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I am depressed. I cant a get boyfriend worth jack skippy. Ima tell u about myself. I am 5'2. 245lbs. Im black but light skin like Chris Brown or Alicia Keys and shoulder length hair thats a dark brown. i have regular brown eyes and a nice big smile. I dress in hoodies and jeans a lot. I dont like showing a lot of skin because im fat. Dont wanna look nasty and trashy. I dont wear make up. I was born with a disease that make me hairy so I got thick eyebrows and sideburns and i got a light musache and i grow a few strains of hair on my chin. i use to go get my chin and eyebrows professionally waxed but the woman were talkin about me. (link)
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well have confidence. dont worry. just what you do best. dont worry you will get plenty of boys in your life but its up to you to decide which one is best for you. i think you should turn the question around. instead of thinking why i cant find a boyfriend think why my future boyfriend cant find me. Leagally 18? HIT a club, bar. be choosy. relax. there is this saying "when a hunter cant find a prey, he lets the prey find him" or something like that. and try a beauty parlor. TC
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Okay. I'm 17 & he's 39.
So i recently moved in with my dad & one of his friends & my dad's friend & i started talking & then we started texting. Now our relationship has gone further. We been kissing & having sex for over two months now! I don't feel bad about our age gap because i dont think that there's age for love. The thing is that his son knows & his ex wife thinks we are dating & she keeps threating to tell the police. I really do like him & he doesn't act anything like a 39 year old. I'm just not sure if our relationship is worth hiding until i'm 18 [in 84 days!] Sometimes its getting harder to hide it but i do want to be with him. I dont want to dissapoint my father but i think that he has an idea, sorta, about our 'friendship' [we stay up & play chess when my dad is home]. I just dont want to hurt people & i dont want people to think less of me because i'm with someone with a son. =/ & his son loves me & wants me with his dad. His son is going through a hard divorce [not literally since they were never married] & i help him out with his troubles. What should i do? (link)
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Okeyy so hes 2 and 1/2 times your age. so what. if you love him nobody can do a thing. Your young, you got your whole modeling life ahead of you. so for your own sake, think things over. Two things you can do rite nowww.
1. Give the whole situation a thought, i mean no offence, he is quite older than you and your parents wouldnt probably happy abt it for the time being. rite?
2. whenever your with him. try to set aside the hugging, cuddling, kissing and sex for a while and see if he is attracted towards you or does he really love you. remeber attraction and love are whole two different words.. attraction fades away real quick...But for some ppl love lasts for a life time.i wish you all the best....
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There is this guy I liked, I told about 10 of my friends. I've only known him for about 5 months but we were getting closer. And by the way he acted I fig. one of my friends may have slipped to him that I liked him. So one day being in the library he told me "I know you like me" and I like you too just a lil bit; So I've been thinking about what he said all week.
So I wrote him a note saying I liked him.
Before I gave him the note he asked if I talked to his g/f and I said no. Then he said" Cuz someone said they got someone watching me in class and all that ish" I was like no I didn't talk to her."
So I gave him the note, and the note said that I liked him but I don't want to get into trouble with his g/f.It was a short note. He was reading it when we were walking outta school. So I left, QUICKLY.
Then the next day, 1st pd. he doesn't say anything. I was like ok he's ignoring me. I know what to do in our next pd. then. Come 2nd then he asked to sleep on my stuff. I was kinda mad at him for not saying a thing in 1st, he was trying to catch my attention calling my name, saying : Look" but I wouldn't he got pissed said whatever then turned back around. Now he won't even talk to me like he used to.. I mean he sleeps on my stuff but thats about it, after that he says nothing more to me.
So I thought he already knew I liked him. I haven't talked to him about it, and I didn't want him to know that I like him, so should I just lie about it when I bring it up? Say was it mistake, I misunderstood you? I just made everything awkard.. Idk. What to do. Please help me. WHat do you think he thinks? (link)
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well im a guy and i hate it when the girl i like does not pay her attention to me...in revenge i dont talk to her either. in that way nobody talks to anybody and our relation just gets worse. Its simple really, just go to him and clear it out. tell him the whole thing frankly and that u like him and then see what he has to say. then you willl really know whats on his mind. Maybe he's thinking like "i want the her to make the first move". you never know. Theres is this saying that "when a person really likes you he/she keeps quiet(wants you to make the move)" or something like that.newzys. hope you get this cleared>
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hi, i'm a 15 year old 5'4 135lbs female.
