I have a brain, and I use it to think.
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Member Since: May 4, 2014
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Last Update: February 17, 2015
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So I've been following Cernunnos since last December. And I've been feeling His voice since January 15th. Ever since May, I've been randomly hearing Him say "Ashley" or "Hi" but lately, I haven't. When I used to meditate out in Nature, I would see Him with His antlers dancing in the woods. I feel His voice tell me "I love you, My child." everyday and I always tell it back to Him and I can feel His chuckle and know He's smiling in happiness. How can I actually HEAR Him whenever? Thanks! :) (link)
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Being a nocternal witch I don't interact with Cernunnos, but I still might be able to help. I look at the gods and goddesses as extensions of ones self(a higher level of conciousness if you will). Try to focus on the idea that you and Cernunnos are one. Put your self on the same level of exsistence that he his on. Then try to talk to him. Don't neccsiarily try to control the conversation but more or less go with the flow. I hope this helps. Good luck in your journey for enlightenment.
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So I had been a Wiccan for months, and my dad had the bad idea of it. That every Wiccan was a witch. That witches are evil. That the Horned God is associated with Satan because he has horns/antlers. I have never felt comfortable in Christianity, but felt comfortable in Wicca, like I was 100% safe and nothing would ever hurt me. I'll be turning 18 in a few months. Should I just light candles in my room, try to tell the Horned God that I'm sorry and that I'll move in with my friend when I turn 18 and become a Wiccan again? (link)
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You can still be Wiccan. You may not be able to openly practice your rituals, but no one can force you to be one religion or another. Your dad may be angry with you, make fun of you or even as much as it hurts me to say disown you. Thats just how alot of people who follow a strict religion are. Just explain to the horned god what's going on mabey even give him am offering if you think he may help things go your way. Alot of Christians asociate pagan god's with their devil because thats what their taught. If you havent alredy mabey talk to your dad about how your life has changed for the better since you have become Wiccan. I hope things work out for you and try to make the best of the situation.
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I just purchased a bearded dragon he is about 3-4 months old and about 6 inches long from head to tail. He was rescued from a breeder who underfed the babies and he had part of his tail eaten off and he was skinny. I thought he would have a hard time eating but easily eats about 20 crickets a day and a serving of carrots, apples, and collard greens. I keep his cage 100° on the hot side and about 80° on the cool. I have had him 3 days and he has only pooped once. It was a good size and firm/wet. I have him on aspen snake substrate but I read they can injest this and become impacted. I was thinking of switching him to newspaper. Since he has been home his belly has gotten twice as large as it was when I got him. (I think because he was underfed) I am just worried and wondering if he should be fine. He basks a lot and just eats and eats like no other. Is it a good idea to switch him to a news paper bedding? And should I be worried about his belly. He seems okay and is very alert and already let's me hold and pet him. I made sure to provide him water on both sides of his cage as well as basking spots and hides on both sides and a branch for him to climb and bask on that is stripped and cleaned we got from a local pet store, he has a 20 gallon tank a day and night lamp as well as a regular lighting lamp . He seems healthy. My fiancé has raised a lot of reptiles including several snakes and a monitor as well as an iguana. He says the little guy is okay. But I can't help but worry. Am I properly feeding him and caring for him? (link)
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be very careful about the bedding you use I used sand for my dragon. The grains were larger almost like small pebbles, but because of finacial issuses I switched to a cheaper finer beading and he ate it and unforchinatly pasted away. It sounds like you are giving him a good home. Hes most likely eating alot because from what you said it sounded like he was not fed very well. Just keep am eye on how much he eats and poops. They like to play in the water alot so you might want to look into getting him a decent sized dish (if you font have one alredy). Also you might want to look into a heat rock. There realitivly cheap and lizzards love to lay on them. I think thats awsome that you rescued him instead of buying one at a pet store.
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Hi,
So I have a boyfriend, and I know that he talks to another girl late at night. One time i found out that he talked to her until 3 am... I don't know how to feel about this. Like I don't want to restraint him from being friends with other people, but I feel that in this kind of situation, wouldn't he want to talk to me late at night ?? What do you think ? Would you mind if your significant other did that to you ? (link)
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I personally wouldnt mind. Somtimes people have really good relationships with some one of the opposite sex and have no interest in dating them. Tell him how it makes you feel. I dont know what your sleep sqedusl is like but mabey he can't fall asleep until later and you can go to sleep pretty quickly so he dosnt want to keep you up. I dont think he's cheating on you but then again I dont know everything just talk to him about it, but try to avoid telling him not to talk to his freind.
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will god forgive me and will I still go to heaven when I follow through with what I'm about to do. I figure if I'm going to loose everything I'm going to loose it on my terms. I am going to jail for driving under suspennsion and I,m on disability and I'll loose everything I'm already living my life in a wheelchair from a motorcycle accident. I already have my mind made up (link)
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I can't tell you wether or not your god will forgive you. That's your decision to make. But with suicide your going to effect alot of people that care about you. As some one who struggles with simalar things that you do I'm not going to tell you not to do it because its going to most likely not work but just think about this before following through. Think about your family and freinds and if you think its worth it for them to loose you. In the end the decision is yours but just try to think about the reactions of your actions.
