ok well im absolutly in love with my boyfriend lets call him robert and im also in love with my best friend lets call her laura, and they both love me but the problem is they hate each other and robert don tlike to hang with me if im with her and vise versa and im afriad that theyre gona force me to choose between him or her and i just cant do it cuz i love em both and cant live without either of em and im just regretting 2morrow cuz their most likely gonna talk to me about this and i dont know what to do. any help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PrettyinPink47 answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 1:08 pm: mee && myy boyfriend were going outt for 3 years. i thought everything was perfect and that he loveed mee more then anything. i chose him over myy friends and then he broke upp with mee because he likes a different girl. even tho youu can always go back too your best friend, dont risk losing them over someone who can leave youu inn a second. he told mee that he would be with mee forever and lovee mee always....i believed him. && now i have too try and make itt upp too myy best friends because i was stupid and chose him over them. CHiCKS BEFORE DiCKS. best friends are always there, even when the guyy walks outt. remember that. [ PrettyinPink47's advice column | Ask PrettyinPink47 A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Monday February 11 2008, 6:36 pm: ehh...i went through the same thing. i chose my best friend. cause boys come and go, but best friends are forever.
as much as it may kill you, you might have to choose your friend.
do you know why they dont like eachother?? it seems childish and stupid for them to act that way and put you in this position. one time, my boyfriend and other friend were having a fight. and i told them that i dont want anything to do with either of them until they work it all out. and it worked! you may try that.
Brandi_S answered Sunday February 10 2008, 11:18 pm: Well, you need to straight up tell them that it is unfair to you and selfish of them to be acting this way.
Out of respect for YOU, they need to at least make an attempt to get along and agree to disagree.
To be quite honest, if they expect for you to choose between them, then you should choose neither of them. The fact of the matter is, you may love them, but if they really loved you in return they wouldn't be putting you in this position.
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