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i'm gay:(
ok, 16/f. i'm gay. and nobody knows! i really want to meet a girl because i've never had a gf, and i want one, but what do i do. The thing is, i go to a tiny school, nobody is homophobic really, but some people are uncomfortable and awkward around it. for some reason, out of all of the girls in my class, the ones i'm friends with are kind of preppy, "i love boys" type of people, and the out lesbians in my grade are REALLY annoying, so i don't hang out with them. if I came out i feel like i would be expected to switch "groups" or be kind of unwelcome in my group. they wouldn't be mean, it would just make life really uncomfortable and we probably would stop hanging out. what should i do? i'm friends with a bunch of seniors who are gay or who wouldn't care, but they are leaving at the end of the year! what should i do??
Also, how do I meet a girl even though i'm in the closet. i don't really like people my age though, so it's rare that i'll immediately be attracted to a girl my age, whereas i'm always crushing on older girls.
hellpppp
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go to a party, or go somewhere outside of your school. outsiders are fun. you don't HAVE to tell your school friends that you're gay if you don't want to disrupt anything. It's your own personal thing, not everybody else's business, but if you do end up meeting a girl you like and you might want a chance with her, bring it up casually. make a small move and see what she does. that's a out all i could say.
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You could ask the seniors you hang out with to introduce you to some gay/bisexual girls. It might help if you do hang around with the gay people in your grade aswell as the friends you have now. It will help you be more confident in trying to find a girlfriend.
You could try and find some gay friends online too.
Also dont be scared to tell your friends you are gay, if they really are your friends they will accept you and will not let it affect your friendship
Hope this helped hun
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