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I have a boyfriend of over one year and I love him but I may be developing feelings for my guy best friend? He's so funny and understands me on another level. He never fails to cheer me up and no matter how irritated I get I always want to be there for him. The problem is I feel the same way for both my boyfriend and my bestfriend. I've obviously lived through a lot more with my boyfriend, but my friend is something else. But why should I risk such an amazing relationship? And why is that even crossing my mind. My boyfriend is such Ana amazig guy and deserves nothing but the best. But so does me best friend😭 god I don't know what to do, every passing day everything becomes harder. I can stare I to my best friends eyes even if the feelings aren't corresponded. Am I in love with two guys?

Honestly dont want to sound rude but if you are developing feelings for your bestfriend isnt time to distance yourself from him a little without him being hurt its not to be forwards with your bestfriend and make the situation awkard. I have a boyfriend (been together 5 years) trust Dont break your boyfriend heart because you find emotionally the comfort within your friend. Remember a friend is a friend if you belive he will act in the same situation if you guys are in a relationship than you might find out that thats not all true. Your bestfriend desveres to be your bestfriend and have in mind your with your boyfriend for a reason, dont have second thoughts about your love for him. What your feeling is an atraction to you bestfriend but the real question is do you really love your boyfriend ?


Now, tonight, really anytime soon take a time breath and think in all the things you've been through with your boyfriend the happiness the good the bad. You should stick by him and not break that year because you dont know if it can turn into years of a relationship

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So I watched a YouTube video about the Illuminati or something. I was stupid and was researching all this stuff and started getting scared over all of it. I'm scared about like people taking over the world and everything. How can I stop this feeling? I'm honestly really scared right now.

I agree with adviceman49 its a entertainment stunt. Look back in history it alegeds that thomas jefferson, gorge washington and other famous historic members where part of this so called Illuminati with the meaning the new world order. Days years months passing people took the name, took the safe and the good and up turned it to something outrageously stupid. It feeds the mind what they belive gains interest.

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I have been feeling super jealous lately. I don't know why, I'm not usually like this. It all started when my boyfriend said he was going to get drinks with co-workers after work last friday. Most of them women. And I just didn't like that he was going without me. (I work late and couldn't go) What's more is that he didn't even tell me he was going until I asked him to do something after work. Also he carpools with this girl, who almost never pays him gas money, and I find out that she went to the bar after work two Fridays ago, and he bought her nearly $30 in drinks.

Anyways, I told him that I really dont like what's happening and I would prefer he doesn't go for drinks after work. Carpooling is one thing but alcohol doesn't need to be involved. And he said in a nutshell, too bad you need to trust me. Like, I do trust him but what he's doing makes me so uncomfortable, and he just thinks I'm overreacting.

Btw, I'm 21 my bf is 24. Together 5 years.

I need some advice here. Should I be feeling like this? Am I overreacting? Or am I right to feel this way? I just don't know.

Its good that you let him know, i understand completly both of you should sit down and you begin about explaining if he was in your situation how would he react. Maybe make plans whenever he wants to go out for a drink he waits for you or to be more spontaneous which ever of you get out of work late buys the drink/dinner but with the condition that whom comes out first heads straight home. (Buy/Rent movies always make the planes afterworks Dosent have to be home could be outdoor, talk walks) That way he holds himself more of going out with his coworkers and when he dose make sure that either your their or you know who are going.

Its good that you let him know what makes you unconfonterable and demostrate that you trust him but hold on a little its good to trust but dont let your guard down just cause he says so but dont go stalker crazy.


- Hope it helps

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I'm 23 he's 22. We got into a fight because he sent me a text that obviously wasn't for me. When I said something he told me I was stupider than shit and always acting like a bitch. He doesn't respect me so I just blocked him and said bye. Well he tried calling about 50 times afterwards but I ignored it because I refused to be disrespected. Well I didn't talk to him for 4 days and then when I was calm I unblocked him and decided to try to talk about things. Well in these 4 days he moved on apparently and wouldn't have anything to do with me. He blamed me for everything and kept saying it was my fault for acting that way and it's my fault that he is talking to someone else. Really? It took him 4 days to move on from our 2 year relationship? I begged him to stay but he didn't care. I'm so depressed he's done this before I just never thought he would do it again. Do I move on? Or just wait for him to realize that were suppose to be together? Or does that make me pathetic?


Hello writer

Pathetic? He\'s Pathetic but why look for a man who disrespects you move on beautiful independent women. You are much more than a man that doesn\'t respect you first sign he sent a text that wasn\'t for you and you should of long gone stepped out of his life secondly if he blames all on you that demonstrates much more of that hes turned into everything you don\'t deserve and lastly he moved on in 4 days. He surely isn\'t worth a women that seems to care to much. Why beg if you can have many more at your feet in 2 months you\'ll see him crawling back for a women that surly loved him more than any-other. My true advice get a haircut, find new foods, new taste, visit new places and in no time you\'ll see you really didn\'t need him.

Find the inner independent woman you are
-yours truly 2020

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