Hey! Well just a quick word in. I like to give advice, but only when I know what I'm talking about, so I will only answer to certain questions that I'm positive about. But please ask me... send it into my inbox and if I can't help you I will tell you. I'm not going to give you a load of crap. Most of the time I can help you though. Please rate or give me feedback because I want to know how my answered affected you! And like most other columnists if you get mad about an answer because you asked a question on our opinion (Like "what do you think this means", etc) don't get mad.
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Tonight 6 or 7 of my friends are having a get together. A few boys and some girls. I have nothing planned! What are some activities we can do? We can't really go somewhere cuz the car doesnt hold that many pple. We're all 13 so keep it age appropriate. Thanks ! (link)
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*Go outside if its cold make sure people bring jackets & all. You can play football and just throw it around. Tag ( it sounds childish but it can be really fun!)
* AND if you do go outside for a little while you can come back in and have hot chocolate and talk or...
* Watch a Christmas-y movie or one that isn't your pick.
* sorry thats not alot but you can use that and lead into other stuff.I'm sure you'll think of stuff! It'll just sort of flow. lol well ttyl.
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i thought my real dad was in prison but the other day this man came to the door saying he was my dad had my birth certificate and everything im just confuse he said do i want to come out with him to get to know each other. But why has he waited al dis time to come see me im 16 now so do u think i should go and wat would i say to him (link)
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DONT GO ANYWHERE WITH HIM UNLESS YOU HAVE ANOTHER TRUSTED ADULT OR A FRIEND OR TWO WITH YOU. I don't mean to sound paranoid but you really should take a few precautions because you never know. So bring a few friends or at least 1 trusted adult that you know and maybe go out to lunch somewhere public and then go back home. If you anything feels wrong in your gut leave or stop talking with this guy. Seriously please take some precautions if you go.
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i thought my real dad was in prison but the other day this man came to the door saying he was my dad had my birth certificate and everything im just confuse he said do i want to come out with him to get to know each other. But why has he waited al dis time to come see me im 16 now so do u think i should go and wat would i say to him (link)
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DONT GO ANYWHERE WITH HIM UNLESS YOU HAVE ANOTHER TRUSTED ADULT OR A FRIEND OR TWO WITH YOU. I don't mean to sound paranoid but you really should take a few precautions because you never know. So bring a few friends or at least 1 trusted adult that you know and maybe go out to lunch somewhere public and then go back home. If you anything feels wrong in your gut leave or stop talking with this guy. Seriously please take some precautions if you go.
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what saint is petitiond in order to find lost objects? (link)
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Saint Anthony of Padua. go to to google.com and type in st. anthony lost objects for more information. Hope I helped!
* Btw two of the prayers are...
*St. Anthony, St. Anthony
Please come down
Something is lost
And can't be found
*Something's lost and can't be found
Please, St. Anthony, look around.
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whenever i talk to someone i cant really look at them in the eye and i look around.. what can i do so i can acutally LOOK at them in the eye when im talking to them? (link)
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Uh fyi I DON'T think you should look at their nose, lips, forhead, etc. because then they might think something is on their face. lol. So just look into their eyes. But its not that bad not to look at someones eyes just make sure you do a little bit. If you are looking around at everything BUT them they will either think you don't care about them OR they will lose interest in what you are talking about. Just try for like 1 second then build up and up to like 4 or 5 seconds etc. Good luck!
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I am 5'3'' and i weigh about 134 lbs. i kno im not fat, but i am chubby in my stomach and legs and i am trying to lose weight and tone those areas within about a month. Anyone have any ideas as to what kind of exercises i should be doing to make my legs and stomach slimmer? (link)
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Goes to this site.
www.toneteen.com
It has excercises for those parts. Just click on which part of your body you want to tone. Good luck!
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ok this question is for girls only lol. i have my period & i can't use tampons..but i have swimming in gym class & my teacher is being a jerk about it, so i have to swim for the rest of the week. i'm not sure what to do exactly. my mom told me that your period stops & slows down in water, soo should i juss jump in fast? any ideas?
thanks! (link)
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hey! I don't know what these people mean that have been saying " your period stops in water". UH no it does not. One time I was at the beach and I just ended my period when I got there...so I thought. Well apparently I had like a day left but I went without a tampon or anything. Yes its true it "slows down" in water but it doesn't completely stop. Sure you'd be fine for just a little bit, but I would not risk that. Have your mom write a note to your gym teacher or you can talk to them yourself. Your teacher should understand, especially if they have a note signed by a parent.
If they say you still have to swim, I know it might be tough but take it up with a higher authority, like the principal. They will straighten it out if your gym teacher doesn't and you wouldn't only be helping yourself you would be helping other girls in your school!
Write one to my inbox if you need anymore help!
Good luck!
