Question Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 5:16 pm
My bgf told me he loves me and i think i may love him too. We most likely are going to be starting a serious relationship soon, well as soon as im ready. who knows how long that will be lol! but i know he wants a relationship and really cares about me. like i said he just told me he loves me. anyways i knew moving was a possibility but now its a pretty good chance meaning most likely. if you get what i mean. tho my parents are (of course) all like well you never know we might stay blah, blah. i know that we basically will with a small chance of actually staying. ANYWAYS i really want to tell my bgf esp. if we start a relationship. i just want him to know what could happen. my mom says if i do he will be like good bye! but he wouldnt do that i dont think. he are super close and really understand each other and i just want him to know its a chance. i wouldnt same we most likely are just thats there is a chance. If we start a relationship what would i do if i didnt tell him? it would be this summer and thats not too far away. 6 months. i cant start a relationship then be like oh btw after all we have gone through and us finally dating after liking each other off and on for a couple years im moving halfway across the country! do u guys think i should tell him? or no? thanks so much and i will rate all of your opinions!!!
Additional info, added Wednesday November 28 2007, 9:45 pm: near the end i said i wouldnt same i meant say tho sry! ;). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lilmzhotstuff answered Thursday November 29 2007, 1:20 am: honestly if i were you......i would tell him about it without even thinking about it! well i would think about it in the sense of how to tell him. lol. dont wait til the last minute cause that will just put him in major shock mode! and you dont want that. and besides maybe if you tell him now, he'll make a move and you guys could be together for the time that your still here and who knows? maybe you guys can have a long-distance relationship! or you could end up staying there and your relationship could be almost perfect!
hope this helps!
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wisemen answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 9:47 pm: well since he is your best guy friend then you should tell him before you date and when he knows he will want to spend every moment he can with you since you're best friends and you're going to move and have some real great last moment memories. Hope all goes well! [ wisemen's advice column | Ask wisemen A Question ]
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