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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I personaly think youd look good with a buzz cut. The hair style you have now isn't bad. I kinda like it. Its creative and diferent.
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My friend sent me a chain letter that you have to send to 20 people or a ghost will kill you, and my mom said not to send chain letters They are the work of the devil. She made me delete it, and said anything about killing or bad luck crap is the devil. Is this true? (link)
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No they are just harmless pranks. The only thing that will happen is youll probly get anoyed that people keep sending them to you.
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I know even if I'm not a good singer, if I've got a good body and loaded pockets they'll just autotune me and I'm set, but I wanna get in because of my talent and hard work. More like Madonna, she started with $35 dollars, not miley cyrus who got on because of her dad. I can hit notes and control my volume, and I sound good singing to myself, but when I record myself and listen to it I sound like total crap. And my parents can't afford vocal lessons, so what should I do? (link)
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You may just not be used to how your voice actuly sounds. When you talk your voice travels through many bones and muscles making a warmer deeper sound. The rest if the world hears a higher pitched version. You also could be singing out of your vocal range. If your serious about singing you are going to want to find what that is if you alredy havent. Youtube has plenty of free vocal range tests. Youll have to sing a series of defending notes as far as you can. Then a series of acending notes as far as you can. Then youll be given a range and most of the tests have key chart for what your range is classified as. For example I have a baritone range. Once you find your range youll be more comfortable if you sing in your range. For example if I tryed to sing In a tennor range I would barely be able to do it. Hoped this helped and good luck with your singing.
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I've been wondering a lit about my sexuality. I feel so attracted to girls. I've had a boyfriend in the past but, I didn't feel anything compared to this one girl. Like every time I see her or talk to her I feel like I can't even explain it. I get these butterflies in my stomach, and I get all nervous, and like I don't know if I'm lesbian. I've had several girl crushes in the past but, not so many guy crushes. Maybe I've thought a guy was like good looking but, I can't see myself with them in intimately . With girls though I feel like I could have an intimate relationship. Emotionally and sexually. I don't know what to do because come of my close family is homophobic. I feel like I'm going to ebe judged by family if I am lesbian. what should I do? (link)
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I have found that with my family who Is very homophobic to just start by telling the members of my family that I trust and know that even if the disagree with my way of life (pansexual. Atraction to all gender orentations) they will keep my seceret but wont make fun of me. In the end telling family or people like this will help you to build confidence to tell your parents, brothers, sister, ect. Check LGBT sites for advice on "coming out" they usaly have a good bit. Dont be afraid of how you feel only you can decide that. Some people may tell you its unatrual or sinful but dont let what they think influence you. Do what you feel best for you.
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How can I ignore my friends chatting (link)
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it would help if you were alot more specific. Are they chatting in person or over a social network. Why do ypu want to ignore them? If you want a good answer you need to give more information.
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hi im 12 and i do self harm ive been doing this since i was like 10-11 i want to stop but every time i try and tell someone i get nervious and scared what should i do?
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I used to be and still some what am in your possition. When I was ten I started to cut. For about 4 years I cut and no one noticed. I was afraid to tell any one. I was afraid theyd judge me but one night I talked to my best freind about. I discovered that he cut to and even worse than I did. We both wanted to stop so we began to hold each other acontable. Now we wouldn't yell at each other when we cut but we'd try to help each other through the reason that we did cut. It felt good to know that some one actuly cared. Eventuly some people I didn't want to find out found out including my parents. They weren't mad but some what disapointed that I felt I couldnt trust them to tell them what was bothering me. Eventuly we found out I was bipolar and I've been able to find ways to help me stop cutting. When I feel the urge alot of the time I listen to my favorite songs or play my guitars or meditate. This has helped me alot. I'm not going to lie to you. I still cut but I went from a few times a day to once a week then eventualy once ever couple of months. Your right its very hard to tell people. If your afraid to tell your parents try to tell your best freind or some one who is close to you and keeps your secerets. Or write in a journal/diary. I started to and it helped me so much. I just wrote down my trouble and basicaly pretended that my journal was a freind who had no problems of his own but wanted to listen to mine. Message me if you ever need to talk. I would love to help.
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Hello There,
I Am A Teenager. I Was Diagnosed With Anxiety And Depression A Few Years Ago. Well, I'm Going To The Doctor Soon To Hopefully End All Of This Worry. However, The Doctor Cannot Have Me Until The End Of This Month. I Honestly Don't Know How I'm Going To Survive About 2 Weeks Filled With My Terrible Anxiety. Any Advice Would Be Very Helpful. (link)
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You could try meditation. If you feel like your getting worked up over your anxiety or depression go into a quiet room by yourself and just relax and clear your mind. It might be kind of hard but just imagine you are taking all your troubles and throw them into a dumpster. If the same idea pops in your head throw it into the dumpster again. I'm bipolar but I don't take medication for it I find that this helps me alot when ever I start to slip into a period of depression.