i'm not too much over weight, but i have big hips and cottage cheese thighs and a stomach. i also have big lovehandles and even more fat folds but i'm not that fat i dont know whats wrong, i know my body type runs in the family on my mothers side for all women, but i cant figure out how to make it go away. i really want to start going to a gym, but i'm too young to have a membership of my own at my mothers gym, (or even a guest pass). this really makes me mad, and i want to go to somewhere like 24 hour fitness, or total fitness. my best friend is much bigger than i am, but shes also taller and weighs more, but she has a membership to 24hour fitness with her mom. i had a thought that if i can get a guess pass or member ship at her gym and go with her all the time maybe i could work all my fat and chubbyness off. i'm really not fat i just always feel gross and like i need to workout. i know that i get mad and angry alot and i do eat alot, but i always want to hurtsomeone or something, or break someone or something, i usually controll my agression and anger by working out or listening to music.
can anyone give me advice on what to do? should i ask my friends gym if i can join and go with her, or what should i do? how can i get rid of all my chubbyness? i really want feedback asap, because i dont like my body eventhough everyone always complements me on how nice i look...(usually they are looking at my butt or my breasts)
thanks a bunch!
Maya (link)
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i understand how you feel. but in my case i was 80 pounds overweight then i just burned it awayyyy... Well Maya in simple words the only thing you can do right NOW is jog, walk, run (just 7-10 mins a day) and stay in a low carb, low fat high protien and high fiber diet. as you are in a growing age you cant just stop eating. dont eat anything if your not hungry. eat the greeny fibers. its not going to do you any harm. stay out of the carb!!!!! and the brownies.umm yummy. and eat only the thing you reallly crave for. and when u know that ur cravings over just throw it away. no need to finish the plate. try to eat every 3 - 5 hrs in small amounts and ask for a joint membership (adult+minor)in that gym with your mom.im sure you'll get in. for motivation listen to good songs. wish you allll the best. takecare!!
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15/f What are some cute names I can put as my display name on myspace?? My name is Julie. Any suggestions??? (link)
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that or julezz, J.L, jizzle, jewlez or better JULIE...natural. it dosnt actually matter cuz its cute how ever u put it.
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ok it would be best if a guy answered this. ok mybf and i have had our problems but get over them. we are great together and have fun. i love him and vise versa i think. well he didn't call me the other day and didnt have a reason. i just had heart surgery and ask him to call cuz i was at the hospital still... i called him the next day and got over it. well he just told me that he has had a myspace for awhile and there are tons of his exs and chicks on there and on mine are all chicks to keep him happy. but its not like i care if he is friends with chicks or hang with them. if he cheats then he dont need me. but i just dont want to have my heart broken he has been my everything for so long and it would hurt bad i wish i could just get the signals he is sending he also told me to tell my friend that he used ot want to have sex with her and i think that is very disrespectful how do i tell him how i feel and how do i know whats going on (link)
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why dont YOU hang out with some boys and see if he's jealous or not. if he really has feeling for you he's goin to beat the s**t outta them. i think he does have feeling for you n all but he wants that extra fun. or you can tell him directly that you have to lose those myspace monkeys if you want me!!!if i were in his place i'd probably bring some flowers, chicken wings and get well card from hallmark when you were in hospital. probably thats y im not. newayz. wish you all the best.
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So, as you might predict, i like a boy.
And we flirt nonstop, and are both ridiculously attracted to each other. Thing is though, the way we flirt is a blatantly sexual--- though kind of joking--- way. Like, we're all over each other, but we laugh about it. We haven't kissed or anything, though we've gotten close to it. My worry is that he just wants to hook up or whatever, when I'm thinking more along the lines of seriously dating him. This guy is king of mixed messages, and I'm having trouble telling whether he thinks of me only in a sexual way, or as a potential girlfriend.
How do I make him think of me as a prospective gf? And how do I tell what he's thinking about me, short of reading his mind?
Answers from guys would be great, but all are appreciated.
(because advicenators told me i should: i'm 16 and a sophomore in high school) (link)
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well. there is always this option open that when you joke around you might want to tell him indirectly that i want serious relation not 1 night stand. tell him i like sex but nth is gonna happen if you dont take me seriously. get it cleared out. take care!!
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i totally need help. this is quite long so bare with me. the new york school said there is no special ed. the teachers (special ed are in the classrooms with us but im failing its too hard in english i got a 44 and social stidies a 38 help me what do i do do i need more accomondations what should i do (link)
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wat kinda school is it. Schools are supposed to specially help students who are failing.first tell your teachers that "look at me im failing gimme special attension". if that dont work out then go and tell your parents that i want to leave this shitty school and transfer yourself to some other school. thats wat i did and it helped a bit. TC
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