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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
If you're under 18 he will be arrested for child pornography. If you are 18 or over I'm pretty sure the police wouldn't be able to do anything because you are considered an adult and fully aware of your actions. What led you to stop sending nudes to him all of a sudden? Nevertheless, this is a lesson learned & I wish you the best.


will god forgive me and will I still go to heaven when I follow through with what I'm about to do. I figure if I'm going to loose everything I'm going to loose it on my terms. I am going to jail for driving under suspennsion and I,m on disability and I'll loose everything I'm already living my life in a wheelchair from a motorcycle accident. I already have my mind made up (link)
Life isn't easy, nor fair.. but its worth living. Everyone goes through hard times and tests, but God doesn't put more on us that we can bear. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability. The toughest battles goes to the STRONGEST soldiers. You can get through this its not worth killing yourself. As you said, you don't even know if your jail time is 100%. What if you get the minimum sentence? You can truly be an inspiration to others. Life's what you make it, don't take it away from yourself


I'm from asia and i will hopefully graduate BS Biology as my pre-medicine course. I want to study medicine, however I want to have my further study in Finland because they have free education and I don't want to be stuck in my country in my whole life. I'm so confused on what to study to become a doctor. It says that I should study licentiate of medicine and or study an undergraduate degree first before licentiate. However i'm not so sure if i am qualify to study licentiate with my BS biology degree only. Pls help me about this because I'm confused. Am I qualify to study licentiate? I'll be 20 when i will hopefully graduate in my degree now. I did various research but still confused. I made early plans because i really want to study their. Thank you very much. (link)
If you don't think you are qualified to study licentiate then you should study an undergraduate degree first to help prepare you for it. Different fields require different degrees (different type of doctors). Try researching the specific type of doctor you wish to become or talk to an advisor at your college. I'm sure they'll be able to give you a specific answer that you're looking for. Good luck!


I've been wondering a lit about my sexuality. I feel so attracted to girls. I've had a boyfriend in the past but, I didn't feel anything compared to this one girl. Like every time I see her or talk to her I feel like I can't even explain it. I get these butterflies in my stomach, and I get all nervous, and like I don't know if I'm lesbian. I've had several girl crushes in the past but, not so many guy crushes. Maybe I've thought a guy was like good looking but, I can't see myself with them in intimately . With girls though I feel like I could have an intimate relationship. Emotionally and sexually. I don't know what to do because come of my close family is homophobic. I feel like I'm going to ebe judged by family if I am lesbian. what should I do? (link)
You shouldn't live to please other people. You never know, you're family may be okay with your choice because they love you and want you to be happy. If not, you should do what makes you happy anyway. Try it out and if it's not what you're into then try to date a guy. Some people grow out of these phases but some don't. Remember, it's YOUR life. Good luck!


Are polo shirts from Lacoste THAT much better than other polo shirts? If so, where can I buy them for cheaper than regular price? I don't think my parents would be thrilled to know I used my college CC to spend $100+ on a shirt.

Thank you in advance! (link)
They are much cheaper at outlets. Like nordstrom has some around $45 and up. Usually when stores over stock they send them there with a cheaper price. You can even go to a Lacoste outlet that would have them cheaper than the original price (they always have sales)!


A few months ago I started to talk to a guy online and we were talking about having a relationship. About a month ago I abruptly stopped talking to him because I was slightly suspicious if he was legit. A week later, I was alone at my house when a man rang my doorbell and when no one answered, started to look in the windows. He didn't have a car with him. Yesterday, a car stopped in front of my house for at least two minutes. I don't know if I should report this because I'm a teen and I'm pretty scared. (link)
I know you might be scared to tell your parents because you don't want to get in trouble, but it's the right thing to do. You don't know what he is capable of and it also would be a good idea if the police was notified to keep an eye on your house for a while. Better safe than sorry!


I just touched my penis above her vagina but i realeased no sperms at all.. I was all dry.. She was little wet so is there any chance that she will get pragnant. Plzzz advice me please (link)
If you didn''t actually put it inside her then there is no way she is pregnant :)


I had sex with a girl but not sure if I came in herand the next day she got stomach pains,is it possible that she could be pregnant but I came out before I could come but not sure if I came in her (link)
Its possible but she would't feel pains the very next day. She probably just has stomach pains and you are paranoid because you didn't use a condom. The pullout method does not prevent pregnancy because you have pre-cum that still goes inside her. Women usually don't get pregnant from pre-cum because its such a small amount, but next time be safe and use a condom or tell her she should get on birth control.


15/f I did burn myself a few times on my wrist and they have healed in a red/pink way. I really want to reduce to colour to a white skin coloured scar that isn't as noticeable. I would love some remedies for this and also to reduce the look of cuttin scars.. I need them to appear less bright in a few weeks (link)
Lemon & tomato juice helps remove the dead skin and lighten the scars. Remember to rinse the burn with cold water before you apply this. Some other popular home remedies are almond oil and potato peels. The potato peels provide moisture and bacterial properties that will help heal the skin.


Basically like 3 days ago I had sexual intercourse with my ex honestly I feel fucked up I feel like he's only nice to me till he gets what he wants and I'm the biggest idiot ever to go ahead and have sex with him. I feel used and hurt right now cause I know he doesn't want anything serious.. It's like whenever we speak it's sexual. We've been friends since we ended like over 2 years ago but we've only had sex twice since the breakup I honestly don't know what to do cause I feel like I'm emotionally and physically attached I feel so used I wanna cry cause I knew what I was getting myself into I don't know what to do (link)
The best thing you can do is move on. It's not going to be easy but it'll be worth it. You are worth way more than just sex. He knows you'll give him what he wants so he takes advantage of it. You will slowly start getting detached the less you see him and the more you think about what you deserve. It's nothing wrong with crying girl. Cry as much as you can then NEVER cry over him again!He's not worth your tears. Good luck and keep your head held high


Hi I'm a 18 year old girl from Namibia and English is my second language. So basically my best friend just started gossiping about me and making friends with my enemy's. I've confronted her a few times but basically she doesn't "care about our friendship" any more. How can she be so cruel? I've never done anything to her and even after all of this I'm still nice to her and a good friend towards her. What should I do? We have most classes together, mutual friends and we carpool so avoiding her is out of the question. (link)
She wasn't a true friend. I think you should ignore her and show her that you are not affected by what she's doing. People love to see that they're getting to you so just keep a smile on your face and don't let her take your happiness away.




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