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if this bad?
hey so theres this guy... and we went out for like a week. hes indian but hes pretty good looking. but anyways we both kindaa like each other and were wicked good friends. however i feel bad because if he asks me out, i would say no... and this sounds really mean but it might be because of his looks.
like i thought to myself, if he wasnt indian and he was amazingly good looking then i would probably go out with him. i swear im not racist!! is this really bad??!
14/f
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no its okayy.. i know exactly how you feel. this exact same thing happened to my best friend and its happened to be before. youre just embarrassed of what ppl will think im guessing. just tell him that you just want to be friends bc you dont wanna ruin your great friendship. its a good excuse and hopefully he'll understand!
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not bad at all im like that too ith black boys
there really cute id never date on though
so your not in the wrong.
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I think if you won't go out with him because he's indian then that would make you racist, but that may not necesarily be it. Maybe there are other reasons and you're just using his looks as an excuse? I dont know, but if the true reason you wont go out with him is because of his looks then you shouldn't be friends with him because he doesn't deserve that from someone. A friend should be able to look past that kind of thing and you obviously don't like him enough, so DONT lead him on. I think that's pretty shallow, but like I said maybe there are hidden reasons and you're just using that as an excuse. Whatever it is figure it out and then either stop leading him on or look past whatever is bothering you.
I'm sorry if that sounded a bit harsh, but I just hate when people only go by looks
Hope this helped =)
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Don't be so shallow.
Look past that stupid stuff!
But if you really don't feel comfortable with im, then don't be bf/gf with him. Stay good friends, there's nothing wrong with that. You have to be REALLy comfortable with your boyfriend, so yeah.
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