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Ok, I'm an advicenator and always hate the boy questions, because there's so many, but now I actually have one, haha. I really like this guy, Drew. Last year, he ate in my lunch and we had chorus together. We flirted a lot. Like, at lunch, we would feed each other french fries! He was a little goofy-looking, but I still liked him. He even asked me to the Snowball, but it got cancelled. Well, this year, I hardly ever see him at all. I've only seen him a couple times. And he really changed. He cut his hair, so it's short and he spikes it, and highlighted it, so it's lighter. He's also wearing preppy clothes now. What I'm trying to say is...he got really hot. I mean, I still like him, not just for his hotness, but that's a huge bonus. Well I tried asking him to Homecoming, but he already had a date. So I figured I'd just ask him to Sadies. Well his date for Homecoming asked him to Sadies already. I don't know what to do. I know they're not going out. I never felt this way about a guy, which scares me! My friend and I are thinking about asking him and my other friend Sam to the movies next Saturday. What should I do???? I like him so much!!! Oh, and I'm pretty sure he knows I like him already.
Thanks, sorry so long!!
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Actually, this letter is relatively short compared to the ones I have seen. Your problem is simple. You both liked eachother last year and a dance got cancelled. After that neight of you expressed interest in dating the other and hardly saw eachother at all and or phoned one another. Then he got super hot, you want him bad etc.
That's called a crush and LUST. You are lusting after something you want or cannot have and drooling like a dog with dinner left on the counter and not served yet. You wanted him and could have had him but cannot and just because he shows up with spikey hair and making your heart pitter patter he may not remember you or feel the same way as you were never friends or anything more.
He has a girlfriend and regardless of what anyone says a steady one being the girl to always be with him on a date. Hon, there is no chance right now between you and him and your only chance both of you decided not to take after that dance.
You will not be sucessfully in attempting to get a date to the movies with him or period. Your time came and went, he likes this other girl, and that is is it. Go to the movies with your friends and enjoy yourself but try to get over this guy all you can do is be his friend if anything right now with his mind on this other girl.
I would hate to see you get hurt and rejected by him over being in love with someone you cannot have. It is best to drop it now than later.
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Hey! Yeah I have been in this situation before... sort of. lol. Here is my advice... just go up to him when you see him ( I wouldn't do it in front of tons of guys/girls....alone or a few people around is better) and say "Hey! We never talk this year!" or "Hey! You never talk to me anymore!" and that one will get him saying " How do you know YOU don't talk to me" and then you are like "well..." then yall will probably *laugh* or something lol and that will get the convo started. If you don't have a chance to talk to him or yall are to far away smile or something! So then he will at least feel like he SEES you so it won't be so awkward. It seems like he liked you last year so there would be a good chance he does this year! Just talk to him frequently.
And YES you should ask him to the movies. But I would recommend maybe making the group a little bigger just for the first time yall go to the movies so it won't be so uncomfortable. But the next time it can get smaller, etc. But YES ask him!!
Good luck! xoxo
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You tell him you missed him over the summer and would really like to spend time with him again.
Go ahead and ask him to the movies. Good luck. :)
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Just be straight with him and be like, "Do you have a girlfriend". It would clear up a lot of things! If he says, "yes" then just be happy for him =) If he says, "no" then ask him out! It's never wrong for a girl to ask a boy out, so don't wait. Good luck sweetie. You can rate if you'd like! =) If you need anything else you can send one into my inbox as well.
xoxo
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hi my name is tina and i hope i can help u out abit. my friend had the same problem before and i just tolf her to try and plan something that just them two could do together and just tell him exactly how yoiu feel. It might be scary and aquard but thats normal if you really have feelings for him you will feel that way but anyway you can like practice saying what your gonna say to him by saying it to your best friend or write it down and memorize it.She did that and guess what ending him he had feelings for her too even though he was going out with other girls he still felt the same way. Im not saying you have to do it but it might be a good idea. well i hope everything works out and Good Luck!!!
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