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My friend is depressed over me ): I need advice please.
So me and my bestfriend kept having fights. She became closer friends with my enemies (they're in my class) and I became closer to her ex-bff who is her enemy. While trying to find out the reason why they stopped being bff's I told my bff's enemy something I shouldn't have and she got in trouble for it. I apologized to her and said I did not have any intentions of hurting her in any way.
We became friends again. Then someone wrote my name all over the school furniture and I confronted her because I thought she did it because she was ignoring me but she didn't. A week later my science book disappeared and then two boys told me my bff was bad mouthing me. We both had a piece of paper she had my side I had hers. I confronted her and shouted at her for nothing it turned out my enemy her friend had set this up to make us drift apart and she interfered like the hero and took the piece of paper off me then she told on me that I was threatening to tell the whole school about my bff's secret I did say that but I'd never do such a thing to a person who means the world to me.
I did not get in trouble. I told the principal the whole story and how I was so convinced my bestfriend had betrayed me that I did not listen to myself anymore. He asked me to look for an answer deep within and he asked me if she could say such things which I said no to the question.
I wanted to apologize to my bff but my enemies surrounded her therefore I wasn't able to have courage ):
The principal investigated and found out it was my enemy. She would of been sent home but I forgave her and said we all make mistakes..I asked her to tell the whole story to my bff. But however when we were fighting over the paper I told my bff I didn't want to be her friend anymore and that she should return the paper to me.
She returned the paper to me yesterday and she got really sick..I heard from my enemies that when she handed up the paper she told them she was going to go home...since I thought it was all over I headed to hang out with her enemy who is in my class and who supported me. My bff saw us and was even more upset. Then when me and her enemy were going to class we were cracking up jokes and laughing and then I saw my bff she started crying..
When we were in class I heard her name being called out on the intercom..by then I was starting to get upset too I knew I was in the wrong too and I didn't feel good either..she went home sick crying because of me...my bff means a lot to me and I hate myself for hurting her :/ but I hate my enemy more for making this between us..my friend begged me to leave her alone but so far we were both crying...
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alright, best friends fighting. I have been there so many times love, it's not fun or easy. The best advice I can give is talking to her because you are both hurting each other at this point and it's not going to better if you don't sit down, alone with her, and talk to each other, voicing the concerns you both have.
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