ok, so i'm 16/f and i'm gay, but not out of the closet. like basically no one knows, and i'm not really outgoing. there is this girl who's 18 at my school, and she has a girlfriend. her girlfriend is kind of an ass though. they've been together a while, but i think she hooked up with this girl in the first place to make an ex jealous, and now is just staying with her. basically it doesn't seem like a really intense relationship. basically i like this girl a LOT. i used to talk to her last year, like i was in a class with her, she was just one of those people i'd say hi and smile in the hall to. this year everytime we pass each other we both look away, and i don't know why! i haven't said one word to her all year, but i reallllllly like her. What should i do??? please help, i want her to know i'm gay but i'm not ready to come out
Shelly_x answered Monday November 26 2007, 10:15 am: Start talking to her again, when you see each other dont look away, make an effort to start a conversation with her. Ask her how she is and ask her if you can hang around with her at lunch.
try to ask her questions like how people reacted when she came out and then tell her you are gay. Tell her not to tell anyone yet though because you arent ready for everyone to know right now. Maybe when she knows you are gay she will realise you like her.
She might not realise right now because she doesnt know if you are gay for sure
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