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Not enough time.
Ok im 14 & im a female.
Me & my boyfriend just started dating & i like him alot. Problem is, im in the 8th grade & hes in the 7th grader(but he failed so hes suppose to be in 8th grade), so we have no classes together. And he has to take intensive classes so we cant have electives together either. The good thing though is I live in the neighborhood right next to his, so I can walk over there, even though its a 15 minute walk. But still, we obviousley dont hang out as much as he wants us too, because this is the 2nd time we went out, & last time he broke up with me because we never got to see each other. And now hes telling people how he likes me alot but never gets to see me. The thing is, I hang out with him as much as i can, alot of days after school & on the weekends. I mean i cant hang out with him everyday, because i do have a life of my own after all, even though i like him alot, i still want time for school work & my friends & my family, you know?
So my question is, what can I do to maintain this relationship, should i even try, & will this be able to work out for much longer?
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I say taht if he can't give you teh time you want to be with your family, friends and school work then he isn't worth being with. i know you like him a lot but if he can't respect you for what you want then he isn't wnat you want. You wnat to be able to be with him but not 24/7. You want to spend time with him just not your whole life. He needs to understand taht haveing a girlfriend, you are not supposed to be together everyday. You need a break and extra time for yourself. So if he doesn't respect what you want then i say to give up. Good luck and i hope this helped.
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relationships are hard... but sometimes you need to decide if it's worth it.
You gotta admit... you can't just see him everyday and not catch up with your family, and friends right?? so you need to talk to him. Talk to him and ask him if its worth keeping the relationship. Tell him exactly what you said in here. That you have a life and its not possible to be with him everyday. If he dumps you over that, then he's not even worth it because the guys that absolutely adore you are the guys who will understand that kind of stuff. So if he dumps you over that reason, then he proably doesn't even like you that much and just wants a girlfriend.
I hope I made your problem easier
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