Gabrielle and Danielle are 15 year old females who want to help the world. If you need advice, come to them. They know you have problems, and they are here to help. They will not judge you. You will get two points of view, Gabrielle and Danielle's. So there will be a choice. Be prepared. ;) "We want to help you, there is no stupid question, or silly situation."
Website: Ask GabrielleAndDanielle
E-mail: glitterautichicas6@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: Students and Advice Columnists
Age: 15
Member Since: February 17, 2007
Answers: 19
Last Update: February 24, 2007
Visitors: 1978
Main Categories:
Love Life
General Sex Questions
Friendship
View All
Favorite Columnists
xWACKYJACKIEx
vomski10
megerrzz
Flaggal
|
| |
okay, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months. we hit it off really well & we have a very very healthy relationship. we are both strong christians, and have morals, but the farthest we've gotten is french kissing. Now we have friends of ours that we double date with alot. They've gotten way farther than us. like they haven't gone all the way, but he's like fingered her & she says that they've done things that she regrets. but idk. i don't really have an issue with going any farther with my boyfriend. but is it wrong to do anything? because i just feel like a goody goody.
HELP! (link)
| |
Danielle: Hun, that is the #1 reason NOT to do anything sexual related. Just because you're friends are doing it, doesn't mean YOU have to. And when you are fingering, sucking dick, or doing other things, it usually leads to SEX. When a male gets sexually aroused, theres nothing he WON'T do to get some pussy. I'm not saying your man is like that, but look out.
|
|
Alright... so i've been dating this guy for a couple of months and I broke off with him today... the reason why I broke it off with him is because I couldn't handle not seeing him only 2-3 times a month. He's in college and lives about 30-45 minutes away from me. I broke it off because he doesn't really pay attention to me and although he is a really nice guy I just think he's not ready to be more than just friends and he agreed that he "doesn't know what he wants." The last couple of months have been pretty bumpy because I went to get tested for HIV the first time in my life and I told him. He never asked how it went and didn't talk to me for a couple of days after I told him and so that was pretty much my deciding factor. I was really scared and needed someone to be there and he wasn't there for me just like he wasn't there a couple of times we'd been dating. So anyway, I talked to him on AIM and asked him some questions and he said that I've been bitchy lately and distant and I told that I have been because, "everytime I get atttached to you I end up being more disappointed than not." and he said some hurtful things and I was like "well, then I guess this is the best thing for both of us." and then he said... "well, fuck you too." and then blocked me... I feel really bad because I've never had to break up with anyone. Usually i'm the one that gets broken up with... I don't know what to do. I don't know if I should call him or wait a couple of days and then call him. I told one of my older friends and he was like, if he isn't mature enough to have that type of conversation and go through the whole, "no hard feelings thing" then he's not worth your time... I just grrr. I hate being cross with someone... anyway... some help? By the way, he's caused me a lot of tears because I constantly thought about him and he came off like he's never really thought about me. I think he's just a really passive guy and that he really does care about me, but doesn't know what to do... Also, distance is probably a factor, but I think it's just the chemistry between us wasn't good enough. The first few weeks we went out was really good because he'd pay attention to me and then the later weeks got worse and worse where he wouldn't text me or IM me. *sigh* help please :( (link)
|
Danielle: Honey, I clutch this letter to my swelling heart. First, you did the right thing by breaking up with him. If he's the kinda guy that made you cry, the ugly bum needs to be put out on the streets! But, if he really cared about you, he wouldn't have been all, "fuck you" and he wouldn't have blocked you. You did the right thing, and DO NOT CALL HIM. Let him come to you if he wants closure. But for now, you do not need some jerk like that in your life. The best way to get over a guy...is too.......
GET A NEW ONE! ;) But if you can't move on right now, take it easy.
|
|
what is the quickest and easiest way to lose about 15 pounds besides diet pills? (link)
|
Gabrielle: Hun, hun, hun! To lose 15 lbs. fast, you need to go to Curves, Jenny Craig, Bally Total Fitness. And you need to diet. And you need to excersise but don't over-do it. It reall depends on how much you weigh.
Danielle: Sweetie,drink lots of water! It quenches your thirst, and if you fill up on it, will stop you from eating junk and eatiing all of those unhealthy foods that most people eat. Excersie for about 30 mins. a day for about 6 days, and make sure you get in all of your nutrition.
|
I'm going to a family party today and my mom wants me to wear stockings because it's going to be cold out. I'm wearing a skirt above my knees and flats though, so wouldn't that be so weird looking? Do teens wear stockings anymore?! I thought only little kids and grandmas did. Well this is what i'm asking:
1. Would stockings look strange? In my opinion, I think it would ruin my whole outfit, but I want your input. (They would be black stockings)
2.If they do look strange, whats a way to keep my legs warm until I get to the party? Thanks! (link)
|
WEAR LEGGINGS!!! THEY ARE JUST LIKE STOCKINGS, BUT ACTUALLY CUTE!!