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Ok, I'm an advicenator and always hate the boy questions, because there's so many, but now I actually have one, haha. I really like this guy, Drew. Last year, he ate in my lunch and we had chorus together. We flirted a lot. Like, at lunch, we would feed each other french fries! He was a little goofy-looking, but I still liked him. He even asked me to the Snowball, but it got cancelled. Well, this year, I hardly ever see him at all. I've only seen him a couple times. And he really changed. He cut his hair, so it's short and he spikes it, and highlighted it, so it's lighter. He's also wearing preppy clothes now. What I'm trying to say is...he got really hot. I mean, I still like him, not just for his hotness, but that's a huge bonus. Well I tried asking him to Homecoming, but he already had a date. So I figured I'd just ask him to Sadies. Well his date for Homecoming asked him to Sadies already. I don't know what to do. I know they're not going out. I never felt this way about a guy, which scares me! My friend and I are thinking about asking him and my other friend Sam to the movies next Saturday. What should I do???? I like him so much!!! Oh, and I'm pretty sure he knows I like him already.
Thanks, sorry so long!! (link)
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Hey! Yeah I have been in this situation before... sort of. lol. Here is my advice... just go up to him when you see him ( I wouldn't do it in front of tons of guys/girls....alone or a few people around is better) and say "Hey! We never talk this year!" or "Hey! You never talk to me anymore!" and that one will get him saying " How do you know YOU don't talk to me" and then you are like "well..." then yall will probably *laugh* or something lol and that will get the convo started. If you don't have a chance to talk to him or yall are to far away smile or something! So then he will at least feel like he SEES you so it won't be so awkward. It seems like he liked you last year so there would be a good chance he does this year! Just talk to him frequently.
And YES you should ask him to the movies. But I would recommend maybe making the group a little bigger just for the first time yall go to the movies so it won't be so uncomfortable. But the next time it can get smaller, etc. But YES ask him!!
Good luck! xoxo
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what are some good movies to watch w/ 14 year olds? i would LOVE a good comedy! i'm thinking Scary Movie 3 or Anchorman or Bruce Almighty... anything else? (link)
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Here are a few.
Hitch< that one is hilarious
Dodgeball
Mean Girls (if they are girls, guys would like it too, but they wouldn't go for it because it might make them seem "uncool")
Without a Paddle
National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation (lol an old one but i really like it)
And like you said Anchorman, Bruce Almighty, and Scary Movie 3 are great.
Good luck! Sorry I couldn't think of more! Hope I helped though. =)
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Why do Americans who have some Irish ancestry in them feel the need to be all proud about it? Some of these people are 2nd or 3rd greneration Americans and have never even left the country. (link)
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I'm considerable somewhat Irish and I'm not "all proud" or obsessed or anything but I AM still proud. They have more to be proud of than drinking like you say. There is many things to be proud of, like the beautiful country in general. But its not all good... alot of people are pale that are irish and since "tan" aka being orange but thinking your tan, is in then the pale people are just sort of left to a decision. That is either to be proud of who you are and the skin your in OR try to be fake tan. I prefer the first one.
But besides that, anyone should be proud of their heritage! You wouldn't be you without it. Alot of people are proud of theres like African Americans, all sorts of people that have ancestors from Central America, and definatly ITALIANS. Oh and also Germans and Czechs.
I hope I have given you are better view on that....
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I am currently attending the 3rd top private high school ($22,000 a year) in the country for the past 4 years (i'm in my freshman year, so this being my 5th..it also had a middle school + elementary school). But ever since I came here, all through the 4 years at this school, I have been miserable. Not because of the workload but because of the people. No one is friendly and it's EXTREMELY hard for me to make a few friends and its cliqie. I've tried to make more friends over & over again, but it hasn't worked. It's been like this for four years! Some people won't talk to me because of a rumor that I did something illegal and made a girl leave the school because of what I did, but it wasn't even true. They won't even believe me when I tell them it wasn't true. But the base line is that I have no friends at this school. So my problem is that my parents are having the HARDEST time deciding whether to take me out of my school or not because it's one of the best in the nation, gets ppl into ivy leagues, and yadda yadda. Also, my grades are affecting because of my loneliness at this school, I mean not that much, but still. So basically, I don't know what I should do. Move to a new school and sacrifice the benefits of the school I am currently going to, or stay here and be miserable for the rest of my high school years but most likely end up at a good college/university, or any other option that would work well. Thanks soo much, again! (link)
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You should try for a little longer on making friends if not then your parents should definatly take you out. Middle school is supposed to be fun. High school is supposed to be one of the best times of your life. Don't risk not having those memories. You need to have a fun time in school, sure the work part isn't fun, but everything else should be. Friends, school events like dances, football/ basketball/ soccer/ track meets and games missed out on not going to with friends because of this problem... I don't think so. Do yourself a favor and make friends. If this means going to a different school, so be it. Be outgoing if you can, if not then at least say hi and be very friendly to people. Have an edge and don't be afraid to be different. Please don't risk not having those memories.
