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how to make him think of me seriously?
So, as you might predict, i like a boy.
And we flirt nonstop, and are both ridiculously attracted to each other. Thing is though, the way we flirt is a blatantly sexual--- though kind of joking--- way. Like, we're all over each other, but we laugh about it. We haven't kissed or anything, though we've gotten close to it. My worry is that he just wants to hook up or whatever, when I'm thinking more along the lines of seriously dating him. This guy is king of mixed messages, and I'm having trouble telling whether he thinks of me only in a sexual way, or as a potential girlfriend.
How do I make him think of me as a prospective gf? And how do I tell what he's thinking about me, short of reading his mind?
Answers from guys would be great, but all are appreciated.
(because advicenators told me i should: i'm 16 and a sophomore in high school)
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When he brings up the sexual stuff, just change the subject. See if he will actually talk and not just go back to sex talk. If he gets frustrated then that is all he wants. You can't tell if a guy wants a relationship. You can tell if he only wants sex sometimes. If you keep changing the subject on him and he tells you all of a sudden that he has something to do, well he is just a horndog. Maybe you should talk to other guys in front of him. If he cares, then he probably is actually interested. Let's say there are other guys around, does he sort of block them off so he is closest to you? Things like this are signs of interest. It is hard to tell a guy's intentions. If you are unsure, assume all they want is sex. That is more often the case after all.
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well. there is always this option open that when you joke around you might want to tell him indirectly that i want serious relation not 1 night stand. tell him i like sex but nth is gonna happen if you dont take me seriously. get it cleared out. take care!!
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try hanging out with him just one on one, and stay away from the sexual flirting. try to just hang out with him, and talk. if you guys keep flirting sexually, all he will ever think of you as is a hook up. see what happens. and make sure that when you hang out that you look casual but hot. this will allow him realize that he is not only attracted to you, but that he likes you.
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