Get them to match your top.
|
|
Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
|
Gabrielle: Well Hunny, go to both parties. Go eat with Margaret and spend the night with Lucy. If you want to get to know Lucy better, spend time with her. Margaret won't be mad, seriously. If i was in the situation, i'd go to both parties. And Bonus, if you wanna get to know Lucy, at the party,stand out in the crown. Luv 2 Help.
Danielle: Unavailable
|
|
i only poop like once a week and it makes me feel fat and bloated and sick and huge all week long. i eat pretty healthy. no junk food, no soda, no fast food, at least one piece of fruit a day, etc. how can i poop more often? what could i be missing from my diet that's making me never poop like ever? what can i do? (link)
| |
You need fiber and hydration.
|
Can anyone tell me of a website that has a game thats kind of like The Sims (some sort of virtual reality game)
And...can anyone tell me of a game that is like an interior/exterior home decorating game?
Thanks so much! (link)
| |
Go To BEST BUY or ANY TECH STORE and buy The Sims
|
ok so basically;
i really liked this guy , hes not really ot just cute and really nice, but thats thhe thing:hes too nice. hes a doormat and peolpe keep telling me that im using him, but im not and it only occured to me he was a door mat like today. anyway i guess i just dont know what to do, should i stop flirting with him? (link)
|
Gabrielle: No,No,NO! Follow your heart. Flirt until you decide to go to the next step. If he is a doormat, once you get into a deeper relationship, tell him he is a softie, a doormat, a beezie! Tell him to tuffin up and get on the long haul to manhood, then give him a nice gentle kiss and walk away. Be good to him, if you feel he is too soft for you, go to a tuffer boulder in the pack.
Danielle: Well, do what your heart tells you and where it tells you to go,follow.
|
ok well im a female im 5'6" and my weight is about 115.. does that make me underwieght or overweight or what? cuz personally i think im fat but my friends tell me im skinny i want to diet but im afraid i might become anerexic or somthing. Soo what do you think.
(sp?) (link)
| |
Gabrielle: Well Honey, you are actually at a great size! You need to stay at that size as well as you can, and don't lose any weight. You are the right size, not fat or skinny.
|
Is there a site that i can go to, to get FREE music downloads and not have to give them a credit card num or whatever. One that downloads to windows and will alow me to put it on my mp3 player?
Please help (link)
| |
Limewire.com Kazaa.com
|
if a guy calls you kfc wat does that mean? (link)
| |
It means a slut or a fat slut
|
|
all my frineds make fun of me because my penis is too big, i am 14 and it is 9 inchies. Is i thought it was a good thing to have a penis. Is it? (link)
| |
Gabrielle: What!! Damn! You got it going on on on! You better show off! lemme meet u lol
|
|
ok there is this girl at my school who i used to date, but it did not really go all that well, i was too shy. first of all i do not know how to overcome that, and second, ever since we broke up i have realized more and more how much i love her and want her, even though we rarely talk. she is also leaving at the end of this school year, i want to tell her that i love her, but it sounds so stupid. (link)
|
Gabrielle: Nothing you say is stupid. You cannot hold in your feelings. You need to tell her how you feel immediatley. Don't tell her at the end of the year, she'll be gone and you won't be able to have the relationship that you can have if you tell her now. And if you tell her then, she might have a boyfriend and then what. If you don;t get your feelings returned, than don't sweat it. You can have another girl.
DANIELLE: First of all, no love is stupid. I suggest you tell her you love her before she leaves or you will have to live with the fact that you didn't for the rest of your life. If she is smart, she'll accept your love because any boy would have to be sweet and kind to pour his heart out to this advice column. I wish you the best of luck.
|
|
what are the best ways to become closer to guy friends? and what are some things guys look for in a girl to just hang out with? (link)
|
Gabrielle: Well, try to get into what he likes if you want to hang. If he enjoys sports, play and watch sports with him. If he enjoys money, spend lots of money with him, but not on him. And anything else he enjoys, enjoy it with him! If you want to get closer, do that and try to hint him and let him know how you feel, don't just say it, hint him out, if you want to go out and tell him you wanna be closer, than do that. But, dont be to quick about it or you may lose a good or great as hell friend.
Danielle: Do a full on investigation. Try to find out what kind of girl he likes, his hobbies. If you aren't interseted in what he is, don't try to play it off like you do, things will end badly.
|
tonight im meeting my potential boyfriends parents!
i dont want to give them the wrong impression, but i dont want them to think im a prude or anything.
suggestions? (link)
|
Gabrielle: Hun, Hun, Hun! DON'T WEAR A SKIRT, LONG OR SHORT!! I had to point that out right away! That means you are showing off to them. It depends what you are doing. If your going out, wear black pants and a floral or striped shirt. If you are staying in, wear khaki( tan ) pants and a black or brown solid color shirt, and for shoes, if your going out, wear heels that aren't too high. Staying in, wear high heels that you can be comfortable in, only if you are sitting or lounging. Make sure you bring an extra pair of shoes for any surprises. And now for your hair, put it up into a bun, rock some twists, or just keep it out if you have the right hair. Make-up is easy be neutral, A light pink lipstick with a shade of clear gloss ontop and a nice light color eyeshadow to match your top.
