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should I feel guilty....? or bad?


Question Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 9:00 pm

15/f. To make a long story short, I met a guy online..he told me that he liked me a lot after three months of talking...he's 18. okay. At first, he didn't want to be too flirty with me seeing as how he could get in major trouble for harassing a minor. But then he started making weird sex references around me..and asking me how I masturbate. I thought this was extremely weird, but not taking it seriously, I just talked to him..whatever, you know? It worsened. He began to tell me that my pictures turn him on, and he made dirty comments about the male anatomy...concerning what he was feeling at that time. He told me how he would love to "do me" and stuff. Well, I was really grossed/creeped out..so I began blocking him on my MSN. I dislike him. I want to delete him..but he's actually really cool when he doesnt talk about sex...(which is like nevr XD) The thing is..he's stopped talking about it for a while. it all depends on his mood. he can be really mean when I refuse to show him pictures. (they're not bad pictures) I'm just afraid he'll start up again and I'll get in trouble or something. I'll admit that I was always flattered when he compliments me :/ but that's with ALLLL those cases of internet harassment. I know this is really wrong, and I appreciate if you read it. What would you do? :/ Thanks so much in advance.

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Brandi_S answered Monday December 24 2007, 12:00 am:
You need to cut off all contact with this guy.
Yah, he may be a really nice guy when he isn't talking like that, but that isn't good enough. He needs to be nice and respectful at all times.

When he is talking to you in a creepy/gross manner, then he is being disrespectful and outright disgusting.
What kind of man talks that way to a 15 year old girl?
What kind of man gets rude if he doesn't get pictures of a 15 year old girl, bad pictures or not?
A nasty, perverted man, that's who.

He's so worried about harassing a minor? Well, that is exactly what he is doing.

End contact and don't feel the least bit bad or guilty. You got to do what you got to do in order to protect yourself from weirdos.
And trust me, there are weirdos a-plenty on the internet who pray on kids.

ygs-29/f

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Teenagexx answered Sunday December 23 2007, 11:32 pm:
you shouldnt be talking to creepy guys on the internet that you dont know. for all you know he could be fifty years old and stalking you.

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