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Omgosh. I am completely 200% in love with my ex. I dated him for 5 years on and off...more on than off. We're off now and he is flirting and he likes my best friend. He has done this two me once before. It hurts me so bad. I cry all the time and now it's getting worse. My best friend asked me about it and I said I did not care if she dated him because I would hate it if someone told me I couldn't date someone because of their past relationships. It would break my heart. I don't know what to do. This is such a low point for me. (link)
iff your still inn lovee with your ex, then of course youu dont want anyone else too have them....thats normal. iff your best friend was really your BEST FRiEND then they would understand, especially after how long youu guyys were together && they should back off. just let them kno how youu feel because by youu saying that itts fine for them too date, then theres a BiGG chance that they might. && yeah that would tear youu apart.


im a freshman (girl) and i have a crush on a junior guy. he texts me a lot and ims me almost everyday online, but he makes it clear that we're just friends he always says stupid things like "haha your great, im glad we're friends" or being sarcastic/funny , "wow im glad you cherish our friendship LOL" and sometimes he'll tell me what junior or senior girl he's into. Theres also a cute softmore whos like in loveee with me and he's sweet just nothing like the junior.
anyway my point is

should i just settle for the softmore? cause i havnt had a boyfriend since like last year and i just miss having one.

or do you think the junior really likes me and i should wait?

thanks xox (link)
well first of all....iff this guyy iss telling youu he likes other girls then i think youu should just put him aside and try and get too kno that other kid for a while, because he seems too be getting too kno other girls. Also, maybe iff he sees youu with another guyy that will make him realize how great youu are && how strong of feelings he really does have for youu. but do what your heart wants youu too, because theres noo use being with someone that youu dont like just because youu want a boyfriend.


ok well my boyfriend broke up with me today but said that he didnt want to but had to because we needed a break so the drama thats been going on will calm down adn he says that we'll still hang out and do all the normal things boyfriend and girlfriends do OUTSIDE OF SKOOL cept we just wont have the tytle girlfriend or boyfriend. I eally love him and I think he loves me because he was real broke up about breakin up with me and he says he aint gonn ago out with anyone else because he only want to be with me. should I wait for him or move on? (link)
i dont think that youu should just sit there and wait for him while he goes outt and does what he has too do, i was told by myy ex that he wouldnt get with anyone else....and he still got with two girls. i think that youu should go have funn too. he obviously still LiKES youu because he wants youu inn his life....but iff he truly LOVEED youu then whyy would he need this break? he would want too work itt outt with youu. i think that youu should move onn....but just lett him kno that when hes willing too become more serious that youu will be there for him, iff thats how youu feel towards him.


ok well im absolutly in love with my boyfriend lets call him robert and im also in love with my best friend lets call her laura, and they both love me but the problem is they hate each other and robert don tlike to hang with me if im with her and vise versa and im afriad that theyre gona force me to choose between him or her and i just cant do it cuz i love em both and cant live without either of em and im just regretting 2morrow cuz their most likely gonna talk to me about this and i dont know what to do. any help? (link)
mee && myy boyfriend were going outt for 3 years. i thought everything was perfect and that he loveed mee more then anything. i chose him over myy friends and then he broke upp with mee because he likes a different girl. even tho youu can always go back too your best friend, dont risk losing them over someone who can leave youu inn a second. he told mee that he would be with mee forever and lovee mee always....i believed him. && now i have too try and make itt upp too myy best friends because i was stupid and chose him over them. CHiCKS BEFORE DiCKS. best friends are always there, even when the guyy walks outt. remember that.





16/female.
i just want to know how do you know when you're in love?
I mean, I really want the real answers. I know it's different for everyone and I know "it's something you can't explain. you just know."
But I really can't tell between real love, physical lust, or just plain hormones.
I know I'm young and apparently, too young to know what love is.
But it feels so real.
I liked him from the start. He was smart, witty, charming, fun, nice, interesting. Everything appealed to me. Eventually, he had me completely. my heart, my mind. just everything.
During the summer, I really wanted to get over it because he's leaving for college next August and I went 3 months without talking to him and the feelings still were the same. I didn't like him any less.
It's hard for me to flirt with other guys now. It's weird. I just don't feel attracted to anyone else and the more I try to flirt with another guy, the more I miss him.
It's just something that's there..I don't know what it is.

We used to like each other a lot and we were close to dating but not anymore. Do you have to be dating someone to be in love with them?

so basically, my two questions are
How do you know when you're in love and it's not hormones?
and do you have to be with someone to love him?

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when your inn love you definately will kno. people are right when they sayy that itts something that you cant explain. when imm around the boyy that i love, i never want too leave. even when were nott doing anything && just sitting there itts still the most amazing time ever just because imm there with him. he makes mee feel amazing && wouldnt wanna be with anyone else. itts the person who iff your friends invite you outt, youd rather be with him. everytime you think of him orr hear his name you get all happy && get the butterflies. && i dont think you have to be going outt with someone too love them....because iff you really kno them && they make you feel special then you can have feelings for them too. just depends on what that person means too you.




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