Question Posted Wednesday November 28 2007, 3:25 am
okay
im 15/f I liked this boy who asked me out one month and one week ago.We dated for a month and on our one month anniversary he dumped me.He said he loved me and he wanted us to be together forever.I finally said i loved him back.I am mad.I just can't understand what went wrong.I know i did nothing wrong.........So now what?
question is........Should I start dating and make him realize he was wrong and he'll miss me but still go out with the one that makes my ex jealous?Should I tell my ex how I feel but yet I want nothing to do wth him anymore?What do I do?
If there is anyone who can help great if not thanx anyways.
Hopefully he realizes Im the one he loves.
Signed,
Sis15
uhgghh MEN, can't understand them..never will. NO, you shouldn't date someone to spite ur ex. Because imagine how that boy will feel, he'll feel just like you felt when your ex dumped you. Personally, I don't think you should tell your ex how you feel. How dare he dumps you on your 1 month anniversary after you finally said you loved him back. You have the right to be mad, because honestly i would be mad too. So basically, it's best to move on. You're young, live your life,..and trust me..you'll definitely find the right guy that's worth your time!!!
WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 4:52 pm: You're 15 and it was a month long.
This will give you some good experience. Saying that you love someone and want to be together forever after less than a month is completely unrealistic. It takes years to fully get to know a person. I had an almost 3 year relationship end and I still didnt and don't know her ins and outs.
Love is fickle and shallow when you're young. You have never felt that knowing commitment, you dont have a frame of reference to place "together forever" in. Don't worry about it too much. Date other guys. Don't wait for him. Take what you learned in the relationship and apply it to someone new. Theres always someone new. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
tremblett answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 4:47 pm: Hey hun,
Your 15 and your so young he probably doesn't even know what love is. At a young age people always tend to say i love you in a relationship. I would just ignore him not let him know that it is bothering you. But if you want to make him jelious make sure that you are not hurting the person you want to make him jelious with. It's better to move on with yourself and just be with your friends. Dont let guys hold you back or upset me.. Another thing don't believe someone when they tell you that they love you unless you knwo they really mean it.. And right now love isnt important. Like is important school and friends.. [ tremblett's advice column | Ask tremblett A Question ]
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