Skate and Destroy till the very end
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Member Since: January 14, 2015
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Last Update: March 9, 2015
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Gender- Male
Age-14
I am a very intelligent and shy person. There was a beautiful girl at my school by the name of Kamryn. I had liked her for a very, very long time, even though we didn't know each other very well. After speaking to one of my best friends (who is also one of Kamryn's best friends), I discovered that she liked me as well. On February 12th I finally worked up the courage to ask her out. I had gotten her a heart-shaped box of chocolates and a rose (as cliche as it may seem, it was almost Valentine's Day). She said yes, and it was then that I had my first girlfriend. I tried to do everything right; I sent her goodnight and good morning texts every night and morning, I compliment her everyday (I tried not to compliment her to much, as not to dilute the meaning, but simply couldn't help stating my mind). We still didn't talk too often during school (as we are both very shy and soft-spoken people). We did, however, text each other all the time. I attempted to make conversation with her whenever I could, but she never reciprocated. I am an INTJ, and contemplate every finite detail very thoroughly. I took any blame or negative aspect out on myself. Out of the blue, after only twenty days of dating, she told me that there are a lot of things going on in her life, and that she thinks we should break up. I understand her point of view, but as a person of pure logic and reason, I am having a constant internal battle of reasoning. I am seeing two equal and true perspectives. I keep analyzing all of the possibilities; perhaps she only said yes to spare my feelings. I have been deeply depressed. I haven't slept more than three hours a night, and haven't eaten anything since the breakup, nor have I spoken to anyone for any reason. There is no advice that can help me, but I never speak of my feelings to anyone, so I figured, "why not?" I expect to see all of the things that are all too common and all the less helpful; "It will pass," "You're young, you'll go through a lot of girlfriends," "You can't let it get to you," and the classic, "There are plenty of fish in the sea." (link)
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Okay, first of all, I know how you feel. I feel like this right now as well. I lost someone extremely close to me and I thought we had a chance, sadly she was taken but I did fall in love with her, she was beautiful. I love her, I still do. I'm going to keep my advice short and simple. Don't let this get to you, it's already made me sad and I've been quieter ever since. Give yourself time, you're so young. Explore life, live it to the fullest. This is just a roadblock in your way.
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How should I say I like you to a boy if I'm a young girl? We've been friends for a while and now I want to be more than friends. I don't want to ask him so it sounds awkward and puts him in a weird position. How should i ask him without making him feel uncomfortable? (link)
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really, it all depends on how old you are and how long you've liked them. I'm certainly bad at letting someone know I like them (believe me, I'm going through that right now) best thing you could do right now is try to figure out if he is interested into you for starters
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Personally, I have been very miserable all of my life. I have suffered from OCD as long as I can remember. I moved from New York to Florida when I was five years old. It was very traumatic for me. I have tried to commit suicide, but I just ended up in a mental institution. I do see a psychiatrist, but she does not help me. In fact, I only see her for the medication. I am absolutely miserable right now, especially with my job. I decided that I will no longer give any types of hints about suicide because I don't want to end up in a mental institution again. That did nothing to help me. I am going through preparations (getting my house ready, cleaning, trying to pay off bills). (link)
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Love, I completely understand where you're coming from with this. Suicide is never the answer, believe me, there are people out there who love you and would miss you. I don't know you personally but I would miss you. If you could, elaborate what your job is? It sounds like it's really stressing you out. I've had my fair share of having therapists who don't help me at all but instead, I found help within people who consider me their friend.
I recently am going through a traumatic period of my life with losing my best friend (she moved to a different school) and it hurt like hell, I keep getting flashbacks of the times we laughed outside of our previous English class whenever I pass by or wherever we used to hang out. And nobody really understands it but me. I was so depressed about it because I felt as if I were losing yet another person I loved/cared/was close to but I am very happy for her, she's going on to achieve what she wants to be.
Life really does get better love. I'm not the best to tell you because I still go through things myself. But you should possibly try to find another therapist or psychiatrist who will actually help you. It's not good to bottle up your depression, believe me, I know from experience.
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me. (link)
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Okay, well here's the first thing:
You're nine years old, you shouldn't even be dating. That's way too young to be in a relationship. You shouldn't even be having sex at this age.
