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I cant find a boyfriend
I am depressed. I cant a get boyfriend worth jack skippy. Ima tell u about myself. I am 5'2. 245lbs. Im black but light skin like Chris Brown or Alicia Keys and shoulder length hair thats a dark brown. i have regular brown eyes and a nice big smile. I dress in hoodies and jeans a lot. I dont like showing a lot of skin because im fat. Dont wanna look nasty and trashy. I dont wear make up. I was born with a disease that make me hairy so I got thick eyebrows and sideburns and i got a light musache and i grow a few strains of hair on my chin. i use to go get my chin and eyebrows professionally waxed but the woman were talkin about me.
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you can be different and still be beautiful! you need to embrace the way you are. everyone is beautiful in their own way. if you are self concious about your looks, then do what you can to fix them! only, of course, if you feel comfortable doing so.
if getting waxed makes you feel uncomfortable, try at home waxing kits. they're easy to use and inexpensive.
being heavy isn't the end of the world. you don't need to show a lot of skin to look good! you can wear clothes that suit your figure and make you look and feel great!
i hope i've made you feel better about yourself. good luck in the future!
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i am short and heavy just like you are. i remember feeling lonely and wanting a boyfriend, but dont feel down about it. you will find a great guy who loves you for who you are. i have been with my bf for almost 2 years. for now, just hang out with friends, get to know new people, and someday you will find a great guy. for now , enjoy being single and spending lots of time with friends. i see you edited your question asking for ways to upgrade yourself. remember, do this for YOU , not to get some guy. i have really pretty friends, and sometimes you can tell the only reason why they are interested is because of their beauty which is no good.
excersizing and eating right is an option..i should probably follow this piece of advice myself, if it will help with your confidence, maybe go back to getting your hair waxed. dont listen to what people say, who cares?
:) dont get down about being single, i beleive there is someone out there for everyone. you will meet the right guy.
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Not to be mean, but if you aren't happy with your wait you could eat healthy and/ or workout more moften. You could grow the hair on top of your head longer and go to a different salon an get your eyebrows done. Good luck!
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sweetie, we are one in the same. I know its hard, but soon you will find someone who loves you for you, not what you look like. I know exactly how you feel, also, it sounds like you have the same disease I do, poly cystic ovarian syndrome, if thats not what you are diagnosed with, look into it. really has help me tremendously. If you have any more questions feel free to ask me, becauase I'm going through the same thing. I hope i helped
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well have confidence. dont worry. just what you do best. dont worry you will get plenty of boys in your life but its up to you to decide which one is best for you. i think you should turn the question around. instead of thinking why i cant find a boyfriend think why my future boyfriend cant find me. Leagally 18? HIT a club, bar. be choosy. relax. there is this saying "when a hunter cant find a prey, he lets the prey find him" or something like that. and try a beauty parlor. TC
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