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ok, so thats me, the one with the girl hating my guts. I couldnt log into my account, so i had to reset amd i just used a quick account, but, the girl (L) will crumple up my notes when i send them to her, and shes been pissed now for about 4 months. And is anerexsia really that serious? She needs professional help? :0 (link)
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well maybe I can see why she hates your guts...its none of your business...if you see she is ill...why not let her family in on it.,..but here is my question...IF she is crumbling your notes, well that means shes doing it in front of you...and HELLO< she obviously doesn't like you...do you get that?? 4 months?? there is something so wrong with this question...is this really a real person? or are you emotionally retarded? why would anyone be with someone, who so OBVIOUSLY didn't like them or want their help...mind your own business, take care of your own backyard...volunteer, if your that into other people.
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I see that you are too new to advicenators and giving advice. In the advice you gave to the young lady who asked the question about Zoloft you made two Cardinal mistakes.
First: You told her not to take her medication. This is wrong, we are not doctors and you are giving medical advice by doing so. What you should have advised is for her to contact her doctor.
Second: You continued with medical advice by suggesting she drink a certain tea high in Serotonin. On its own without telling her to stop her medication this might have been good advice.
By giving medical advice you may have caused a problem for the webmaster on this site if she follows your advice and something happens to her.
In the future please be careful with your advice. If you're not sure of something do the research first. Be sympathetic but when it comes to medical advice always default to have them go to a medical professional.
Adviceman49
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Excuse me, but you didn't read my reply carefully ...READ IT again , this is an advice place, if you don't have the common sense to ask your Doctor, or to do your own homework,before you start taking mind altering drugs, well then, what can one say? ..and to state that I may have caused a problem for the webmasters, "IF" she follows my advice and something happens to her, BULLSHIT..who the Fuck are you ? that's my advice.. if you don't start making decisions for yourself...someone else will...grow up
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I've been wondering a lit about my sexuality. I feel so attracted to girls. I've had a boyfriend in the past but, I didn't feel anything compared to this one girl. Like every time I see her or talk to her I feel like I can't even explain it. I get these butterflies in my stomach, and I get all nervous, and like I don't know if I'm lesbian. I've had several girl crushes in the past but, not so many guy crushes. Maybe I've thought a guy was like good looking but, I can't see myself with them in intimately . With girls though I feel like I could have an intimate relationship. Emotionally and sexually. I don't know what to do because come of my close family is homophobic. I feel like I'm going to ebe judged by family if I am lesbian. what should I do? (link)
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Its called a girl crush, you may or may not grow out of it...but you probably will, we see beautiful things in each other, maybe you don't have a very good relationship or support from your mother...then we sometimes look for support from a woman/girl...please don't beat yourself up about it...your young give it time...grow up a little,
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My best friend has been going to bad places and doing drugs and things that are going to affect her life. I love her and really don't want her to get hurt. I've tried to talk to her about it and she acknowledges what she is doing and she knows it's bad for her but she doesn't care and she continues to do theses things. I just don't want her to mess up her life and regret everything I really want to help her! What do I do?!? (link)
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there is nothing you can do, if I were you, Id be sure not to be with her when shes doing stupid things, cause guess what...you could be with her, when someone tries to rob her, or rape her, or she overdoses on something..while your with her...IS thAt what you want? AND JUST REMEMBER THIS you cannot live someone elses life for them, your not her mother...everyone has a path...find your own, and stay on it...ditch her, do you think she cares enough about you to help you? nooooo because if she did, she wouldn't be self destructing like she is to HERSELF....be smart, be busy when she calls,
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Im not sure how many calories i should consume everyday.
My BMR is 1589 and i go to the gym 4-5times a week. Im 16 and weigh 73kg right now but im trying to change that. i read somewhere that for leight loss you should consume around 1500 calories but then in another place it said something different and id appreciate it if someone could help me out :) thnx in advance (link)
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Really do you think most people know how much 1589 BMR is? first of all going to the gym 4-5 times a week seems excessive...your 16? whats wrong with people, the worlds going to hell in a hand basket, and your worried about your weight? get a book, go to the library or google how much someone else says you should weight....I think you need to volunteer, you have way to much time on your hands...why not help some poor kid who doesn't have enough food to eat for the day...