Hope I helped! If you need anything else, drop your "?" in my inbox. =)
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i have really unmanageable hair. it's wavey, poofy, and frizzy. i have to spend and hour straightening it at night and about 45 minutes in the morning.. just to put it up in a pony tail. it won't stay straight so i can't leave it down. is there anything i could do so it will stay straight for more than 10 minutes? (link)
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You can go to a hair salon and they will put chemicals in it to keep it straight for months. I can't say you will have perfect straight hair but it will help ALOT. You will have to get it redone after several months and its expensive but like I said it will help alot. And, there are products you can use that you can get from like Target or Walmart that might help. Straightening products. You will have to experiment around with which will work. For now you might want to stick with pony tails until you get your hair problems straight. Also, you might need a new straightener. If you are using conair or something like that, they won't work on your type of hair at all. Here is a site with straighteners that you will probably find helpful.
http://www.folica.com/appliances/straightener.htm
Hope I helped. =)
If you have any more questions drop one in my inbox.
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A few weekends ago a bunch of us went gown to Galveston to celebrate a friend getting a full ride scholarship to college. Well, we were, of course, drinking.
I went home with my best friend and he was driving. We both had been drinking. Well, I didn't think anything of it and we were doing fine until we got into our neighborhood and we got into an accident...with a pole. Yeah, you're thinking omg a pole what could have happened. Well, he was speeding and we ended up pretty messed up and my best friend car was totaled. I broke my jaw and are, and cracked my skull.
Well, needless so say, our parents were PISSED. We both aren't allowed to do anything until the end of time.
Looking back at what happened now, I realize how irresponsible we were. And not only could we have killed ourselves but others out of stupidity. We're both DONE with drinking. I can barely even get into a car with out freaking out now.
There is still a huge problem with our parents; they have lost trust in us. Complete trust. I even over heard my mom telling my best friend that she has lost all respect for him as well. Neither one of us has any idea how we can help regain our parents trust. I for one value it and cannot live knowing that they dont trust me. Any one have any ideas? 17/f (link)
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I'm not very sure about this one but I'm going to throw out ideas so I hope they will help. You both need to get your parents, sit them down, and talk to them. You can both do it at the same time or different. I don't know if thats what you want to hear but thats what your going to have to do. You need to tell them you know what you did was stupid, wrong, and you are done drinking. Tell them that the accident is over and you can't go back into time. You need to make sure they KNOW all that. Also, if there is any group or club or ANYTHING in your school, church, or any place you go to, that you can sign up for a club about drinking and driving. I know one at my school is called SADD ( Students Against Destructive Decisions). It is mostly about drunk driving though. You could join something like that to prove you know the consequences and your serious that you know you were wrong. Also, you probably aren't allowed to go out because of all this but if you are make sure you are back ON TIME for anything that you go to. Maybe even before curfew or before the time set if possible. And you could help around the house or with dinner. Anything you can do to help out and make their lives easier.
By doing some of those things you could gain back some of their trust but it will take time. By doing all of those things continuously it will help alot. Don't just do it for a week and expect them to trust you fully. Not going to happen. Last thing.... if you had a kid that did that, what would you want them to do to gain back your trust?
I hope you and your friend have learned your lesson which I'm sure you have. Thank God you didn't hit anyone else or kill yourself. You can pray about that. =)
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i need to know how to grow my ails the fastest way before my birthday party its in a week and there just a little bit long not that much i want the white part of my ails to show relly good and relly long i know not to bite them cauz i decided to stop but any other ways !!!!!!!!! (link)
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You can try Sally Hanson. I think they had a nail polish that helps your nails grow. They probably sell it at Walgreens.
=) Hope I helped.
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Why do females regret losing their virginty when they did? What's the average age that a female loses her virginity? There is no way to get over losing your virginity is there? What if u only did it one time, then u wait like 20 years will it be tight again? (link)
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1. Usually they regret it because usually they were blinded by what they THOUGHT was love when they were young (teenage) and going through tons of hormones.
Think about having to admit to your husband/wife all the people you've had sex with and you couldn't wait until them. And you might be giving your husband/wife STD's.
2. Average age... I don't know. Everyone is different. Some people think just because all their friends have they have to too (stupid). Some people wait until marriage.
3. Well say you had sex when you were 15 because your boyfriend said he wanted to and you wanted to make him "happy" so you did. When really he dumps you a few months later and all he used you for was sex. Don't get me wrong I'm sure there we're probably good times in that relationship but in the end all that came out of it was you losing your virginity forever and to a loser. Anyway, those people who had sex young and then wait until they are married are called second-hand virgins. I don't know if you would be tight again... maybe.