Danielle: Kimono Sleeved Top and a Knipped Waist. Kimono Style tops are most flattering when they're fitted in the middle. Just add accesories in all the right places like a braclet with a ribbon ties the look together. Perfect for this kind of date. This top can be paired with leggings, or tight fitting jeans. Spice it up with a pair of really hot heels and put your hair up in a bun with two chopsticks. All you need is the perfect shade of lipgloss and you are good to go. Make sure to pair this outfit up with a pair of super cute earrings and a beaded clutch.
|
|
my mom said she'll think about me going to a boarding school if i make a list of reasons why a boarding school is better than a public school. what are some reasons why a boarding school is better than a boarding school? i'm desperate! (link)
|
Gabrielle: Well Hun, I have no idea what you find attracting in a boarding school, did you watch ZOEY 101 a little too much? That's not what it's like. Well, you can say that there is no picking up and dropping off problems. You will have a better learning oppertunity. Make new friends that are better influences. And that they let anyone into and teach public school, but in boarding school they don't. None of those are true, but it'll work! But, I am so happy to see a young woman standing up for what she belives in, I am glad you are following your heart, best wishes and tell us if you get in. ;)
Danielle: Doll, just like all of my god-awful opinions on boarding school, I think it's really mature of you to decide onsomething you really want, especially since it's about education. So, make sure you make the list with a little presentation to why you should go. Make sure you list all the reasons about your better education and learning oppertunities. Maybe throw in some things about your higher education, say somethings about getting accepted into any high class college. Make sure whewn you tell her these reasons, don't sound like your whining or acting like a baby. Be prepared for the worst, rejection. Be prepared for the best also, acceptance, when your mother proudly says ok. Tell us if you get in.
|
|
I am going clubbing for the first time and i donn't really know what to do I don't want to feel left out, bored, and boring so how to keep the party going, fit in and have fun? (link)
|
Gabrielle: Well Hun, follow your friends. If they know how to do it, follow what they do and you'll be good to go. But, if they aren't very good at it,i'll tell you what i think you can do. Stay on The Dance Floor, stay at the bar ( if ur illegal, get some ginger ale or something that looks like alcohol) and don't stop the party untill you feel like you're too weak to go on. :) No problems helping.
|
16/f
This year and last year have been really tough on me because i have lots a lot of my friends because they moved and went to different school and whatnot. So i was left with one good friend. But we kept getting into fights all the time and i was getting fed up with it. So one day i let it all out and said how i was feeling and i told her she was a bad friend(because she is). She clearly didnt care and we stayed friends. Like people always ask me how i deal with her and stuff and im just like idk i just do, but i think im relizing that im just useing her becuase i dont have anyone left, i mean yea we have lots of fun times but i think i spend more time not likeing her and talking about her behind her back. What should i do? i know this itsnt the right thing to be doing! (link)
|
Gabrielle: Hunny, all you need to do is tell her that you don't want to be friends. If you don't, you'll be stuck in the hell hole of a friendship that you are already in. I had to did the same thing a while back. I let her down gently, and she kept coming back, so i had to get her where it hurt, her heart, so don't be like me, and actually get to the point in the beginning( still gently) and you won't have to put up with her bull.
Danielle: First of All Doll, if you are talking about your friend behind her back then she really isn't considered a friend, so don't call her that. Now, when you are ending this, get to the point and don't beat around the bush by saying things like "I know we haven't been the happiest, and we had a good friendship but," Think it out clearly, do you really want to end this friendship. Tell her first that if she doesn't shape up in a few days it's over, adn if she doesn't she won't come back to you. You won't have to deal with her fukked up life.
|
i like a guy, and i know he likes me back.
he said he wants to hang out..but since we both like each other, how is that any different from a date? is it a date? (link)
|
Danielle: Think to yourself doll, how did he ask you? Was he in a more relaxed tone of voice like he was talking to one of his guy friends, or waws he a little nervous? Exactly where did he ask you to go out, if he asked you near his home, he probably wants to chill, but if he asked you out to a movie or to eat, it leans toward the dating thing. So if it is a date, go buy a new outfit that is hanging in the shop window at the mall and break some hearts. ;)
Gabrielle: Well Hun, if I have been in lots of situations like that, and if you don't like to be crushed, take this advice. Well, If he asked you around lots of buds or wasn't really paying attention to you, well, it's probably asking to chill. If he asked you to be alone, and then asked you paying more attention to you than ever, it's a date! Go get that make-up and ask a friend to beautify you. ;)~
|
|