home, I had made a note to my crush, (typed it, and anonymous ~ god i'm such a chicken) I went to his mail box droped it in and ran a little ways (so no one saw me, or i chickened out) now i'm afraid he'll know it's me! i even typed "pudding is yummy" as a hint (when ever say "pudding" he laughs, thinks it's a funny word) I'm not sure if he likes me though, i looked at every "does he like me" website on the computer he does all the things! (sometimes) other times he kind of ignores me (especially if his sister ~my friend~ isn't home) sometimes i wonder if he uses his sis as an excuse to talk to me, usually i'll end up sitting on his bed, in his room, just talking to him. he is so funny,...

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GIFT...is it ok ?


Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 8:54 pm

im a f/16
m/16boyfriend of 4months
christmas gift idea-

Ok well today he said that he likes this expensive sent thats $70 but he doesnt want to spend the money on it.
so i was thinking of getting it for christmas but if i get him that i wont be able to afford anything else.
its CHANEL ALLURE HOMME SPORT Great Sport Set
if that helps at all just thought i might share.

and his parents are prolly gonna be getting him his normal kind so idk if i should still do this :-\

does it sound ok?
or should i do something else
i need to know soon.

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were going out, BUT I LIKE HIM MORE THAN HE LIKES ME!


Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 8:38 pm

My most recent BF just asked me out wednesday, and i really like him. But for some reason i find myself always wanting to be with him. Like i've never wanted to be with any of my other BFs like i want to be with him. For some reason i think i like him more than he likes me....and it's really upsetting me. I'm always the one making the 1st moves and asking to hangout...becuase i want to spend time with him, and he's just goin along with it. HELP SOMEONE I have seriously cried over this before. ANY ADVICE???

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sex talk with my bf


Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 8:30 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a month now and when we're together we cannot keep our hands off each other. I'm a virgin. He's not. I'm 18 and he's 19. He respects me and loves me so I know he'd never force me into doing anything I don't want. We've never discussed sex and I want to discuss it with him so we can establish where we stand on the matter. I want to wait a while before we have sex. Even though I'm very physically and sexually attracted to him. I but I need to let him know where I stand. How should I bring it up, what should I say?

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i don't beleive in love anymore...


Posted Saturday November 24 2007, 6:37 pm

I know I'm only 18, and i'm very young, but I just don't beleive in love anymore. Cause i've never seen it actaully work. Yes i beleive in it to some extent but in the end we're only kidding ourselves. Its not real most of the time. You see real love in the movies all the time, but how many times do you see it in reality. Hardly. its like a once on a billion chance or something. You may think its love but later down the road the love it lost somewhere and you are only with that person because you don't know any better. At least this is what it seems like to me. I've had alot of interests in my days. I've had alot of almost boyfriends, never acutally a boyfriend though. I attract some guys, yes... they are sweet and friendly, some are just c...

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