Hope I helped.
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ok so my couisn has these to friends that i have been talking to on the computer, we have hung out like 3 times or whatever, but that was before one of them and i started flirting, so i was talking to him and i was talking to him about my school bonfire/homecoming thing and i dont no how it happened but now he is coming, and i dont wnat him to feel lonely, because he really doesnt no anyone at my school, so do you think i should invite the other boy too and my cousin, but i dont want to make anything akward with them because we will be all flirty adn everything...so i dont no what to do i just need help...thanks!! xoxo (link)
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I think you should invite all of them because that could be awkward and then he will have someone to fall back on in case you want to go of for like 5 minutes on your own and he won't be lonely. So yes I think you should definatly invite them.
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i have 2 questions...
1. what is the law about dating a person over 18 if your a minor? some people say its not illegal till u have sex some say its if you touch in any sexual way even kissing
2. i am 15 and the guy i like is 18 is that soo bad....
help if you can (link)
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No its not bad. The law is that when you are 18 it is illegal to have sex with someone 3 years younger than you aka a minor. It is NOT illegal to kiss/makeout/ etc etc. sex is though. Plus if he likes you it could because he wants some and he thinks you'll put out.
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I usually dont eat much. I eat maybe one small thing for breakfast and half of my lunch. I usually dont eat dinner. I usually exercise everything off if I eat a huge lunch or a huge dinner. I constantly worry about how much i weigh but im too scared to weigh myself cause im scared of the effect itll have on me. I usually exercise regularly. I run a mile a day, 30 pushups, 5 minute wall sit, and tons of other things. I'm also involved in Cheerleading so that kind of also is an excuse for me to exercise more often and burn off any fat. Ive been getting sick easier lately and idk why ive been sick for like 2 weeks now. Am i anorexic or what?
Oh also ive noticed my legs are smaller and so are my arms.. and ive noticed other things but i need oppinions i rate 5s. kthanxbye! (link)
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I just learned about this in the past few days. You NEED and I mean NEED to eat....now. As a matter of fact, this is true, scientists have tested and people who eat breakfast (or at mid morning if you get sick from eating breakfast that early) are likely to be more skinnier than people who don't. I know it doesn't make sense but you have to eat to get skinny. Let me explain. If you don't eat or skip meals your body thinks you are in a life or death situation so it saves all the fat and energy you have. So eat regularly just avoid eating alot of junk food or saturated fat. Also you have to excercise. You HAVE to eat. A car won't run without any gas in it right? Your body is going to slowly shut down if you don't put food in it. Oh and yes those are signs to anorexia. Anorexia can lead to fatigue, fainting, hospitalized with heart attacks, sharp pains, and even death. And if you don't think those affects will happen to you, they will if you keep this up. So do us all a favor and go eat something. Hope I helped. PiNkKisS43
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well i dont eat a lot anymore....i eat like once every like 4 days and then im not hungry so i eat like a cookie and thats it ....its not like im trying to i just dont get hungry anymore and its like really bothering me...and all my friends are like i need help cause i do have anorexia but i just am not like hungry...and i think im fat but i know im not...but even the most skinney person in the whole world thinks they are fat sooo its normal in girls...right???? well
ill rate 5 for good answers
~to scared to focus~ (link)
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I just learned about this in the past few days. You NEED and I mean NEED to eat....now. As a matter of fact, this is true, scientists have tested and people who eat breakfast (or at mid morning if you get sick from eating breakfast that early) are likely to be more skinnier than people who don't. I know it doesn't make sense but you have to eat to get skinny. Let me explain. If you don't eat or skip meals your body thinks you are in a life or death situation so it saves all the fat and energy you have. So eat regularly just avoid eating alot of junk food or saturated fat. Also you have to excercise. You HAVE to eat. A car won't run without any gas in it right? Your body is going to slowly shut down if you don't put food in it. Oh and yes those are signs to anorexia. Anorexia can lead to fatigue, fainting, hospitalized with heart attacks, sharp pains, and even death. And if you don't think those affects will happen to you, they will if you keep this up. So do us all a favor and go eat something. Hope I helped. PiNkKisS43
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what are some funny/cheesey pick up lines? (link)
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Here are a few...
Are you from Tennessee? Because your the only TEN I SEE.
Do you clean your pants with Windex? Because I can practically see myself in them.
Are you accepting applications for your fan club?
Do you work for UPS? Because I could have sworn I saw you checkin' out my package.
Excuse me. I am from the FBI, the Fine Body Investigators, and I'm going to have to ask you to assume the position.
(Talking to the person) "Call an ambulance!" "WHY??" "Because baby when I saw you my heart stopped."
lol okay thats all.... if you want more go to google.com and type in cheesey pick up lines or funny pick up lines....
Hope I helped!
-PinKkiSs43
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