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boyfriend anxiety


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 11:24 pm

15/f

My bf and i have been going out for a month, and i feel like we're already falling apart! I'm in a diff. part of the country for 3 weeks and recently i've noticed that he's rarely online and when he is he like doesn't pay attention to me and we basically never talk anymore. He deleted me from his facebook interests but he still has me listed as in a relationship. Whenever we go on dates he seems all happy to be around me and stuff- I know there's probably nothing to worry about, but I just can't stop thinking about this! I'm always like "oh god what if he's not interested anymore" and like "what if he won't date me when I get back?" and stupid crap like that.

HOW CAN I STOP OBSESSING OV...

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notice me?


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 9:56 pm

i really like this boy and he just acts as a friend around me and i would like to make it more. How can i get him to notice me and flirt back with me?

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i cant tell


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 9:44 pm

my friend and i like the same guy...and i told him how i felt and she didnt and he didnt go for me...no big deal...but then she was talking to him on msn and he said what would you do if i asked you out??? and i would be proud and happy for her but i cant tell if i still like him, i thought i was over him but when i found out that she liked him i just felt something come over me like hey you still like him...but i cant tell if im just jealous or not...i dont care if he likes her and they date i just want him to be happy with what he gets..apparently me n him wasnt meant for each other, but how can i tell if i still like him or if it is just me feeling like my territory is invaded because i stated my feelings buit he didnt go for me, and she dont do nothing and she might get him??

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But he said??????


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 7:52 pm

Okay, I have two questions. One is this one girl is soooo annoying me, spreading rumors and starting crap. I have tried my hardest to be nice to her, giving her Christmas cards, telling her that I like her accessories (I have to wear a uniform), and many other things. But she still doesn't like me, calling me a bitch behind my back and saying things that were not true. One day I just lost it, 'cause she was saying that I couldn't talk to my friend Crystal because she was her friend. So now, if I even see here, I wanna punch her. What should I do?

Second question is about the girl's boyfriend. I am the new girl at my school, and I was hearing that her boyfriend was saying that I am cute and that he liked me. This is probably ...

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help. =/.


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 7:08 pm

okay. so i've been going out with this guy for almost a year now. and i love him. but sometimes he annoys me to no end. and i think that we would be better with other people. now dont get me wrong i do want to be with him. but am i wrong for thinking this? and another question is that.
a couple of days ago. i started talking to an old friend that i used to like, well i started to feel like i might like him again, but i hung out w/ him today and decide that i dont. but is it wrong to think that too.....or what..
any advice is much appreciated.
thanks.

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GIFT! PLEASE HELP!


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 4:04 pm

f/15

Christmas is RIGHT around the corner and i have NO clue what to get my boyfriend. almost everything i, or my friends, can think of, doesnt work because a) he wont use it b) its impersonal or c) its not "him". i think he'd be happy if i got him something gay, but i want it to have sentimental value, you know?


also,
-we've been dating for almost a year now.
-plays lacrosse and football
-hes a little bit of a partyer
-kinda preppy but not mega preppy
-tough
-doesnt like to shop much

so thats that. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
and i have to have it by christmas, cause im eating christmas dinner at his house. :/



thank you for any help!

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boyfriend


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 4:03 pm

ive been going out with kid for only a week and a day. when he asked me out, it was really random and stuff(i didnt really like him) but as the week went on, we talked on the phone and in the halls and my best friend and her boyfriend said us 4 should hang out at her byfriends house. so i was really excited the whole day. so we got there and said hi and kissed and then the 4 of us made it to the couch. he kinda had his hand over my boob and suff but not like a prev grab kinda way, like i didnt mind it. so i felt weird making out in front of my best friend and her bf( they have been going out for a year and obvii are experienced a lot and stuff) so i kinda just laied in his arms and i knew he wanted to make out. well my friend and her bf l...

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movies.


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 1:20 pm

14/f.
Lastnight me and this guy G were going to go to the movies, he said he would call me. So he never did but i went anyways with my friends, after my movie was over we went outside and i saw him there with some other chick. I looked at him so coldly, then he tried to play everything off like it was cool. His friend was there too, which i also was talking too, but i didn't know they were friends. So I went in the movie with them and then I told G something which had happened that morning involving him, so I sat down on the other side of him since the girl he was with sat where I was. He told me "you can sit down if you want to". At that point i was so pissed that I just left, and he called me this morning. I was asleep b...

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How can you tell if he likes you?


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 12:22 pm

13/f
i am 13 and i like this boy alot!!!! but he's a year younger but still in the same grade. i don't know if he likes me...i have his sn and his cell number and his e-mail b/c me and my friend made up a plan about getting it, but that's not the problem. I like him but does he like me?? he's nice to me and makes me laugh all the time...please , please, please,please, please help me! thank you soooo much!

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how do i break up with my boyfriend?


