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My ex, my friend!
Omgosh. I am completely 200% in love with my ex. I dated him for 5 years on and off...more on than off. We're off now and he is flirting and he likes my best friend. He has done this two me once before. It hurts me so bad. I cry all the time and now it's getting worse. My best friend asked me about it and I said I did not care if she dated him because I would hate it if someone told me I couldn't date someone because of their past relationships. It would break my heart. I don't know what to do. This is such a low point for me.
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iff your still inn lovee with your ex, then of course youu dont want anyone else too have them....thats normal. iff your best friend was really your BEST FRiEND then they would understand, especially after how long youu guyys were together && they should back off. just let them kno how youu feel because by youu saying that itts fine for them too date, then theres a BiGG chance that they might. && yeah that would tear youu apart.
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I would be honest with your friend. Go back and tell her it would bother you, but that doesn't mean she can't date him. Explain to her how you don't want her romantic life to be determined by your past relationship.
As for the on again, off again boyfriend, I would try to get past it. You might be together in the future, you might not. Right now you aren't, so I think you should try to occupy your mind with something else. Put yourself into your school work or work, a hobby, anything else. It won't make it go away, but hopefully it will make it slightly less painful.
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I think if your best friend is truly your best friend, she would appreciate you being honest with her. She surely wouldn't want to do something that makes all hurt and crying.
I know you are all in love with him, but a guy isn't worth impacting a friendship.
So say something.
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