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Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help (link)
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sending nude photos is risky and unless you trust someone it can get messy. he can't get away with blackmail so tell him that no more photos will be sent and cut him out of your life.
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15 / F
My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and recently I have noticed one girl in particular showing an interest in my boyfriend. Before I had met my boyfriend I was not exactly friends with this girl because she is a bit of a bitch and I hate to use this word but she is what would be described as a "slut", but ever since we started dating she suddenly started hating me and being really rude to me. At first it was just her but now she has her friend against me as well and I feel really uncomfortable around them and always feel like I'm being watched. Every time i walk past them they stare at me and i know they are talking about me because they all turn and look at me at the same time. Individually all of the girls in this group are nice to me but when they are together they are horrible. Also, the one girl in particular is acting very "fake" around my boyfriend and when I'm with him she treats me completely different than what she would if I was alone. I have talked about it with my boyfriend and he is very understanding of everything and the way I feel but I still don't know what to think about it all. Even worse is that he was at a party they were at and all he girls were drunk and were hanging off him and the one girl was looking at him like she wanted to have sex with him (his words not mine). He hated the whole night and was texting me the whole time telling me how much he wanted to get away from them but he had no way of getting home until the time that he had arranged to be picked up from the party. We have a very open relationship with each other and are 100% honest which makes me feel a little bit better but I don't like the way they are treating me as if I have done something wrong when really I'm just with they guy they want. i really do like him and I afraid that it's going to get to the point where I'm just going to give in to the pressure and l don't want that to happen because I'm scared to lose him.
ps. I go to a small school and there really is no way of avoiding these girls
Sorry it's long I just really don't know how much longer I can take this. Advise please! (link)
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If you trust your boyfriend then it doesn\'t matter what these girls do or say. Maybe these girls are jealous of you as you have him. Be flattered by that and enjoy your relationship.
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I am a 13 year old girl. My height is 5.4 ft and my weight is 135 pounds.I am overweight for my age/height.I want to do the lemon diet because i'm feeling sluggish and tired.I also want to lose weight but i want to lose fat not muscle.should i try the lemon detox for a few days?
P.S. I can i use honey instead of maple syrup? (link)
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Diets can be quite tricky to keep to but my advice is to just exercise more. I find exercise the most beneficial way of losing weight.
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I recently found out one of my friends has bed bugs. I sleep over at her place often so when I found out she had them I was freaked out. (I know cleanliness is not necessarily a factor) Since her house is practically like mine too I need some advice on how to get rid od them.
She said:
- none of her roomates have any signs of them in their rooms
-NOT an infestation...yet
-She has used some sort of powder to get rid of them
We already known some tips on how to get rid of them but if anyone has advice to offer that would be helpful (link)
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you can hire a pest-control person or just change the bed in that room.
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What. Can. I. Do. If. I. Need. Some. One (link)
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Not sure who you need/want, if you want a partner then their are lots of dating sites to choose from.
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I'm 14/f. And I've been battling many disorders for 2 years now. I have anorexia, anxiety, bulimia, depression, ednos, insomnia, paranoia, selfharm, selfhate. I've been through a bunch and I've attempted suicide 3 times. I don't want attention for this though. This winter season has been really hard on me and no one except my best friend knows about how much these disorders have hurt me. I've got so many deep cuts and scars on my thighs, arms, wrists, and hips. I usually will put a bunch of foundation on my arms to cover the scars but I don't want to have to do this all summer. I play baseball and our uniforms are sleeveless, so I can't cover them all the time. How can I make a remedy for scar removal? Please help! (link)
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Trying to cover up your scars all the time is not the answer and I hope you seek advice from a doctor and therapist to find the under-lying Coues. They can help with your self-a steam and medical conditions. Hope you feel better soon.
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My boyfriend's best friend of several years is a female. She lives several states away and he rarely sees her anymore, but constantly "likes" her photos on Facebook and comments on her posts, etc. I know they talk and text a lot, too. I asked him once if they had ever dated, and he replied that they were like brother and sister.