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I am i girl and i am a young teen. And i am 13 . I have this friend n we watch porn together.. Dont hate. We have been THAT horny that we hump n grind, but with clothes on.. Normally. A couple of time we have done it naked under a cover , n another time we like played with each other not put our finger up just did circles around the top of each others fanny. I enjoyed it tbh n she did to but weve never kissed n we r into boys still. But i REALLY want someone to like finger me but what i would really like is someone to lick me out .. But im definitly not gunna ask her that would be embarrassing . But ive got this other friend that watched porn with me before but not full on porn . N we decieded to play dares but we didnt no what dare each other so i searched it on youtube. I wanted it to come up with like kissing but it didnt. And i havmt had my first kiss yet(emebarrassing..)But i want to be able to kiss somebody. Im sorry for being long i just need some advice so pleeeaase help me :) thankyou xxxx (link)
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the best thing you can do is think for your self and just embrace your desires and how you feel. Nothing people feel is unatrual. Sexuality is such a stupid thing. Just do what you want.
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I can see white orbs, literally, all over my room. I was able to see spirits my entire life. I've seen good ones and bad ones. I've been physically hurt by a demon. Let me tell you that story: I was having a dream where a very small kid from school whom I'd kill in a fight was beating the crap out of me, and all my punches were defenseless against him. No one would help me, in fact a teachwr threatened to beat me up if I tried to defend myself against that “poor boy" and that teacher I saw is the nicest teacher in the school in real life! I woke up at the point where I died, and I hurt so badly all over. I saw a black, ugly, evil force crawling around my room. I prayed to God, then remembered my religion teacher giving us the saint Michael's prayer. I left it in my folder. I tore my folder apart looking for it, but it was no where to be found! I told my mom who also sees spirits and she told me this is when I have to get help from God, and now I have to tell the demon to leave. I did that, and stopped seeing it. That's when the white orbs started. But I still had increasing demonphobia. I implied it to my mom so she gave me a saint Micheal card. She showed me the picture and said,“see what he's doing? You don't need to fear demons, it's the rule of the universe spirits can't be in your home if you tell them to leave. And if a demon still stays you have to fight it with prayer." I know I have the gift, but I still have so many questions: how to I avoid evil spirits? Why won't spirits show their face? Why do I have this? Can everybody do this? How can I communicate with them? I want answers from experienced people, not non believers. You shouldn't pay attention to my question if you are a stupid ass who doesn't believe. (link)
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I have been an active occult practicioner for close to 2 years now and I have worked with demons for almost 10. Now I\'m not going to tell you for sure what you saw wasnt a demon because I wasnt there. But demons have much better things to do than harrass humans. I have spoken with demons personaly. My guess is that you most lilly encountered a gray man. What they do is they try to make you afraid. Once you feel fear they then feed off that negative energy. Gray men are very common and scared easily them selves. You have a great gift not many people have. You can keep \"evil\" spirits away by burning incense, burning white candles, or hanging a holy symbol in your room. Also you could put salt(salt is thought to be pure in a spiritual sense) at your door way. I have never had the issue of not seeing their face. Mabey they fear you. Yes every one can do what you do. If people open their third eye their spiritual eye. I think that opening your third eye is very easy for you. When we are born our third eye is open but as we age our third eye gradualy closes until after puberty it is completly closed. But it can be reopened. Some peoples third never closes. You can comunicate with them by just easily opening your mind. Introduce yourself. And make sure that you do not fully trust them... ever you will get burned. Always have your gaurd up. The spiritual world can be dangerous but also very rewarding. Try use this gift to your advantage. I hope I am not a \"stupid ass who dosnt believe\" for I would have wasted valuable time. Not every thing is a known fact but through experimentation and exploration we can learn. I wish you the best of luck stranger. Blessed Be.
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hello,
i met a guy 8years back...without even looking at him..i fell in love(seriously!!!)but we never spoke,he is very very silent.from then i had been loving him secretly.we two stay in different states..never met again,now after 8 years i got to meet him in a get-together..he looked at me many times but when i look back at him he turned away his gaze.this happened many times but, once he looked into my eyes continuously for say..hmm..6-7seconds..i too noticed that but pretended as though i wasn't looking at him..but i felt it was getting too much bcos if people saw him staring at me,it wouldn't look good..so i looked back at him...can u guess what happened????LO!nhe turned away "IMMEDIATELY"..and while he was leaving he dint even look at me once...this is driving me crazy can anybody please help me understand this..??thnx in advance! :) (link)
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its diferent for every one but as a guy my self I\'ve caught my self doing the same thing he did when I was atracted to some one else. If you realy like him go ahead and talk to him. If he is very quiet either he\'s mute or too nervous to talk to you. Most likely the second one.
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Hi, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years now. I sneak him into my bedroom when my parents are at work. Sometimes we have sex and sometimes we talk and then go to sleep. Is this bad? (link)
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Well I say not at all. Only you can decide what is right and wrong for you. In the end anyone elses input on right and wrong realy won\'t matter if what you think what your doing is right and they its wrong. If you like it and feel good about it by all means do it.
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