i go to an all girls high school far from home. im wondering how to randomly meet guys in my area like at the mall or something. what do i say to them? im overweight but have a pretty face so idk if that helps. i hav never had a boyfriend and am so nervous around guys. please tell me how to introduce myself to guys.
thanks so mucH!!
yEEyEEbREbRE answered Tuesday December 25 2007, 10:53 am: My specialty! The mall! Hahaha! Ok well first, put on a REALLY cute outfit! When you step in the mall be as confident as possible. If you're with a group of friends, remember guys are intimidated with more girls. If you're with one or two, they'll approach you easier. Sometimes, my friends and I will "rest" on the bench in the middle of the mall and make eye contact! And sometimes you might "forget" something in a store and have to go alone to get it. (Obviously, when you are alone they approach you more!)
I personally NEVER approach guys, but rarely... you just have to talk to them like they're ugly! Hahaha! I wouldn't do it, because I'm a NERD when I do. But if you can, do that. Don't tell your friends to go up for you, because then you could POSSIBLY look like a wimp, or they go over and see what you look like which is REALLY AWCKWARD (sp.?)!!
remember: all guys like aaalll different women!! Hush up about that overweight stuff, I bet you're beautiful! Let your personality shine like the sun beaming through your window! Hahahahahah! :-D goooood luck! [ yEEyEEbREbRE's advice column | Ask yEEyEEbREbRE A Question ]
orphans answered Monday December 24 2007, 9:32 pm: well you could be at the mall in starbucks or whatever and the line could be so long and then after maybe 5 minutes say to the guy next to you are we ever going to get out of this line and then you guys will just natrilly start talking thats how i meet my boyfriend hes the best i ever had good luck and merry christmas (hopefally with a new boyfriend) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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