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please tell me whats going on
i used to had a boyufriend we were together for 2 years and a half and afte r several things like him not being tolerant enough , and him criticising everything i do , wehre do i go , who do i talk to , my friends, family, my clothes, the things i like to do , and even the music i like to listen to ....this was a huge deal for me and i d ont want him back cause hes done kind of cheating things to me , but a part of me still wants him to be there, but i dont want him back! but when i notices he stops talking to me or things like this i always do something that give him like the hope we are getting back (oh cause he always try to make us be together again) the weird part ...is that a part of me knows that im better of without him, and hes not the one for me ......but the other part...still wants him to like me and being there like trying to get back and doing this kind of things =S that part doesn't want him to move on , i cant imagine seeing him with someone else or dating anyone else,,,but at the same time i dont want him to be with me!! pleaseee help!! this is killing me and im also hurting him cause one day i make him understand i still want to get back and the next day i tell him something like oh im glad we broke up its better off this way :S
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well he was your boyfriend for 2 years and the thing is that you are going to have these feelings wheather you want them or not...
If you dont want him back then try your best not to lead him on, and i think you should tell him that you only want to be friend...
you know there is nothing wrong with flirting with your friends and "flirting buddies" is probley the only thing you 2 should be. i know that you dont want to see him with any other person, but thats the reaction people usually get when a relationship is done and you care about that person alot!
you just have to learn how that let go!
thats really all you can do...
i hope i helped
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if ur brain thinks that u dont want him then just let him go. if he really wanted you then he wouldnt of done all of that stuff to you. and he would of trusted you. go let him be with someone else. obviously your to good for you.
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If he criticises you, then ask him why he's doing it and that it's making you upset (well, it is isn't it?) and that you want to break up with him, tell him that you've got feelings for him, but you don't think that the realtionship won't work.
See how he reacts. Expressions can tell people a lot and this question could change your relationship. He will either shrug his shoulders and say "Fine" or he will look upset. If he looks upset, then it would show that he's got feelings for you and then talk to him.
Listen to him and work this out between the two of you.
I hope this helps,
triquetra
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Stop talking to him. As much as you can, stop looking at him, stop talking to him, stop thinking about it.
Lots of people 'feel' that way. They want thier ex to keep wanting them so that they can reject them all over agian and want thier ex to be miserable without them.
It's totally OK to feel that way. It's not OK to behave that way. What you are doing now and nasty and mean.
You need to let your intellect rule over your selfish desires to punish him and your jealously. Stop leading him on, stop obsessing, move on with your life and date other people.
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girl , your better off by ending it now , just think if you did give him another chance . Would be change for you ? would be still treat you like you a baby ? probley not because he is who he is , even if he did say he would change there would still be a chance he doesnt ya know ? and you would just be in the situation alllll over again . but i understand you want to move on but then again you dont . But if you end it now and tell him that your final decision is to be just friends then it will be easier on you , because you'll eventually get over him and be back to normal with you . Tell him you still want him to be in your life , just not how close it use to be
- hope i help, tell me how everything goes .
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