I found some old photos of them on Facebook where they appear to be somewhat physically intimate. In fact, until I knew who she was, I assumed she was an ex girlfriend. He's giving her hugs, picking her up, giving her piggyback rides, etc.
I know that men and women can be platonic friends, but I don't go beyond hugging my close male friends (not as a rule, it just doesn't happen). She's an attractive girl, and I'm sure he sees that. I simply don't believe that he has no desire to be physically intimate with her given the photographs that I've seen. I've never met her but she's expressed desire to meet me soon. I have absolutely nothing against her, but I just want to know if my beliefs about their relationship are justified; and if so, what should I do about it?
Thank you :) (link)
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I have female friends and my girlfriend is fine with that because she trusts me, you should trust him and if you don\'t then your always going to think bad thoughts. The fact that she wants to meet you says to me that they are just good friends and she wants to involve you in their friendship. trust him!!!!
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Okay, so this is going to be kind of hard to explain. The other night I went out and partied like I usually do on the weekends, I came home went to bed for a couple of hours, then woke up. Later on the day I took a nap and as I was falling asleep, it was like I was half asleep half awake. But no matter what I did I couldn't wake myself up, I couldn't move and I couldn't talk. I was "dreaming" of my getting up but it was so hard to move in my dream it was as if I was stuck in slow motion. I knew I was asleep but I was trying so hard to wake myself up. I was finally able to wake up but I closed my eyes and I went right back to the same place. In both dreams I started at my bed where I fell asleep. It was different from just falling asleep and dreaming. This is the 2nd time in my life that this has happened and it's kind of scary to me because I don't know what's happening. It feels like im paralyzed. Can anyone explain or tell me what is happening? (link)
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Sometimes when your tired dreams can be different and seem weird. Try to relax and get some good nights sleep and it should stop. If it still keeps happening then maybe try a dream doctor to advise you more professionally. good luck
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my step dad is always telling me to lower my voice and I do not even talk loud I think he going deaf and he needs to shut up I can not stand people telling me to lower my voice my mother never says that to me (link)
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maybe talk to him and explain that you don\'t like him saying that, yes you have to respect him but he has to respect you too. Ask friends and others if that they think you shout all the time and if so then maybe something should be done, if they don\'t then explain to your step-dad that no one else has a problem with your voice. At the end of the day it\'s your voice and if your comfortable with your tone then others should be!!! Not sure how old you are but teens tend to shout a lot as part of growing up. Good luck
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I am 12 yr old girl and want to no wen I should be allowed to do things. First I'm responsible , get good grades, and reasonable. I
Makeup: I have acne so I want to conceal and start putting some on in a yr or two. My mom thinks 15/16
Babysitting / tutu ring: I wanna do it now to prove I'm responsible but my mom thinks 13
Dating: I think dances should be ok in high school and to start real dates jr yr with approval of the boy . Mom thinks 17.
Alone: I want to go shopping and movies with a friend or by myself. With friends I think now and I'll call my mom every hour. Alone I think high school. Mom thinks 15
Shaving legs : I think now . Don't wanna ask mim.
Am I being unreasonable? Is she? What is a good middle ground for a good girl like me? Can u help me convince to that middle ground? Thx (link)
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Taking personally to your mum can be hard but I think she will be understanding and work with your feelings. Give her reasons why and try to understand her reasons as well. good luck
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18/f
I'm going to try and keep this simple because I know how boring it is reading through a long question.
I want to break up with my boyfriend. He's the sweetest most lovely guy, just I don't fancy him, he's already talking about marriage (we've been together 6 months) he's a bit immature-and I think I can do better.
Idk how to break up with him know because saying all this will break his heart and will come so unexpected. Also his parents love me which makes it harder.
I just want to have fun-you know?! Any advice would be appreciated :) (link)
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Anything you say will probably hurt him but as you think he\'s a lovely guy then I think he deserves the truth. Most times just saying \"im not ready for a serious relationship\" is the kindest way.
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i did sex with my girl friend i just rubbed near her pussy but i dont know whether sperm gone or not i doesnt wnt her to be peragnent but i didnt tore her hymen will c get peragnent?? (link)
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Unlikely unless you penetrated her with your penis.
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