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I am 25 years old and I am a female and I had oral sex for thefirst time ever I have ner fone anything sexual before nowb in my life and I am a virgin . I knowbyou proble dodon't get a lot of women who are old as I am who are virgins asking about stds on this site but iam terrified that I might have aids when I didn't even have intercourse. We were both naked and he ate me out and I sucked his dick and he gingered me could I get aids from letting this guy that I have known since I was 16 do this to me . I know this may make .e sound like a whore but we was only dating a week before he wanted to have sex and I said didn't want to have sex so we decided on oral sex . I am so scared because the other day I was in the shower and I noticed 3 little bumps inside my vagiana and I also have a boil that's kind of grey looking sorry if this is to grafic but I wanted to give you complete detail of what's going on with me so you could answer my question properly. I talked to my cousin about my situation and she said that I needed to go see a gbyon and get tested for aids and other stds . I am so scared. Please help . I made an appointment gor the 10th of my next month and iam absolutely terrified because I don't know what to they are going to do. How do they check for aids is it s blood test or do they actually have to check down there ? Will they tell anyone if I have aids . Please help me. Thank you so much. (link)
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I HOPE YOU DONT SEE THAT BOZO GUY THAT USED YOU FOR SEX...ORAL SEX IS SEX..ANYTHING WHERE YOU ARE SERVICING HIM, IS SEX...THAT BEING SAID, DONT SEE THAT JERK ANYMORE...PLEASE DONT WORRY GO SEE YOUR GYN AND HOPEFULLY YOU HAVE LEARNED FROM THIS EXPERIENCE...MEN LIKE THE CHASE, IF YOU SPREAD YOUR LEGS, OR GIVE HIM A BJ THATS NOT LOVE, HES USING YOU, NEXT TIME ASK A MAN THAT WANTS TO TAKE YOU OUT,'WHAT ARE YOUR INTENTIONS' AND HE'LL ACT DUMB, AND SAY WHAT? WHERE IS THIS RELATIONSHIP LEADING TO...IF HE HEMS AND HAWS HES JUST USING YOU AS A RECEPTICLE, DO YOU UNDERSTAND, HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU, IF THEY WANT TO TREAT YOU LIKE A WHORE, LET HIM GO OUT AND PAY A PROSTITUTE, WHO GETS ANYWHERE FROM 200.00 AND UP..,.(iAM IN LOS ANGELES) STUDY, WORK, TRAVEL, KEEP BUSY, DONT GET SIDE TRACKED WITH SOME LOSER, WHO JUST WANTS A WARM PLACE TO PUT IT...IF HE CARES FOR YOU, HE WONT WANT SEX, AND TRY TO BULLY YOU INTO IT...MEET THESE GUYS WITH YOUR BROTHER OR A FRIEND...STAY CLEAR OF THIS DUDE, AND WHY WOULD YOU THINK YOU HAVE AID'S? YEA THEY DO A BLOOD TEST, AND IT TAKES A WHILE TO INCUBATE..FORGET HOW LONG...ASK THE DOCTOR AND DONT GO GETTING YOURSELF ALL WORKED UP, JUST BE HAPPY YOUR NOT PREGNANT...AND DONT BE SERVICING BOYS/MALES/
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Im a 16 year old virgin & 2 weeks ago I was fingered. The next day I started getting cramps & lasted for a week & had really sore breasts. Now my stomach cramps aren't that bad anymore but my breasts are really sore & tender. I've been urinating a lot more & I'm really worried that I might be pregnant. PLEASE HELP ME!! I have no one to talk to about this & I'm really nervous. Should I be worried that I might be pregnant ?? What should I do ? (link)
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you cannot get pregnant by putting a finger in your vagina...its a different story if you let someone put their penis in your vagina, then when the male puts his sperm inside you after he ejaculate...you can get pregnant, then your life will pretty much be over...so either wear condoms, or better yet, don't have sex...where the hell are your parents?!!! don't let this boy have his way with you...do you understand..is this a real person, or some older perv man??
