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should i wait for him?
ok well my boyfriend broke up with me today but said that he didnt want to but had to because we needed a break so the drama thats been going on will calm down adn he says that we'll still hang out and do all the normal things boyfriend and girlfriends do OUTSIDE OF SKOOL cept we just wont have the tytle girlfriend or boyfriend. I eally love him and I think he loves me because he was real broke up about breakin up with me and he says he aint gonn ago out with anyone else because he only want to be with me. should I wait for him or move on?
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i dont think that youu should just sit there and wait for him while he goes outt and does what he has too do, i was told by myy ex that he wouldnt get with anyone else....and he still got with two girls. i think that youu should go have funn too. he obviously still LiKES youu because he wants youu inn his life....but iff he truly LOVEED youu then whyy would he need this break? he would want too work itt outt with youu. i think that youu should move onn....but just lett him kno that when hes willing too become more serious that youu will be there for him, iff thats how youu feel towards him.
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My honest answer would have to be why do you
want to stay with someone who evidently wants
it known around school that you are broke up?
Hes up to something. If he truly loved you he
would want everyone to know it. My guess is
he is listening to friends who think he should
break up with you. If this is the case then he
is to immature to be in any relationship.
Use your own judgment. You know him and I
don't. Just think about this and do some
thinking before you decide to waste time
waiting. :)
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Every relationship contains some sort of drama. You wouldn't be normal if you didn't. The only thing that I would be concerned about is the fact that he still wants to hang out and do all of the boyfriend/girlfriend things outside of school. It sounds like he may want to see other people, or he is conflicted about seeing other people. If he really wants a break then take a break. Limit communication and see if that makes the two of you stronger or farther apart. There is an old saying, "absence makes the heart grow fonder." I was with the same guy all through high school, and when I felt as if we were growing apart, and I was conflicted about what I wanted to do, I suggested a break. Maybe the two of you should lay down some ground rules as to what a "break" really means. Communication is the key. And remember, if it is meant to be, then the two of you will work it out.
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