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Last Update: January 30, 2015
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I raped someone I want to turn myself in immediately. Tell me what I need to do. I need to be punished. I will not say how it happen and why. I can't make up any excuses. I was drunk but it doesn't change anything. The person who was hurt doesn't want to do anything and prefers to just forget and move on, but I can't . I need to be punished and I want to turn myself in. The person wouldn't have to worry about trial or publicity. I just need to know what I have to prepare for. (link)
Hello.If you have raped someone,I suggest apologizing,and offering them a free medical treatment.Please tell your friends about luluohizua on advicenators.com.You can reach me on luluohizua@yahoo.com.


This guy likes me and keeps talking to me and I want to make sure I'm not accidently flirting with him. Can you tell what not to do? Thanks (link)
First step is don't twirl your hair.
If you twirl your hairs,he'll think your flirting and showing off your hair.
Second step is don't apply more than 2 layers of lip gloss.
If you apply too much lip gloss,he'll think you want to kiss him.
Be proud and be a dork.
If you change your personality around him,he might not like you anymore.
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Hello there,

I have been having trouble with my weight lately. I'm 14, I'm a female, 5'3, and I think I might be 125 or so. I'm not quite sure. Well, my mom and my best friend say that I'm skinny, but I just think they're trying to make me feel better. I absolutely hate the way I look, and I need a solution.

I barely ever go outside due to my severe depression. I do little exercise, like Jumping Jacks, Kick Ups, all of that. I eat healthy.

However, I recently have been starting to starve myself. I know, it's bad, but I want to lose weight SO bad. I feel like I'm obese and a pig and just gross. I was bullied a lot for being heavy when I was younger, causing me to lose weight.

I take vitamins to help me get the nutrients I need. I probably eat somewhere between 300-700 calories a day. I just feel so freaking fat and I feel like I need to have a thigh gap or else people won't accept me. What should I do? (link)
People will accept people for their chubbiness.You will be able to audition for comedies.If you would like to lose weight quickly,I suggest becoming a cheerleader,or practicing on YouTube.Please tell your friends about luluohizua on advicenators.com.You can reach me on luluohizua@yahoo.com.


Okay so I'm fourteen, 5'3 (or 5'2 or 5'4.. Not sure), and I weigh between 120 to 130 pounds.

So I was overweight in elementary school. Is it possible to still have that fat? I'm in ninth grade. I lost weight from eating healthily in sixth and seventh grade, but I may have gained some pounds. I'm not happy with all the fat on my stomach and face.

Okay, so my stomach is like huge. All my weight goes there somehow. It scares me because it makes me somehow believe I could've got pregnant (I know... But what if some guys' pants got to my front area while he bumped into me or something?). It scares me. And when I sit down, I have like 3 rolls and it's embarrasing. There's 2 big ones and one small one. I'm able to suck in my stomach to make it not noticeable, but I hate having to do that. What can I do? I've been eating so much healthier lately, doing jumping jacks, sit ups, lunges, etc. (link)
I am sorry for the inconvenience in your weight category.Most cheerleaders have skinny legs,and are very flexible in addition.So,if you can't becom a cheerleader,please go on YouTube.Please tell your friends about luluohizua on advicenators.com.You can reach me at luluohizua@yahoo.com.


Hello! So i have a normal sized jiggly butt. I have seen a lot of women who do squats and get bigger, more toned butts. I decided to do lunges and squats but then realized that if the muscle builds up the fat that makes my butt jiggly will go away and my butt will be hard. My problem is that i like my butt's ''jiggliness'' and don't want to it to go away. However, I also want my butt to become a little bit more toned (without surgeries, creams etc.). Do you have an advice? Is there an exercise that won't burn the fat that makes my butt jiggly and will lift my butt? (link)
I feel your emotions.I have always had a jiggly butt.And I would not like you to lose it.So,you should try-out to be a cheerleaders.ALL cheerleaders have jiggly butts,bit their legs and body are slim.If you cannot perform this action,go on Youtube and watch a video called Cheerobics,and look for the one with 4 girls squatting.Please tell your friends about LuluOhizua on advicenators.com.Please reach me on luluohizua@yahoo.com.


