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What to do about family isses?
Today I was doing my younger brother's hair when somehow we ended up talking. I told him that mom and I do hair differently its not a matter of one being better than the other. Then I quickly said "nevermind because I know your going to tell mom everything I say good or bad." Moments later my mom threatens me saying the next time I "intimidate" my brother things are going to end badly for me. I need help understanding what I did wrong and if simply not talking to my brother and mom is a good solution for this situation. What should I do? I figure going under the radar is a good way to handle this situation because I dont feel like getting in to it with my mom or brother. Personally, I can't stand living under the same roof with either party.
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I feel for you, I have a other, and three other siblings, we are all grown, in our late fifties, and early 60's and we have come to understand out mother was mentally ill...she was horrible mean and cruel...there are a lot of people like that in the world..I say, start today, in saving what little money you can get your hands one, get a part time job, babysitting what ever, get a bank account, and don't let her know..mothers can be devious and jealous You didn't say how oold you were, but start planning to get out, whether it be in one year or a couple...you can also put an ad somewhere where you could do some kind of live in work, get a salary, and have one to two days off...you can strive to be a caregiver, or something of that nature, just to get out from under her roof, BECAUSE trust me as you get older, her abuse will get worse. look to the future, and seek spiritual counseling, pray to GOD, speak to your father GOD,he wont let you down and remember, don't let your mother know she will try to thrwart you.
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