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So, in 4th grade religion school the teacher asked who wants to be an alter server and I didn't raise my hand. He wrote down the names of kids who did raise their hand, and then when I got home my mom for some reason called the church and asked when rehearsal was. When they said I wasn't on the list she asked me why, and I realized she wanted me to do it and wouldn't stop until I did, so I let her sign me up. It's been about a year and I've tried to get used to it but the more I try the more I hate doing it. I don't want to do it anymore, but I'm afraid to tell my mom, and I'm afraid that everyone in the church will hate me if I quit. Can someone tell me how to tell my mom the truth? (link)
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Wow your in the 4th grade!!? you sound so mature together, more so than some of these 16-20 somethings, which makes me wonder if these are real people, but what ever here goes, YES...just tell your mother you don't want to do it, or your going to be hating yourself...that's life, just tell your mom the truth...and make sure you have something to takes it place, because you know that mom of yours is going to be bugging you to do something else...and then get a checking account and start saving money and get a part time job, cause you'll be wanting to move out someday...just saying prepare now...
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Im going to be a freshman in college an i wannted a small portable transportation such as a penny board. My safe net is a scooter but I wanted to learn something new. I have no experuence whatsoever with skateboards although i know how to ride a scooter. My wuestion is should i get the penny board? (link)
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the way people drive, and the uneven street and walkways...I would either leave early or take the bus...too crazy out there... do you see your spelling...your a freshman in college...LOL look at the spelling of question, wanted, experiences, what the f is a penny board...walk
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It so hard for me to talk about these questions to people in person, mainly because I'm worried everyone will think I'm crazy. I totally feel like I'm going completely nuts, but there's something I can't get my mind off of.
Does anyone here believe testimonies of people who claim to have been to Heaven or Hell? I didn't really in the past, but there are these two girls who claim to have been taken on by Jedus on tours of hell and came back to tell about it. They both say some of the same things, like that they saw Michael Jackson there and children who watched cartoons.
The thing is that these girls messages may actually come from satan, or they may be making their stories up for whatever reason. Regardless, they are causing people to have intense fear about their eternity. They're making salvation seem impossible.
Some of what they say seems extremely random. Like, "Oh, God doesn't like blondes, God doesn't like people who own Chihuahuas, God doesn't like people who drive Ford's." They don't actually say those things, but that's how bad it can seem. Like we're all unknowingly doing things that can get a person sent to Hell. Like no one can know that they're doing anything that will condemn them later. Like we're all doomed and God tries to make salvation as hard as possible.
When one girl was giving her testimony, I thought to myself that if some of what she was saying was true, it didn't seem as if God could be the loving, gracious, and just God that some believe that he is. I know better than to believe that though. I know better than to think that he is a cruel God who likes to see people go to Hell and who makes salvation practically impossible.
I feel like God states everything you are and aren't supposed to do in the Bible, but some of these people say that you can get sent to Hell for things that the Bible doesn't mention and things that you'd never think of.
They claim that dying your hair, painting your nails, wearing makeup, and using perfume will keep you from having any hope of getting to Heaven, but my grandmother did all of these things and, at the risk of sounding crazier than I already do, I know she's in Heaven because she gives us this sign that she is and that she's watching us. I reject that these things will sent you to Hell.
The last reason I don't believe them is because their stories seem to contradict the Bible. For example, they say that they were taken to Hell and brought back to warn people, but doesn't the Bible say that if someone doesn't already believe, they still won't even if somebody comes back from the dead to tell them? Also, one girl sounds very high and mighty and says that God made her responsible for saving people, but isn't Jesus the only one who can save you?
