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sexuality
I've been wondering a lit about my sexuality. I feel so attracted to girls. I've had a boyfriend in the past but, I didn't feel anything compared to this one girl. Like every time I see her or talk to her I feel like I can't even explain it. I get these butterflies in my stomach, and I get all nervous, and like I don't know if I'm lesbian. I've had several girl crushes in the past but, not so many guy crushes. Maybe I've thought a guy was like good looking but, I can't see myself with them in intimately . With girls though I feel like I could have an intimate relationship. Emotionally and sexually. I don't know what to do because come of my close family is homophobic. I feel like I'm going to ebe judged by family if I am lesbian. what should I do?
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You shouldn't live to please other people. You never know, you're family may be okay with your choice because they love you and want you to be happy. If not, you should do what makes you happy anyway. Try it out and if it's not what you're into then try to date a guy. Some people grow out of these phases but some don't. Remember, it's YOUR life. Good luck! <3
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Its called a girl crush, you may or may not grow out of it...but you probably will, we see beautiful things in each other, maybe you don't have a very good relationship or support from your mother...then we sometimes look for support from a woman/girl...please don't beat yourself up about it...your young give it time...grow up a little,
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I have found that with my family who Is very homophobic to just start by telling the members of my family that I trust and know that even if the disagree with my way of life (pansexual. Atraction to all gender orentations) they will keep my seceret but wont make fun of me. In the end telling family or people like this will help you to build confidence to tell your parents, brothers, sister, ect. Check LGBT sites for advice on "coming out" they usaly have a good bit. Dont be afraid of how you feel only you can decide that. Some people may tell you its unatrual or sinful but dont let what they think influence you. Do what you feel best for you.
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