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i dont know what to do. please help me...
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 4:55 pm
recently my fiance told me he has feelings for another girl. but see..we have a long distance relastionship which is hard on us. we have been together for a year and we have only met once. but back to the issue. he said he likes her but loves me and would never cheat on me i beleive him and trust him completly. but they way he talks about her. it just hurts me so much. and before all of this we broke up for a week. and he went out with my bestfriend. which absoloutly killed me. of course. i took him back because i love him more then anything. but im afraid to talk to him about it and tell him how i feel about him liking her because im afraid he will get mad or something. im so confused and hurt i just dont know. i need help. please help me.
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Losing Interest In Guys
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 4:24 pm
Every time I seem to get "physical" with a guy,
I start to lose interest in the guy. It's like,
"Oh, well. We went all the way. There's nothing more
to do, and you're starting to bore me anyways."
I feel like one of those guys that uses girls,
but the weird thing is, I'm a girl!
Shouldn't I be the exact opposite of this?
Does anyone else feel the same way?
I mean, it's so annoying that I always lose interest
in someone after we get physical and I really don't want to!
Because how will I ever get married or anything?
Suggestions?
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I thought i would have gotten over him by now..
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 4:06 pm
Ok so, I dated this great guy for about half a year but i messed it up by breaking a promise i made to him. I promised him that i would never drink and drive. but one night i had just a sip of vodka and drove home 2 hours later, i dont consider that drinking and driving, but he did and he broke up with me, the day before homecomming. I was miserable, i just couldnt forgive myself on how i messed up somthing so great. I truly did love him and im not just some stupid teenager who goes around saying that to everyone, i mean it. I even loved the bad things about him.
I tried fixing things a million times, but it just didnt work. Then i found out one of my good friends started talking to him on the phone a few days after we broke up and t...
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to meet guys...
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 4:06 pm
i go to an all girls high school far from home. im wondering how to randomly meet guys in my area like at the mall or something. what do i say to them? im overweight but have a pretty face so idk if that helps. i hav never had a boyfriend and am so nervous around guys. please tell me how to introduce myself to guys.
thanks so mucH!!
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*first kiss*
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 3:52 pm
i am 16/f and i'm just going to get out in front - i have never kissed a guy. i've dated a couple but never kissed them. i'm currently dating this guy who i'm absolutely crazy about. we've been friends for several years and have been dating almost a month. we have a great and really open relationship. i was at his house a few days ago and we almost kissed, but didn't. then later on he sent me a text aplogizing because he said he thought it was awkward between us because he really wanted to kiss me but wasn't sure if it was too soon. i said it wasn't awkward and it was fine. we talked about it a lot and we haven't seen each other in about a week and when we get together, he said he really wants to kiss me if it's ok with me. i really want to...
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friends... for now?
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 3:05 pm
Soo if a guy says "we should be friends for now", does this mean that he wants to potentially be something more eventually? I figure if he just said "we should be friends" it'd mean just friends... but the FOR NOW changes that. What do you think? Thanks.
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ok there's this guy
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 1:38 pm
OK this guy has dumped me but still wants to remain friends. We text back and forth like everyday and both of us has remained single since we broke up. He says he wants to still think about it and we broke up like two months ago. Is there any hope of the two of us getting back together?
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Jealousy
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 5:54 am
I've been going out with this guy for eight and a half months. i really care about him, and as far as i know it's mutual. Recently i've been having serious issues with jealousy. There's this one girl he's always either talking to, or about. And she's the same way about him. I know he doesn't mean anything by it, but i'm beginning to think that she has a thing for him. i don't know what to do. i'm not the kind of person who can just sit back, watch and trust him to take care of it. i trust him not to cheat on me, but i don't think it would be beyond him to dump me for her. he has so many classes with her, and he seems to get along with her so well. I've told him about it, and all he ever does is assure me he's not attracted to her. That's no...
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making out
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 2:45 am
my old girlfriend says making out with me is boring. and wen we madeout it was kind of boring.
what can i do to make it fun and exciting?!
thank you !
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Am I pregnuat ?
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 2:31 am
alright this might sound strnge but..
Okay last time I had sex was august, I don't remember if I got my period I september but I KNOW I got it in October. I missed november and so far, December. My friends tell me its probaly because I only had my period for not even a year and its still irregular, but i don't know I'm convinced I'm preagnut I even think I'm getting bigger and in losing my appitate. My friends say its all in my head but I'm still not sure , and I'm terrfied to get a home test because of the reaslut what should I do
Sorry I'd I mispelled anything I'm on my itouch
but any help would be great!!
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Kissing..
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 2:20 am
Ok so im 13 and i have the most amazing boyfriend ever its been a little more than 3 months now!
We havent kissed yet. Ive never kissed anyone and I know for a fact he hasnt either. I really want to kiss him i like him so much.
so I understand these questions sound wierd but please help!
1:How do i give him the hint i want to kiss him?
2:where do i put my hands!
3:what way do i tilt my head?
4:how long do we kiss?
5:open or close my eyes?
