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Q: what do these hats look like when they're flat?

http://i151.photobucket.com/albums/s151/ba1leyyy/Picture036.jpg
theyre reallly flexible they just look like a pancake when flatened

Q: 13/f

My family is always arguing and yelling. Once my parents were fighting and my dad almost left, I was in my room crying. But of course I think everybody would be. Well then they worked it out and he stayed but lately they have started fighting again and then my little 11 year old brother is getting in trouble everyday. Which makes my mom always yelling at him and then sometimes things come in with me and I start yelling because everybody else is. I hate it! I have cryed every single night that I can remember. I have cut myself once but not badly. I also promised myself I would never do it again. So that isn't much of my problem. I have tried talking to them about it but they are never happy and they never want to talk to me. I know for a fact they love me though. I try to get away from home as much as possible too. Also if no one is fighting then they are complaining. I hardly ever yell, I just stay in my room and try to block it all out or call my friends or go online or something. There is no abuse or anything so its good there. So if anyone can give me advice on what to do, thanks so much! And sorry it was long.
the same thing also happened to me
i dont know if this is making it worse but my parents got divorced
im not emo but sometimes i cut myself too
they blame everyhting on me but you have to know
IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT
sorry if that was a little personal
you should try talking to your parents again
and try talking your little brother into trying to be better and i wish you the best of luck,
hope i helped
HANNAH

Q: Hi everyone! This is going to be my first year going to prom and I have the perfect dress and the perfect date, but now I have no idea how to get my hair done. I really want to do either and up do or a half up do or something, but I can't decide. So if any of you either have pictures or websites that I should check out please let me know! Thank you so much! Love Jae Jae
http://www.more-hairstyles.com/prom/p5.jpg

http://www.freehairstyles.net/wp-content/themes/almost-spring/images/prom-hairstyles.jpg

there you go buddy!,
hannah banana


Q: my birthday is coming up soon [begining of march] and i have no idea what i wanna do for it. i decided im only gonna invite a few friends [around ten including me]. i live in mass if that helps. any ideas [even if they're crazyy] would be great :]
you could have a pool party if you have a pool or you could just hang out and watch movies;chilax

Q: 14/f

kay so i don't know if this has anything to do woth it but when i was little i couldn't sweat. now i'm 14 and i sweat like a beast. i started using secret clinical strength last year in like may and it worked pretty good. but now i'm sweating a lot again to the point where i have sweat stains in my underarms again. it's so embarrassing, like i won't even be hot and i;ll start sweating for some reason. does anyone know why? and anything i can do? i've dealt with this since seventh grade [now in ninth] it sucks. thanks to anyone who can help =]
i also have that problem, i couldn't sweat till i was like 10 and i'd get dehydrated easily

now i sweat like a beast

i use lady's choice and it seems to be more absorbent

i also always wear a half jacket or something where there is two layers and no one notices.
when i get home from school i put on deodorant again and it works

i've also heard that you can put tissue under your arms so it doesnt seek through

Q: i just started using tampons and it hurts really bad when i take them out. will it make a difference if i like sit when i do it? should i sit when i put them in to?
no sitting doesnt do anyhting
youll just have to get used to it
it doesnt hurt after a while

Q: Is a 6 mega pixel camera any good? Also what do you think is the best make of digital cameras? and are samsung cameras good?
Thanks in advance!!
6 mega pixels is great!!
i know kodak is good'

i have a kodak easy share and it is amazing

Q: I'm looking for a great hair website that shows detailed photos of different styles. Does anybody know of any? Also I would love it if the site was well updated. Like I don't want to have to go through 30 90s hair dos to find one good modern hair do. Thanks!
well id ont know of any websites, but if you go to google and type in what type of hair style you want im sure something will show

hopeihelped
hannah

Q: is a 5x optical zoom camera a good camera to get good pictures from a distance far away??
YES!
i have a 4x optical zoom camera and it is amazing!

Q: i miss the episode last wednesday called smile like you mean it. i searched online to find where i could watch the full episode, but i cant find it anywhere. anyone know where i can go to to watch it? please give me the website if you know, ive googled it and went to the cw, but nothing. thanks!
you can't watch a whole episode online!
soory

Q: K im think i have a crush on this guy but he's in 8th grade and im in 7th grade. i think he's really cute. but i want him to notiest me idk how i dont wanna sound weird!
if he thinks you're good looking enough things will work out

if he says no you've got nothing to lose!