You're way too young to anything "serious".
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I want to start a YouTube channel. My YouTube channel will probably be like fashion, diy, tags, etc. I don't wear makeup so there won't be any makeup tutorials. Anyways, my question is: what should my first video be? It would also be nice if you could give me more tips on starting a YouTube channel. Thank you! 😊 (link)
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I've had a youtube account for more...than 9 years maybe. I'm 18 so I started it back before I could even spell correctly. Your first video should probably be about what your channel is going to be filled with. I've made remixes of soundtracks from video games and to this day, it's gotten me to 2K subscribers who love the content. Granted, I don't post much anymore. But I am hoping to start up again. Good luck! Let me know if I helped in any way.
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So me and my bestfriend kept having fights. She became closer friends with my enemies (they're in my class) and I became closer to her ex-bff who is her enemy. While trying to find out the reason why they stopped being bff's I told my bff's enemy something I shouldn't have and she got in trouble for it. I apologized to her and said I did not have any intentions of hurting her in any way.
We became friends again. Then someone wrote my name all over the school furniture and I confronted her because I thought she did it because she was ignoring me but she didn't. A week later my science book disappeared and then two boys told me my bff was bad mouthing me. We both had a piece of paper she had my side I had hers. I confronted her and shouted at her for nothing it turned out my enemy her friend had set this up to make us drift apart and she interfered like the hero and took the piece of paper off me then she told on me that I was threatening to tell the whole school about my bff's secret I did say that but I'd never do such a thing to a person who means the world to me.
I did not get in trouble. I told the principal the whole story and how I was so convinced my bestfriend had betrayed me that I did not listen to myself anymore. He asked me to look for an answer deep within and he asked me if she could say such things which I said no to the question.
I wanted to apologize to my bff but my enemies surrounded her therefore I wasn't able to have courage ):
The principal investigated and found out it was my enemy. She would of been sent home but I forgave her and said we all make mistakes..I asked her to tell the whole story to my bff. But however when we were fighting over the paper I told my bff I didn't want to be her friend anymore and that she should return the paper to me.
She returned the paper to me yesterday and she got really sick..I heard from my enemies that when she handed up the paper she told them she was going to go home...since I thought it was all over I headed to hang out with her enemy who is in my class and who supported me. My bff saw us and was even more upset. Then when me and her enemy were going to class we were cracking up jokes and laughing and then I saw my bff she started crying..
When we were in class I heard her name being called out on the intercom..by then I was starting to get upset too I knew I was in the wrong too and I didn't feel good either..she went home sick crying because of me...my bff means a lot to me and I hate myself for hurting her :/ but I hate my enemy more for making this between us..my friend begged me to leave her alone but so far we were both crying...
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alright, best friends fighting. I have been there so many times love, it's not fun or easy. The best advice I can give is talking to her because you are both hurting each other at this point and it's not going to better if you don't sit down, alone with her, and talk to each other, voicing the concerns you both have.
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Hi! I'm a 14-year-old girl and I've been feeling really weird lately. Everything that I'm about to list has been going on for about a month now: I cry over EVERYTHING. For example: My dad said to stop playing guitar because I was too loud and he was trying to work so I went to my room and cried. I've been really irritable as well. I do have a generally short fuse but now it's even worse; I've even been going off on my parents occasionally (which I feel terrible about afterward). My little sister even decided not to share a bedroom with me because I was constantly yelling. I've been eating and sleeping way more as well. I had a relatively healthy diet in the past, but now I get home from school and eat a bag of popcorn, a pop tart, crackers, chocolate, and anything else I can get my hands on. I get super drowsy and just kind of lay down wherever I am whether that be the floor, a chair, a bed. I'm wide awake throughout the day but I get home and it's like school drained me of my life. I use to really like school. I don't like a lot of things that I use to like. I'm openly rude to all of my friends and I don't want to be around them. I sit in the bathroom and read during lunch periods sometimes. Speaking of reading, I only feel okay when I'm reading or on my blog. What's wrong with me?? (link)
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this may seem strange but you're only 14, you're still going through many different changes. You're going to be discovering many different things about yourself as you grow into a teenager. As for lashing out on your friends and parents, it is /slightly/ possible you have impulse control disorder and it's where you lash out on others verbally,psychically or mentally hurting them.