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 12:14 pm

my bf is starting to bore me. when ever we hang out or hold hands in the hallway he never says a word. i try to start a conversation and i feel like im talking to myself. also he has no experience bc im his first gf so my friends always tell him to put his arm around me and stuff. also i like the guy to make the first move. i no he might be shy but he doesn't do anything with me. im really not into him at all anymore and when ever he comes near me i think...great hes here now. he totally turning me off now. i like a lot of my guy friends more than i like him. how can i break up with him bc i don't want to hurt his feelings and i will feel really bad. thx in advance♥

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I cant find a boyfriend


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 12:06 pm

I am depressed. I cant a get boyfriend worth jack skippy. Ima tell u about myself. I am 5'2. 245lbs. Im black but light skin like Chris Brown or Alicia Keys and shoulder length hair thats a dark brown. i have regular brown eyes and a nice big smile. I dress in hoodies and jeans a lot. I dont like showing a lot of skin because im fat. Dont wanna look nasty and trashy. I dont wear make up. I was born with a disease that make me hairy so I got thick eyebrows and sideburns and i got a light musache and i grow a few strains of hair on my chin. i use to go get my chin and eyebrows professionally waxed but the woman were talkin about me.

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My ex boyfriend =\


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 10:59 am

Okay I'm 13/f he's 14/m [ going to be 15 in January ] , we've dated off and on for 6 months. We were really serious for a long time back in June - September then when he went into high school [grade 9] and I'm still in grade 8 [we go to diffrent schools until next year] Amyways , I lost my virginity to him and a while after he started grtting stressed from highschool and smoking [ I smoke to ] and doing weed [ I do it too ] and he's changed some , but he's still the guy I used to be so serious with and he knows I really love him still and the problem is he's dating my bestfriend [it's not as bad as it seems] but he likes this other girl too .

So , he does like me though . So , I was wondering how I could try to get him to li...

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christmas present


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 9:17 am

do u think 50 dollars is too cheap to gv a bf for christmas weve been together for only 2 and a 1/2 months.....and also any idea wat to rite in d card???

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please tell me whats going on


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 4:16 am

i used to had a boyufriend we were together for 2 years and a half and afte r several things like him not being tolerant enough , and him criticising everything i do , wehre do i go , who do i talk to , my friends, family, my clothes, the things i like to do , and even the music i like to listen to ....this was a huge deal for me and i d ont want him back cause hes done kind of cheating things to me , but a part of me still wants him to be there, but i dont want him back! but when i notices he stops talking to me or things like this i always do something that give him like the hope we are getting back (oh cause he always try to make us be together again) the weird part ...is that a part of me knows that im better of without him, and hes not...

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Call him or Ignore him?


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 3:29 am

I'll make this short and simple.

Last year, I went with a guy to Homecoming, a friend set us up. We danced really dirty, became friends. Hung out twice: went to movies and once to taco bell. There are periods when he calls me often... I don't call him often at all.

I have been ignoring his messages ever since we went to taco bell, about September-ish. He texted me 3-4 times, never called me. All the texts said was what's up.

Today, 12:15am, I get three missed calls from him, a text message saying "whats up hadn't talked to you in hella long" and then a voicemail saying "I miss you call me back as soon as you can."

I don't like this boy. He seems fake, he used ...

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ANOTHER BOY QUESTION


Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 1:39 am

okay well there is this boy and he just is driving me nuts. Like i have liked him sense november something. and i like him alot and he always jokes about having sex with me and i guess this sounds nasty and wrong but i guess i sorda like it because it makes me like him more. I think he dosnt like me though and i have no clue on how to tell if he does and i also want to know if a boy likes when a girl make outs with him before their going out? How are you sopposed to know how to kiss and when to?

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how do i know if he still likes me


Posted Friday December 21 2007, 10:20 pm

18/f

so theres this kid who ive been talkin to and he has a gf but last month when we were txting back and forth he told me he liked me. but now when we talk its different and i cant tell if he still likes me. how do i know if he still likes me without actually saying do u still like me.

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MEHH.


Posted Friday December 21 2007, 10:03 pm

So , Many of you may remember my past post , About likeing someone and not being to happy with it XDD
Well , I have come to face the fact , I do like him . And there's nothing to do to prevent it , Just let it fade .
ANYWAYS , So I found out this other girl likes him XD . And she seems to think that he likes her aswell , In her oppionon . All of this because there were no spots left in the gym and he sat beside her . Not the point though .
Now , I don't think he likes me . Butt , I think we might have something ;] .
You see , I had to dance with him in dance . Butt , Ughh I was kind of nervous . So , Was he .
Sometimes I catch him staring -.- .
Andd , We also both play the same sport , Not many fema...

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Get out there dont be scared


Posted Friday December 21 2007, 9:39 pm

14/f Ive never had a boyfriend. I want to have a guy that I can just be with we dont need to have the boyfriend girlfriend title. Im not extremely talkative but to those I really know I am. What could I do to put myself more out there, and to get noticed more and not be nervous about having a relationship?

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My boy friend and I


Posted Friday December 21 2007, 9:25 pm

Ok well my Boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 weeks now...And i think that i am ready 2 kiss him.But when we get close i get all nervous and i just like laugh or giggle.He laughs to and then he says it's ok and kisses me on the cheek and hugs me and says u have 2 get ready..i am wondering how do i kiss him the right way? without messing up?

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