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first date


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 6:42 pm

16/f I recently asked a guy out to the movies. It's my first date and I'm super nervous. I just need some advice. I know to not be nervous and to be myself and such... but what do I like DO on the date? Like when we're at the movies, do I just sit there and watch the movie? I don't want him to think I'm ignoring him! and what do you usually do afterwards, if I'm not comfortable eating in front of him, and we can't go back to either of our houses.... Please help! I will rate all advice. THANK YOU SO MUCH!

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flirt


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 6:14 pm

how do you know if a guy likes you or is flirting with u?im 13

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the long awaited kiss


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 6:02 pm

i've been friends with benefits with this guy (my best friend) for 2 years! well on and off. there were some actual relationships with other people scattered through the years. anyway...we have never kissed!! not even a little peck! I always found it weird that we haven't....considering we've done almost everything else with each other. he's said that he wants to kiss me and i've told him that i did too and we've had sooo many oportunities but neither of us just went for it.


help us please

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being led on?


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 5:42 pm

So the guy I like is so overly nice to me, but I worry that hes just leading me on. He always tells me that Im amazing/incrdible, that I look good, that he misses me, etc. Weve even stayed up til 4 talking on the phone before. i hear that he flirts with other girls, but i dont actually see him doing it so idk if hes the same with all of them. How far will guys really lead you on? Is that what this ones doing?

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Moving!


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 5:16 pm

My bgf told me he loves me and i think i may love him too. We most likely are going to be starting a serious relationship soon, well as soon as im ready. who knows how long that will be lol! but i know he wants a relationship and really cares about me. like i said he just told me he loves me. anyways i knew moving was a possibility but now its a pretty good chance meaning most likely. if you get what i mean. tho my parents are (of course) all like well you never know we might stay blah, blah. i know that we basically will with a small chance of actually staying. ANYWAYS i really want to tell my bgf esp. if we start a relationship. i just want him to know what could happen. my mom says if i do he will be like good bye! but he wouldnt do that...

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Not enough time.


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 5:04 pm

Ok im 14 & im a female.

Me & my boyfriend just started dating & i like him alot. Problem is, im in the 8th grade & hes in the 7th grader(but he failed so hes suppose to be in 8th grade), so we have no classes together. And he has to take intensive classes so we cant have electives together either. The good thing though is I live in the neighborhood right next to his, so I can walk over there, even though its a 15 minute walk. But still, we obviousley dont hang out as much as he wants us too, because this is the 2nd time we went out, & last time he broke up with me because we never got to see each other. And now hes telling people how he likes me alot but never gets to see me. The thing is, I hang out with ...

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i need ideas:P


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 4:37 pm

20 f
hey i am writing a 70 page book to my boyfriend. im writing letters to him in it and small stories but im trying to think of maybe little games or something extra to put in anyone got any ideas? sorry if this is kind of vague

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i like this guy but i know my friend likes him too.


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 4:35 pm

okay, i like this guy alex, but i know that my friend tessa likes him too. But the thing is; she won't the make first move to go after hime.
What should i do?

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boyyss [ sorry its long lol ]


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 4:03 pm

Well how can you tell if a guy likes you?
Because there is this guy and i don't like him because we're pretty much best friends. But i think he likes me cuz he's always saying "do you like anyone?" and then i say idk except i do like a guy. Yeah but theres one problem, the guy i like doesnt like me. Or at least i think? I told him i like him and he didnt really answer he was like like oh. So i dont know if he is embaressed to say something, because i think he's just shy if we see eachother in the hall he looks away. Anyyway, I'm not sure if the guy who i THINK likes me, knows that i dont like him. And i dont know if i should tell him i like someone else and make him feel bad, or if i should just not saying anything because ...

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over it?/


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 4:02 pm

im 15 should be a great step toward the real world! rite? but i have a probelm the ex bf i had of 9 months has been gone for 3 months i think? im still trying to get over it but its not working sometimes he calls me like yesterday but i made myself not talk to him... he didnt even say happy bday to me i was so sad and the annerversy that wold have been a year is coming up realll close and idk how im going to stay cool lets say he seems perfectly ok b,c he called asking if he can have the neckalce he bought me back and i said i lost it so no he isnt going to get it back talk about asshole and he said b4 he was going to tell me this i dont mean to b an asshole but. ne way i neeed major help getting over this sad obstacle any suggestions

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if this bad?


