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i am madly in love with this guy. everytime i see him i fall in love all over again. we have had a past but he doesn't wanna be with me anymore=[ i cry all the time. i need help falling out of love=[
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Time, and distance.
Those are the only two things that really work.
Its hard. Its incredibly hard. Three months ago I was broken up with. She cheated before she did.
I am still head over heels in love with her. I'm actually seeing someone else and hoping that I can forget. But I know that its probably not going to happen. I know that the depth to which I loved this girl is never going to go away, and in 10 years if we are both single and meet again I will throw myself back into a relationship and try to work it out.
Most people never fall completely out of love. But eventually with time it doesnt hurt any more. I don't miss her like I did. I don't feel empty inside when I go to bed alone anymore. I don't miss the sound of her voice and the smell of her hair. Time has healed me a good bit, though I still have a little ways to go.
Give yourself time. You cant speed it up. The one thing you can do is avoid him. Because every time you see him, it sets you back. You can make two months progress, and seeing him sets you back a month. Another 6 months go by, you see him, it sets you back 3 months. Eventually, its set back a week. Then a day. Then not at all.
If you can, see other people. You miss all the things he did for you, but if you find someone else who can fill some of that void it can help alot. Thats what I've done. And I'm falling for someone else now.
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Love is one of the hardest things to fall out of. I think that no matter what you do you will always have him in your heart and you will always love him. But the best thing to do is try and stay away from him and hang out with the girls... Meet someone who can make you happy and make you feel good
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