There are plenty of other inconsistencies, but the majority of people seem to believe them. It seems like most people don't believe Colton Burpo, Alex Malarkey, or people like that, but they wholeheartedly believe these people. They say, "I don't see why any real Christian would feel the need to question this." Even though the Bible TELLS us to test these things. It's like people don't want to hear nice stories that give you hope,they only want to hear terrifying ones that make you feel hopeless.
I guess my question is am I right not to believe any of this? And also how do you KNOW you're going to Heaven?
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Don't listen to other people, its their experience, and one cant discount someone elses experiences...what does your heart tell you? what does your gut tell you?
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End of everything i want to die
So this all comes to this , let me tell you readers about me
I'm not gonna mention my name but i really need some help and hope that you guys can give me some :(
Its midnight here and its raining quite heavily , and here i am a lower middle class boy who is about to lose everything he had .
Well i am a university student , even though I am a middle class my parents worked so hard for me to get into the university i am not a scholar guy I'm just average at first year in first semester i had 3 ATKTs and because of that i had to give 9 subjects this semester
I worked hard i did my best there was a time when i didn't even slept well for 6-7 days and keep studying hard
Now exams are over and i need to pass in at least 4 subjects to get in second year and i know that I'm gonna fail cause how badly I've done in my exams
My results are on next month
Plus i hace a education loan from bank and they cant continue my loan if i fail
Worst of all guys I'll drop out of the college
And i couldn't stand the embarrassment of it i couldn't stand look on my parents wyes when they will find out i droped out :(
I know guys results are not declared yet but i know how i done in exams and I'm surely going to fail
And ill get a drop :( i just don't know what to do
I cant stand the shame
I can't sleep in night
My dad got 2 heart attacks already and he cant work for much long and i feel really terrible now i am crying at this very moment
I messed up everything life disent give another chance
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Honey you have a lot on your shoulders, please don't feel guilty, talk to someone a pastor or family member...you don't spell very well, but its not your responsibility to do something you don't want to do...you don't have to put up with things at your detrement...you need to speak to someone...please pray to your father in heaven, and remember, THIS TOO SHALL PASS...write down different choices you could do right now on a piece of paper....you have choices and you need to talk to someone and not carry this burden that is not really your own...don't do anything foolish
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I started taking Zoloft last night. I have severe anxiety and depression. I decided to give it a shot, but I was scared of it getting worse. Well...
I know it hasn't been 24 hours yet, but I feel as if it's getting worse and I don't know what to do. I don't know if it's because I'm freaking myself out over it. I've been scared to take medicine, so I have not. But I decided I cannot live like this anymore. I must find a solution. So I decided to take them but what if it just keeps getting worse and worse? Anyone who takes any antidepressants that know how long I'll feel like this? :( (link)
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you know I knew an RN and he told me, with some of the antidepressants, they make you commit suicide, only because if you were going to do it, it just makes it easier...I say, how the hell do you know if your depressed?? hey life is hard...start drinking "Holy Basil tea, very good for serotonin and will help your system get back on track...Iam not a doctor, but get off the pills, after a while they don't work anyway...and you could have a big breakdown 6 months to a year after taking the pills, not unheard of...yea life is a bitch...I say, take walks, eat better, no cokes, junk food,start making little choices, get rest...stay away from negative people, talk to a pastor, keep a journal, see a funny film, rent funny DVD's...someone always has it worse than you, and lastly remember "THIS TOO SHALL PASS" could be your hormones, if your living with a lousy family, can you go live with a nice aunt? if your in a hourder house can you get out? there is always a way, talk to someone...and remember, THIS TOO SHALL PASS...PRAY< GOD LISTENS...