Q: 16/ f

Im really into the Beatles, the Kinks, and the Beach Boys and a few others.. Im really into classic rock/alternitive, never metal, i love up-beat music. Ive been listening to these since I was born; my parents introduced me to them. What are some other bands that i might like? What are some other oldies I might like, and what are some new, modern bands that have similar sounds that i would like?
i realy dont know if this would help at all but i listen to so much classsic rock

three dog night
the doobie brothers
train



but i can also listen to new bands too


hinder
seether(i dont know if thats spelled right)
three days grace

Q: Ok so i have dreams alot where like i dream something and then like a week ahead or sometime after the dream i do that same thing or go to that place that i've been too it's like really weird is there like a meaning to this? i know this whole question probaly sounds weird but yeah also i had this dream last night that was really strange but there was the most amazingly cute guy and i could tell i REALLY liked him in my dream is there any meaning to that i know that sounds probably stranger than teh first question btu yeah i cant cant that dream out of my mind or that guy form my dream i dont even remember what he looked like i just remember he was totaly cute and i REALLY liked him
it is De Ja Vue
it happens to me all the time
you're not alone
the cute guy probably means you have a crush on someone at school or something

De Ja Vue is wen you go somewhere and you think that you already did it before and no matter how much you think you really did you didnt
your mind plays tricks on you
it annoys me too
its good youre not having dreams of like killers all the time like me

that means your insecure

just remember youre normal


hopeihelped
HannaH


Q: i want really big curls. like a lot of them & then like a poof in the middle. can anyone send me links of this? or any other ideas. thanks (:
http://curlguru.com/chris%2023.jpg


http://www.freshlookhair.com/members/681420/uploaded/kate.jpg


http://www.fashioninc.org/UserFiles/Image/wavy%20hair.jpg

hope i helped
hannnah

Q: So I'm having difficulty naming my grey female kitty. I've narrowed it down to a few names. I trust your opinions so let me know which one you like the best:
Pandora
Tabitha
Mabel
Scarlett
Paloma (Spanish for 'peace')
Stella

If you have any suggestions, that would be nice too. Thanks a lot!
i really really like Scarlett

Q: So im "house sitting" this house while the family is gone for chrsitmas break....they have a dog and it like threw up or something on the carpet. its like a lighter color carpet.

what can i do to get the stains out? i tried just scrubbig it with water but it didnt come out....this is kinda urgent they come home sunday morning and i dont want them to come home to a mess
maybe look under their sink and see if they have any carpet cleaner and spray it on and scrub it

if that doesnt work you should probably call them

Q: 16/f

So for my second year in a row, I have no plans for New Years. First I was supposed to have both of my best friends over for a sleepover. A few days after we made the plans, one of my friends admitted she had to stay home with her parents because they will have guests. Just a few moments ago, my other best friend told me that she can no longer come over either, she cannot get a ride home from her dad`s house and doesn`t feel like taking the bus. She doesn`t even sound disappointed, she will be with her cousin (her other best friend..). They just think I am whining when I say how disappointed I am. I can`t even make other plans due to extenuating circumstances with basically every other person I know. What do I do?

I know I won`t be making plans with other people, I don`t have siblings .. and I will be sitting alone in my room. I guess I could act like it`s any other night and just go to bed, but that still doesn`t make me feel any better about how little my friends care. They just know they still have plans, and it techincally isn`t their fault that I will be alone. Thanks for the advice.. =(
hmmmm... that's a toughie:D
if you try to do something with your parents, it might actually be fun. i've done it a couple of times, and it's not that bad. are they doing anything? and maybe you could ask to go to one of your friend's house who has to stay home, because she'll probably want to be with you instead of her parents' friends.
and also, your friend who bailed on you to go with her cousin, don't feel too bad about it- sometimes you just miss family.



remember the FIREWORKS!!

hope i helped,
hannah(:

Q: my boyfriend's birthday is coming up really soon, as in a few days soon. i've been a slacker and haven't gotten him anything yet. =/


he doesn't play any sports, and the whole music/CD thing's already been ruled out since he downloads his music. we've been dating since september if that helps any.

i have no idea what to get him. any suggestions?

thanks in advance. (:
i bet you could get him guitar hero. every boy likes that. if not go to game stop, ur sure to find something there

Q: I have a 9 month old German Shepard that I just got for Christmas. From what we know it has never chewed anything yet but it just tore up my couch. On top of that it has started to piddle in front of me. Not all the time just now and then. Though it does it in front of female women all the time. Any advice?
im not sure wat you mean about "piddling" but im guessing you mean humping?
my dog does that also some times all you can really do is take her off of you sometimes dogs will stop and sometimes they wont nothings wrong with him

Q: First of all, I'm a girl and my friend is a guy. We're both in high school. I like him, and he knows it, but we are still really good friends, even though it did hold us down for a while. Anyway, there are several things I need help on. 1 is that he has a girlfriend, which he says he loves, but he is always depressed and afraid of being hurt, and thinks she doesn't care enough about him, which might be true, but he's always telling me about how sad he is, and I care about him a lot, but I don't know how to help him. I want him to feel better. I want to be there for him when he needs me. 2 is that I really like him. A lot. I wish there was away I could show him that I care more than he'll ever know, and I'm the one he needs. When he describes what he wants, it's what I want too, but he likes this other girl. I was fine with them being together at first, because he was happy and she was becoming my friend, but then she became bitchy to me and he was always depressed. I need advice. Thanks.
ok first of all i really wouldnt get into their business unless u really see a problem

if there is you should talk to your friend about it relationships always have fighting,their probably fine.

and if you try to get the guy to notice you and see that he really likes you trust me guys dont really notice things so dont feel bad when he doesnt say anything but wat do i know he might

if worst comes to worst just ask him out who knows he might break up with his girlfriend; if not then he should probably be a good friend and stay good friends with you


hope i helped!!!!!!!!:-]

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