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kind of dumb i guess.
im a freshman (girl) and i have a crush on a junior guy. he texts me a lot and ims me almost everyday online, but he makes it clear that we're just friends he always says stupid things like "haha your great, im glad we're friends" or being sarcastic/funny , "wow im glad you cherish our friendship LOL" and sometimes he'll tell me what junior or senior girl he's into. Theres also a cute softmore whos like in loveee with me and he's sweet just nothing like the junior.
anyway my point is
should i just settle for the softmore? cause i havnt had a boyfriend since like last year and i just miss having one.
or do you think the junior really likes me and i should wait?
thanks xox
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well first of all....iff this guyy iss telling youu he likes other girls then i think youu should just put him aside and try and get too kno that other kid for a while, because he seems too be getting too kno other girls. Also, maybe iff he sees youu with another guyy that will make him realize how great youu are && how strong of feelings he really does have for youu. but do what your heart wants youu too, because theres noo use being with someone that youu dont like just because youu want a boyfriend.
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What Mangy said. You shouldn't settle. I mean, how would you feel if you were a second choice?
Try to figure out how the junior feels. It seems like there's a chance that he likes you. When a guy tells a girl about other girls he likes, half the time it's just to make her jealous.
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Well, don't settle for someone just because you want to have a boyfriend.
It seems to me that this Junior has made it clear he wants to be friends. I could be wrong, so you could always ask him.
But if you go and just settle for the Sophomore, then you aren't really being fair to that poor guy. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who wishes they were with another.
My advice- If the Junior doesn't want to be with you, then you should get over that and be ready to move on before going out with someone else.
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