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I really like acting and have been doing it for a while. I want to get into the industry but it is hard to find legit auditions that don't have over a thousand kids auditioning without an agent and to get an agent you need to first mail in headshot/resume and then they might call to set up an interview. The problem is that agencies receive so many applications they randomly throw away about 92 % of them and then look at that 8 %.so i am wasting paper and chances are if i send a hundred of them , Only 8 will be looked at by an agent and I might not be that face they are looking for. So it is a cycle. How do I start in this industry.( please don't say buy a handbook or just perform in theater and ill get around cause it is not working) (link)
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I have a friend that was a background player for movies...IF you want to be an actress you have to pay your dues...you can be on the outside going, well I have to do this, and I have to do that...either you want to be an actress with every fiber of your being, or your just some whiney little human, who complains, and says, negative things, about what you've heard, or how you think things are...whats wrong with summer stock or theatre? I don't know if you've noticed, but there is a lot of reality shows out here, in lala land where I live...a lot of my friends were character actors, Ive assisted some actors myself in my work history, you have to have that "SOMETHING" its not for everyone...you just have to pay your dues, SORRY..you cant have it your way...advice? grow up,stop whineying, and start doing what ever you can, until someone spots you...and think outside of the box...doing commercials is a good way to start a lot of actors started out that way...good luck
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I am so confused. I dont know what to do anymore. I am depressed all the time. To the point where all I want to do is cry and at times it takes all I have not to. I feel so alone. I have been married for 8 years but we never talk and lately he and I have been sleeping in separate rooms. We dont even argue we just dont talk. I know I am not happy anymore and I havent been for a long time. But we have children together and this is the only serious relationship I have ever had. To top it all he is controlling so I have never had a job and I dont know if I can support myself or my kids without him. I dont want to be miserable forever but I am terrified of life without him. I dont know how to survive without him. And I have absolutly no friends not a single one because my high school friends and I have drifted apart and I am not allowed out to have any. And I have no family I grew up in foster homes. So without him I am completely alone. I have no one to turn to. No one to stay with til I get on my feet. Am I being selfish by wanting a life of my own. What do I do? Where do I go from here? (link)
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well I feel your pain...first let me say it sounds like you have some sort of an abuse going on..he doesn't want you to have friends or a job...woman, you need to grow a pair..and Iam sure your behavior of "I cant l live without him, and how will I support the kids, listen you can go to a shelter...you can IF YOU WANT get out now, IF YOU WANTED TO...my advice, get some spiritual counseling...talk to a pastor, you need to get strong, because someday, those kids will be out of the house, and you will be alone with this man..or he may well leave you...you have to pray and ask God to show you the light, to get out, or at least improve yourself...stop being a coward and a scardy cat..which Iam sure is not very attractive to your husband, its a big turn off...if he oays a hand on you call the police, or if he goes to work, leave and go to another town and go to a shelter and get welfare...take care of yourself...or you can do the lazy thing and stay til he leaves you, its your choice
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Hey. I've been sort of depressed lately because I'm in high school and I'm about 6 or 7 months younger than a lot of my friends. I'm really jealous of them because I volunteer at two hospitals. I'm a greeter at one, and I do filing at the other. I volunteer Mondays, Tuesdays, and Thursdays which totals 16 hours. A lot of my friends turned 15 halfway through this past school year (I'm a rising sophomore) and I'm just turning 15 on August 3rd. One of my friends in particular really really bugs me, because sometimes we hang out and she tells me how all of her coworkers and higher ups at work just love her, and literally tell her that she's a ray of sunshine. She also tells me about her perfect grades. I feel like asking her, "Why not just move to Stepford?" It just bugs me that some of my friends have jobs (this friend tells me about how other mutual friends have jobs too) while I volunteer doing slave jobs for no pay. It also bugs me that she's so perfect. I can't find any flaws but bragging without knowing about it. If flaws were little dots from markers, I would be completely covered in ink and she would have one little dot that probably nobody would notice because she would probably NOT WEAR MAKEUP AND STILL HAVE IT NOT SHOW AND BE FLAWLESS. Last year I volunteered at a Bible camp, and I got the little kids -_- who I really don't care for because idk they just annoy me sometimes. (link)