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Hi im a boy in the 7th grade and I recently went to a playground over the weekend thats just outside the county where i live and witnessed a girl who goes to my school beating up a boy really bad for whatever reason I don't know. He wasn't anyone I knew he probably went to the school in that area. Anyway she finally let him go and he was limping and crying as he went by me and the girl and her friend were laughing at him and saw me standing there in shock and her friend said something"Tina kick his ass too" so she came at me I pushed her away but she was able to punch me in the face and take me down and started To get me in a headlock and punch me some more. Well I was able to get away and on my bike. Now after that I was so scared out of my mind of her and I knew I would see her in school. so today she's been hassling me intimidating me, by coming up behind me at lunch and said "I love making boys cry" and "I won't let u get away next time"
I don't know what to do! I never been afraid of a girl before and im scared and nervous as hell! Im to nervous to tell anybody esp my dad! Not sure how he would react and I don't want to admit to anybody that I'm scared of her, but im definitely scared of her after what I seen her do to the other kid and what she did to me! and another girl who's on her gymnastics team told me she knows im afraid of her now and said she overheard her saying she plans on beating me up after school to get out of practice! Any advice please! (link)
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look mate, you and I both can realize this is a form of bullying. That girl needs to face some consequences no matter what. You've got to tell someone before it gets worse! Being abused/bullied like this is not good to bottle up!
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My wife and I have been married for 47 years. Admittedly shew has made some good financial decisions over the years but now I am concerned about something very serious. We have approximately 95,000.00 in nth stock amrket. ait goes up and down, most.y down lately. I want it all sold and the money put into the bank where it never goes down. She refuses and I hate confrontation. She will simply not talk about it. I asked her one question that I thought would seal the sell it all deal. "Is there more of a chance of it getting to 100,000 or going to 80,000.00"? we've all seen the crashes and we're to old to go through another one. What do you suggest? (link)
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hmm, well my dear friend, you're asking an 18 year old about financial issues and this is a bit tricky for me. But, I do have a GREAT deal of experience when it comes to arguing. Have you tried to calmly explain to her of your concern/worry about this? That should do the trick. I'm sorry if this wasn't helpful >.< I'm not experienced with financial issues but what I suggest about the without arguing with her, calmly approach her again and say something like 'I know it's a touchy subject but...' and voice your concerns from there.
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I raped someone I want to turn myself in immediately. Tell me what I need to do. I need to be punished. I will not say how it happen and why. I can't make up any excuses. I was drunk but it doesn't change anything. The person who was hurt doesn't want to do anything and prefers to just forget and move on, but I can't . I need to be punished and I want to turn myself in. The person wouldn't have to worry about trial or publicity. I just need to know what I have to prepare for. (link)
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I won't force you tell me how and why this happened. Being drunk is no excuse to rape someone, but if they're willing to move on, then that's somewhat of a good outcome.
Be aware though; if you harbor this in your mind for too long, you will be enraged and filled with guilt, it will drive you mad. I have never answered a question like this but maybe seek a therapist of some sort to let this all off your chest.
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I just went through a breakup with my girlfriend, I am gay and I hope this doesn't throw anyone off helping me out.
The situation is she has low profile amnesia (she had an accident), and doesn't remember most of the time we dated. Just before we dated tho, she was with someone else, Let's call that person A. Now she used to tell me, how A was the love of her life, her soul mate. But a little she broke up with A, and a wait after that she asked me to be hers.
She made me fall in love with her, I really believe she's my soulmate, but now that she doesn't remember she's back to believing A is her soulmate and is really hurting me.
Should I wait it out and hope she loves me, or should I give up and try to move on, seeing how she went back to A? (link)
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in my perspective, try to wait it out. I myself still like someone because I know a major part of me will always like this person and they mean the world to me. Depending on how much time you spend waiting it out, if it's been over a month or so, try to move on. It's best to move on after a month or so, it hurts knowing you'll always have a liking to them but time heals all wounds.
