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getting a boner
during foreplay i never usually have a problem, and when i am at home on my own, i never have a problem with it, but when it comes to really getting busy, right before we are about to have sex, i just cant get a boner. It basically just dies and then wont come back. It seems like it is always there when i dont want it to be, and then when i need it, it always comes up short. This is not only mentally displeasing but very embarrassing. What is the problem here, and how do i fix it. I really dont know what to do and am deeply concerned
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I think you are probably just nervous. Calm down or else you will never get it up. Try Viagra.
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OH BOYS! It's totally just nerves. I think if you're having sex, you should be comfortable with the person. I think your problem is that you are so nervous, and you're thinking to much about it!
Before sex I think you should really get to know the person. Maybe a couple dates, and feel comfortable to walk around in your boxers.
I know this is also hard, but don't think about it. You're probably really into it, and then you're thinking COME UP NOOOWWWWWW:). But it's not gonnnnnaaaaaaa happen like that. You've gotta woooooooooo it! Just don't worry so much, sex is suppose to be fun!
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your body is just nerves , you personaly may not but your body is getting scared and it makes you lose your hardness . This boy i dated a while ago had the same problem and he asked about it . You just have to get comfotable enough with that person your about to have sex with , its like your body isint comfortable with you showing that person your goodies (: . just relax and calm down
- also , if you get all stressed about it, its not gonna come back honey =]
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