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Its called growing up...this happens, your so called friends, bragging, and such, trust me, one day you'll look back and see clearly, but now life is painful and your naïve Remember, "This too shall pass" being young, growing up/pains...it sucks, you ask "WHY" why why...God has plans, please trust that he knows what he's doing, and do the best you can at this time...if that little friend of you bugs you...avoid her...tell her your planning to take a trip to france to explore with a new friend you met down at the museum...LOL make a plan in your head, explore, you don't know where life will be taking you when miss perfect sets your teeth on edge, just smile at her, and think...its not over till the fat lady sings...you may become someone famous, someday, mix it up
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Today I was doing my younger brother's hair when somehow we ended up talking. I told him that mom and I do hair differently its not a matter of one being better than the other. Then I quickly said "nevermind because I know your going to tell mom everything I say good or bad." Moments later my mom threatens me saying the next time I "intimidate" my brother things are going to end badly for me. I need help understanding what I did wrong and if simply not talking to my brother and mom is a good solution for this situation. What should I do? I figure going under the radar is a good way to handle this situation because I dont feel like getting in to it with my mom or brother. Personally, I can't stand living under the same roof with either party. (link)
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I feel for you, I have a other, and three other siblings, we are all grown, in our late fifties, and early 60's and we have come to understand out mother was mentally ill...she was horrible mean and cruel...there are a lot of people like that in the world..I say, start today, in saving what little money you can get your hands one, get a part time job, babysitting what ever, get a bank account, and don't let her know..mothers can be devious and jealous You didn't say how oold you were, but start planning to get out, whether it be in one year or a couple...you can also put an ad somewhere where you could do some kind of live in work, get a salary, and have one to two days off...you can strive to be a caregiver, or something of that nature, just to get out from under her roof, BECAUSE trust me as you get older, her abuse will get worse. look to the future, and seek spiritual counseling, pray to GOD, speak to your father GOD,he wont let you down and remember, don't let your mother know she will try to thrwart you.
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Ok..I dated this guy for a couple of months but he was 6 yrs older than me..I'm 16..we were first just friends but then we began to "love" each other. I would go by him everyday but we never did anything really..then we almost did and I stopped him...he got a bit mad at me. He said he didnt want to date me now at 16 because he didn't want me to do things that were not right..we didnt talk for awhile...then he called but we are sort of awkward friends now...I still like him though and i told him but he said he dont want to destroy my life. Should I get back with him? If yes how? (link)
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Girl, baby girl...BE THANKFUL the guy didn't knock you up...like "GET WITH CHILD" and yes he'd be in jail...Because your jail bait...GET IT!!!! run don't walk to your room...NO DONT GET BACK together with him, THERE IS NO FUTURE...where the hell are your parents? keep your legs crossed, trust me a ruined life and two o clock feeding are no fun...while your girlfriends go to parties...GET ON THE PILL IN CLOSING STUPID GIRL, " SHOULD I GET HIM BACK' HE DOESNT WANT YOU, TRUST ME HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, YOUR JUST A SLIT TO POKE...AND AGAI BE THANKFUL THE PERV DIDNT DO IT, HE KNOWS BETTER, HED BE A SEX OFFENDER FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE, NOW GO CLEAN OUT YOUR SOCK DRAWER, AND LEAVE OLDER MEN TO THEIR WIVES
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What kind of symptoms would see in a 52 male who probably is narcisstic and bi-polar? (link)
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HUH? symptoms? erratic behavior, wide mood swings, selfish and cares only for ones self...but Iam not a doctor...she may be with him, cause he doesn't critize her like you or another family member...he buys her things, she genuinely likes him, and he her...and BTW where did you get your medical license that you can say that one of Gods children is "Probably narcissitic and bi-polar, ...someone once said, that a woman married the mother or father she hated...LOL...its a rare person that is for other people most are selfish, and there are a lot more sociopath, and psycopaths out in the world it seems these days...BE KIND MOM>..you don't want to lose your daughter do you? how would God want you to behave...NEXT
