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okay so i'm kinda stuck. see my family's not racest but they dont like me dating another race.and i am really starting to like somebody that's black and he likes me.and i have a feeling we may date.what do i do?
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your parents should be happy for you no matter what.
id say go for it, do what makes you happy.
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my sister has kind of the same problem. i think if you really like him you should just go out with him but tell your parents the reasons why you like him and have him over a few times. if your parents really have your best intrest they should be able to see the reasons why you like him so much and if they dont then im really sorry.
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follow your heart. let your family think what they think, but don't let them stop loving who you love. tell them that you really like him and race really means nothing to you. maybe they'll agree! good luck!
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Prepare your parents for it gently and remember that being 'agianst' inter-racial dating is in fact rascist. The idea that 'There is nothing wrong with those people, we just don't want them dating our people' IS VERY RACIST.
If there are other objections to this boy, based on his behavoir or who he is as a person, you should listen closely to those, as your family is only trying to keep your safe. If thier only objection is the colour of his skin, tell them that that simply isn't a good enough reason for you not to date him.
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omg i didnt think that some one eles was having the same problem as me my best friend on the whole intier earth is a black boy named even i still havent told my parents about him and it has been 4 years and we really love eachother like brother and sister but i just havent gotten up the guts to tell my parents about my best friend when i was 10 i asked to go to the mall alone because i needed to get even a birthday presant and i said it was because i needed to get her a christmas presant (his birthday is in november) but if i was you i would just go ahead and get up the guts to say somthing to your parents and maybe dont say anything just ask can i date this boy named whatever his name is and then you bring him to your house to meet your parents and then before they judge him on his color they can see the real him good luck and i hope you give me a lesson i think im going to go talk to my mom merry christmas
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tell them to get over it.
no, talk to them about it, maybe find out if there is a deeper reason they don't want you dating someone out off your race, but if you both like each other, then date don't let the fact that your family doesn't want you dating him stop you from it, you can't help who you fall for.
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