Please help me i really like him
Thank you so much in advance!
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Idk what the deal is
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 2:15 am
Ok this is what happened
I was tlkin to this guy and we were like in love but we only got to tlk on the internet but i honestly loved him and i think he loved me too. About 2 mounths went by and his internet completly broke and in this time he got a gf in a few mounths he had a car wreck and wen he herd i was very upset he called me w/in 2 mounths we were sayin i love you again we were inseperable ever other word was i love you he knew from the begining i wasnt gonna have sex til i was marrid but i dont think that was wat it was too make a long story short i hadnt herd from him in a while so i texted him to day and said hey all of a sudden he goes i hate u never call me again and i asked him y and he said it was cuz he didnt want to...
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i should just send out an application with a "insert picture
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 1:28 am
16/f Junior in HS
i have trust issues, lets start with that. the last guy i was involved with made a bunch of lies and rumors making me look like a whore. my boyfriend of 6 months, a few years ago told me he still loved me when we broke up but he apparently didn't love me that much because he had a new girlfriend by the end of the day. i told my best friend my deepest secret and she spread it around school. my social life has changed dramatically this past year and now it has affected my love life.
my last serious relationship was 2years ago. it was amazing while it lasted and we truly were in love with each other. i had a fling over the summer but it went horribly wrong. everytime i tell a guy i like them they...
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getting a boner
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 12:51 am
during foreplay i never usually have a problem, and when i am at home on my own, i never have a problem with it, but when it comes to really getting busy, right before we are about to have sex, i just cant get a boner. It basically just dies and then wont come back. It seems like it is always there when i dont want it to be, and then when i need it, it always comes up short. This is not only mentally displeasing but very embarrassing. What is the problem here, and how do i fix it. I really dont know what to do and am deeply concerned
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My friend likes a guy that I think likes me!!
Posted Monday December 24 2007, 12:41 am
F/13.My friend I described in my first question I asked on Advicenators like this guy.She told me a week ago that she liked the guy and has been liking him since 5th grade!!I talked her into telling him,but instead she made me tell him.He said "Eww.Gross." and whenever he sees my friend,he always says to me "I hate that girl".Yes,he has a mind of a first-grader.I really don't think he's a wise choice for a guy since he's so veangeful and I think he's ugly and a show-off.He sits behind me and has always been talking to me.After I told him my friend likes him,he found out my number.Now he text messages me pink hearts and "Merry Christmas" and all.He also called me once asking about a project though I doubt he did...
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boys
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 11:42 pm
okay so i'm kinda stuck. see my family's not racest but they dont like me dating another race.and i am really starting to like somebody that's black and he likes me.and i have a feeling we may date.what do i do?
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one of those does he like me questions.. lol
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 11:39 pm
So there's this guy, & I've known him for a little while and we really didn't start talking until about two-three weeks ago. Since then he has just made me like him so much. We talk to each other everyday. I can open up to him really easily & we're just total goofballs around each other. We usually talk on myspace im or by texts, and a few times I'll call him or he'll call me. I go to his house sometimes or we'll be at Subway at the same time. His sister works there & she's one of my friends.
Anyways, he always jokes around with me & teases me. Whenever I leave from seeing him he asks me for a hug. Then the way he looks at me just really makes me think he likes me too. I also spent the night at his house one night aft...
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Not enough for gift?
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 11:33 pm
Okay so I had NO IDEA what to get my boyfriend of almost a year for Christmas. But he's really religious, so i got him a little $10 woven braclet with a cross (its not girly, or anything. haha). But, he keeps dropping hints that he's getting me some really expensive jewelry. Should i get him something more?
My dad said guys dont take that personally. They just think its the thought that counts, and he wont mind at all. But, I still feel really bad about it. Do you think i should spend a little more?
thank you for ANY help.
xoxo. (:
ps. he's not materialistic at ALLLL. just fyi.
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what is this?
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 9:39 pm
Okay , well I was at a dance and me and this guy kept locking eyes allll night. Then we passed eachother and locked eyes for the longest time and once we passed eachother we looked back at eachother at the same time. Then he finally came up and asked me to dance and then to grind.. and he kept asking me questions like do you have facebook? What grade are you in and things like that. Then , a day later im away on msn and he keeps talking to me and everything.. But after we grinded he said he would let me go and come back to me later but he never did..My question is does he like me? or just think im pretty? What should I do next?
THANKS A BUNCH!
BETTY.
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should I feel guilty....? or bad?
Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 9:00 pm
15/f. To make a long story short, I met a guy online..he told me that he liked me a lot after three months of talking...he's 18. okay. At first, he didn't want to be too flirty with me seeing as how he could get in major trouble for harassing a minor. But then he started making weird sex references around me..and asking me how I masturbate. I thought this was extremely weird, but not taking it seriously, I just talked to him..whatever, you know? It worsened. He began to tell me that my pictures turn him on, and he made dirty comments about the male anatomy...concerning what he was feeling at that time. He told me how he would love to "do me" and stuff. Well, I was really grossed/creeped out..so I began blocking him on my MSN. I di...
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