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I'm Male, 19 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 16 months. We're both virgins. Lately, since I started working, I've had the temptation to just go out and cheat. I'm always super horny and fantasizing about doing stuff with other girls. I love my girlfriend and I feel super guilty for wanting to cheat. We never really do anything besides kiss. I don't want to pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want, and I don't pressure her. But she'll do stuff that hints that she wants to do something, then doesn't do it. Like sometimes we'll be sitting and she'll grab me and/or stroke me for a few seconds then stop. Sometimes she'll put my hand on her crotch so I could rub, but we never go any further. I work at a busy place in nyc, so I'm always seeing and meeting nice attractive girls. I always fantasize on my train commute too. Like everyday. Sometimes I even wonder about calling an escort, but I don't want to mess up. (link)
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Dear young man, it is the nature of the beast...you being a male, man, that you would want to have sex with a multitude of women...it is natural..so please do not feel guilty as some would want you to feel...and saying that, I would say this to you...PLEASE use the services of a escort...they know how NOT TO GET PREGNANT, you don't want to be paying child support for some random girl you met, or your girlfriend who is not your wife right???? please think with your head and not your penis...my advice/suggestion is Rub one out everyday, or as many times as you feel necessary...or pay a pro, do not, I say, DO NOT, put your penis in a woman who can become pregnant, if you don't want to pay child support "COURT ORDERED" for the next 20 years...and be a big boy when your girlfriend strokes you off...go no further, unless you want to have a bun in the oven, and the realities of life come thundering down on your little pin head, lol YOUR young!! you don't want to be saddled with a BABY, you will come to hate this girlfriend, or any other girl you knock up...SEX IS FOR RESPONSIBLE PEOPLE, meaning wear a f condom, and remember, rug one out or as NEEDED, and use the services of a professional. tootles
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i liked this girl i started dating who i thought was an innocent girl. in fact i didn't even try to kiss her until the third date because of how innocent i thought she was. well the thing is after i kissed her and don't ask me why we started talking about sexual experiences ( i thought she had practically none so what did i have to fear). well i found out she is what is known as a virgin slut or virgin whore, a girl who is still a virgin but has kissed around 40 guys and had blown off 4 guys just because she was horny and returning the favor after they had sucked her off.
i feel a little disgusted with the horny attitude with random guys in the past and don't know what i should think.
anyway, she is leaving the country for a year so we broke up but still talk as friends. we only kissed so i didn't even get blown off myself but she is going to do some religion studies outside the country, meaning no more sex life for at least that year (no kissing, no nothing). the thing is she went to Aruba as her last opportunity to party and i hate the feeling i get when i think about the certainty of she kissing at least a couple of guys a night (which really doesn't bother me that much)and the possibility of she sucking a guy off just because she is horny (that one does bother me).
i know this inst exactly a question but i need counsel from someone.
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Well you sound like a young boy,not quite a man. I shall tell you why, after reading your "Ramblings" of I like her, but I find shes a slut, we broke up? but I didn't get any, really if she was such a slut, that's surprising,then you make a strange comment,"I thought she had practically no sexual experience "so what did I have to fear"?? ! child you sound envious of her sexual prowess, and what kind of a human are you, stating,I still didn't get any ,AH and Iam happy you didn't,Iam beginning to wonder if this even a real question/rambling of a young male...my advice to you, is rub one out daily, read up on women,or get a mentor to learn how to be a lover,oh and one last thing, you state she is going to some kind of religious retreat and she wont be having any sex? REALLY? can you be so sure? aren't men also there? where there is a penis, it is always looking for a slit...lastly you sound bitter,and a little mean, that this young woman, didn't service you, and let you use her like a receptacle...I can only hope in your walking the path on this grey and granite planet you will come to be a more complete human man, and not defile women in order to gratify yourself, they have women for that, they are called prostitutes..they will service you, but if it is your mind set to defile a young woman, and in doing so, make her with child and in the love throws detest young woman, because she shows you her love, and leave her, you are a wretched soul, think twice before you try to put your member in a girl/woman...and Iam hoping whoever she is, does not let you,and asks you sir, "What are your intentions" to use me, to marry me, or to give me 200 dollars as a prostitute would ask, for her services.
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