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:44 pm

hey so theres this guy... and we went out for like a week. hes indian but hes pretty good looking. but anyways we both kindaa like each other and were wicked good friends. however i feel bad because if he asks me out, i would say no... and this sounds really mean but it might be because of his looks.

like i thought to myself, if he wasnt indian and he was amazingly good looking then i would probably go out with him. i swear im not racist!! is this really bad??!

14/f

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how can i tell him?


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:16 pm

hey so my boyfriend and i have a great relationship. we are never awkward at all and we talk ALL the time. but today i was feeling really tired and just not that talkative and i noticed after i got home from school that we didnt talk at all. and i feel like the only reason we didnt was that i didnt talk to HIM. i doubt he did it purposely but like.. he could have said something to me without me having to come up to him and say something. also he really shows he likes me when we just hang out alone, (kissing/holding hands) but at school he just like treats me like a friend and most of the time when we are around other people even out of school. i dont want him to be all lovey dovey around me when other people are around.. but it would be nic...

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help


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:01 pm

i am madly in love with this guy. everytime i see him i fall in love all over again. we have had a past but he doesn't wanna be with me anymore=[ i cry all the time. i need help falling out of love=[

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I can't see him the same now.


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 6:10 am

If you discovered that your drunken boyfriend had gotten a blowjob at a party from a stranger whose name he didn't even know, would you be bothered by this? I might add this was a couple of years ago, before we knew each other. He just admitted it to me and I've been weird about it ever since. I haven't even been able to talk to him. I can't get it off my mind. I've just totally lost respect for him for it. I realize people make mistakes but it's really bothering me. =/ He does regret it at least but still.

So..uh.. what's wrong with me? How can I stop holding this against him? Do I have a right to look down on him for this?


19/f



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I liked him alot


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:25 am

okay
im 15/f I liked this boy who asked me out one month and one week ago.We dated for a month and on our one month anniversary he dumped me.He said he loved me and he wanted us to be together forever.I finally said i loved him back.I am mad.I just can't understand what went wrong.I know i did nothing wrong.........So now what?
question is........Should I start dating and make him realize he was wrong and he'll miss me but still go out with the one that makes my ex jealous?Should I tell my ex how I feel but yet I want nothing to do wth him anymore?What do I do?
If there is anyone who can help great if not thanx anyways.
Hopefully he realizes Im the one he loves.
Signed,
Sis15

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does she like me as a friend, or more?


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 1:21 am

Over the past two months I became good friends with this girl in physics class. She always makes an effort to talk to me, is always nice to me, and even made me a cd for me a while back out of nowhere after she asked me if I liked a certain band. She also copied notes for me one time. She asked me my number too recently, so we could study together, and when we got done and I was walking to my car, she also stopped and picked me up (my car was maybe 30 feet away), and we talked alone in her car. we went and got coffee at school a few days after that (after she waited a few mins for me to finish our exam since she finished first). She even dropped out of her lab project group to be in mine after I couldn't get in her's. She also asked me to g...

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This guy


Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 1:03 am

13/f 8th grade

Ok I like this guy at my school....I think. I only have one class with him. He talks to me sometimes and always asks me for a piece of paper(don't ask why I added that..)

But I have no idea what to do. None of my friends know. My friends are really trustworthy though. The thing is I don't know everything about him and if I tell my friends that I like him they might think he's weird or something, you know. But I know I shouldn't care about what they think or anything but that I don't know much about him. I have hardly anytime to talk to him though except during extra time in my class.

I know he knows I exsist because he knows my name and talks to me so....I have no idea what to do...

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Talking


Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 10:54 pm

I have trouble talking to this girl that I really like, I havent been that good at talking to gils anyway, but I really like her what should I do?

P.S... I'm 15 years old

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does he like me?


Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 10:46 pm

ok well there is this guy that i really like but im not sure if he likes me too. this might be long but if you can answer please do!!

we get along great and whenever we see eachother we are super happy to see eachother and stuff. He kissed me one time but just a peck on the lips. but after that nothing happened. And i dont know i have the feeling he does because how he acts around me but i'm just not sure. One time he was sitting on a bench and he said to me "come sit next to me im lonely". So i did and then he kissed me on the cheek, but i didnt do anything and then he was jokin about something and i laughed and he said "well its the only action im going to get tongiht". do you think he was hinting someth...

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is 100$ to much for her.


Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 9:46 pm

ok i want to get my girlfriend a necklace and its 100$ and she said its way too much is it? we been goin out for two months now, but we knew each other for years, and we been good friends too and we been through a lot together, and i love her with all my heart.

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