Hi I met this new person at my school and we are cool and we say hi to each other. I had problems with previous friendships that I followed and bugged them to much. my teacher found out that I met this new friend and she asked my friend if he had any problems with me hanging with him. and he said no. now the teacher told him that I need help with personal space and things. then she talks to me and she says he has some problems too ,like me. but she is making us both only allowing us to sit together once before school starts and we cannot sit together at lunch anymore and I can only talk to him in the halls at school. I am a little stress out about this and I am not sure if its unfair or fair. I kind of miss the old ways.
also on the first day this started at lunch he look over at me. I think he misses it too.
what should I do?

sorry for my poor wording
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Well.This is a very complex question.But I have the solution.When you guys are in the hall,whisper in his ear if you can hang out.And then blush and say "like a real date,after school".Please tell your friend about Luluohizua on advicenators.com.You can reach me at luluohizua@yahoo.com.


I am turning here for advice or maybe someone is dealing with a similar situation. My son is 8. At 1 - 3 years old we were dealing with him not playing much with toys he'd walk or crawl down a hall way and bang his head against the wall. During pregnancy one concern was down syndrome which was negative. He has alternating esotropia in his eyes messing both eyes are good one a little strong then the other but he only uses one eye at a time. He wears bifocals. He also has the skin between his eyes is flat instead of tucking in. He is taller than normal kids but his dad is pretty tall my son is 4 '11 at last visit a few months ago. He is pretty smart in school. He still doesn't really play with toys he likes video games reading chapter books and riding his bike he doesn't make a lot of friends he is usually okay when he's on meds ( Celexa and geodone) main problem right now is when. He wants to do something and u tell him no its a huge melt down swearing Frick or people are jerks. Also if there are several people in a room and more than one person talking he starts to have a melt down. His neuro doctor says he may be having grand mull sizeures but hard to diagnose. He has head aches alot the eye doctor says it's not because of his eyes (link)
I am a 8 and a 1/2.So,I have a lot of experience.You son is experiencing autism.I recommend going to AustismSpeaks.org to solve it.Please tell your friends about Luluohizua on advicenators.You can reach me on Luluohizua@yahoo.com.


Well I am a girl of 23 years. I am not that old to get married, I know. But I am in a relationship and my boyfriend and his family think that it is high time to get married. Personally I I used to feel excited to marry him but as days go by I feel myself losing interest in marriage but not in him. And onething more is that I don't like to have my own baby. I like puppies kittens but not human baby..do I really have any psychological issue? (link)
No,you do not have a physical issue.My parents make me babysit my baby cousins and I dislike it.To calm you down,I dislike baby humans.For example,baby humans can not do anything at birth,but baby puppies and kittens can play and jump and surve in the woods on their own.Please tell your friends about me,on advicenators.com,Ask Luluohizua.You can contact me at luluohizua@yahoo.com.


Everytime I eat, I get really bloated. Does not matter what type of food it is (salty or not), my stomach grows 5 times the size it normally is after I eat any meal (big or small). It really looks like I am 8 months pregnant after I eat. I was wondering if there is anything I could do to help and prevent this from happening. It is such an inconvenience because, even if I eat just one banana, I will be bloated. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks :) (link)
I know how you feel.Even though I am only 8 years old,when my mother introduces me to her new BBFs they think I'm 10.On YouTube there are lots of videos on losing weight or staying on a healthy diet.I recommend conditioning for your hobbie,sport or job.For example,I am a cheerleader for Christ United Ministries International (which is a church) and I typed in 'conditioning for young cheerleaders'and one result was effective enough for just excersize.Please tell your friends about Luluohizua on advicenators.com.You can reach me at luluohizua@yahoo.com.




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