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So I am 17 my gf being 16 things are a little complex. So to cut the middle story out I am not gonna beat around the bush I want to take her virginity. I am a lesbian. She like the idea of sex and stuff it's just me penetrating her just turns her off. To answer questions. She is ready I am ready i am not used to dating virgins I have a strapon I wish to use with her it is named tiger she likes to give oral with tiger cause she knows I like it. Problems: she told me she rarely gets wet, we have done some things like dry hump I can come she has never came, what if she bleeds, what if she breaks up with me, where do I take her first time, what if I hurt her worse then normal, what is gonna happen,
Please help a baby lesbian out
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well first things first, since you both are ready, try discussing your concerns with her. I've had this issue many,many times with an ex of mine. I wanted to take her virginity, I never told her because I wasn't ready but I loved the idea of being her first.
Try vocalizing your concerns with her and see what she says, you've got to communicate, it will help!
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how do i find a gay boyfriend? and where should i find him at?
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this may seem ridiculous but try tumblr. There are so many people out there on tumblr who are gay and I love every single one of them to death :)
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This guy likes me and keeps talking to me and I want to make sure I'm not accidently flirting with him. Can you tell what not to do? Thanks (link)
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in my opinion, do not lead him on in any way. Do not say things like 'you're cute' and such, because that will make him think you're interested.
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If he has a baby and I'm 10 years old, and he's 18 do you think it'll work? (link)
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to put it simply...no. sorry love but it's not possible. Celebrities are often dating other celebrities and it sucks, there's a rare chance they'll date a fan but you know, you can dream.
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For starters im a 14 year old girl and my physical body is a female one. I feel like I'm in a male mindset but I have no desire to change my body. I want to be a boy but I want my girl body. Is there a word for this or am I just weird? I know that you can be bisexual and like men and women (Im bisexual by the way if that changes anything) but can you be big ended where you just dont have a gender or you're a mix of both? I'm not sure how to explain how I feel and can't talk to anyone because my friends wouldn't understand because they're all heterosexual and comfortable in their bodies and I don't think that I can talk to my parents because I'd likely be told "God made you this way for a reason" (which is my mothers response whenever I bring up people with tatoos or dyed hair; they act like modifications are taboo) or I'd be told "it's just a phase". I know that it's not a phase because Ive felt this way for a long time. I just don't know. Any advice to help me organize my thoughts? (link)
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There is a possibility you may be gender fluid. It's a long shot to say this but I am gender fluid myself. In a summary, gender fluid means you feel feminine one day and then masculine the next. My identity completely changes as the days go on and one minute I could feel masculine and the next I feel completely feminine. Around two certain people, I especially feel feminine. I'm also bisexual so I kinda of understand where you are coming from. Look into gender fluid, it's possible for you. I hope this helped at least a tad bit!
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How to get over your recent now ex-boyfriend?
He broke up because I was talking to an ex boyfriend while he was in jail. I understand. I would be upset too.
Everyone says it's good we broke up.
Because he would always put me down, say everything that goes wrong is my fault. We always fought. Made me feel bad more than happy. Also he's been violent with me in the past. But I still love him so much. I can't stand the thought of him with someone else. We've been together 3 years. I miss him & I don't know how to cope with being single.. I don't know how to get over him, I know there's probably a better guy out there somewhere for me but I don't know how to deal without being with my ex anymore. I still love him so much. He even talked about us getting married a few times in our relationship. Everyone says I'll find better, but I don't know how to move on when my hearts broken
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obviously it will take time to get over him. You obviously cared for him. A great way to get over an ex is to find a hobby of some sort to distract yourself. Hanging out with friends is a person thing I love to do when I'm hurting. Hopefully you find a great distraction to help you :) good luck love xx
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Hey all.
This is my first post.
My girlfriend has the tendency to get really upset when things do not go her way. We're both 18. They relationship is pretty much perfect and we're both very happy with each other.
For example, yesterday she wanted to play Just Dance and I told her I was not in the mood. She persisted and took it so seriously, and played Just Dance for 15 minutes afterwards without saying a single word to me. She realizes that she does this and she wants to change herself and we do not know how to.
Please help.
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ohh I've had my fair share of having a girl hate it when things don't go her way. Give her some time to cool off and things will mend soon enough. Be there for her but don't push her too much.
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