Question Posted Saturday December 22 2007, 12:14 pm
my bf is starting to bore me. when ever we hang out or hold hands in the hallway he never says a word. i try to start a conversation and i feel like im talking to myself. also he has no experience bc im his first gf so my friends always tell him to put his arm around me and stuff. also i like the guy to make the first move. i no he might be shy but he doesn't do anything with me. im really not into him at all anymore and when ever he comes near me i think...great hes here now. he totally turning me off now. i like a lot of my guy friends more than i like him. how can i break up with him bc i don't want to hurt his feelings and i will feel really bad. thx in advance♥
Lostinmythoughts08 answered Sunday December 23 2007, 2:27 am: Honestly, if you are really sure you do not care anymore than you need to pull him away from everyone else and just tell him. You will hurt him a lot more if you egg him on just because your afriad of hurting him. [ Lostinmythoughts08's advice column | Ask Lostinmythoughts08 A Question ]
MAK answered Saturday December 22 2007, 8:20 pm: He's just shy. If you like him enough to wait a while for him to become accustomed to the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing so he can open up and relax more, than do that. But if you are completely miserable just break it off with him. For a relationship to happen, it takes two people, and he obviously isn't doing his part, so you shouldn't feel guilty about hurting his feelings. But if you feel like that, I would still let him know that you are frustrated with his lack of participation in the relationship, and if wants to do something about that, give him a chance.
Brandi_S answered Saturday December 22 2007, 3:23 pm: There is no way to break up with him without hurting his feelings. You just have to end it, plain and simple.
You are hurting him more by putting it off.
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