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friend? not so much.
16/f
This year and last year have been really tough on me because i have lots a lot of my friends because they moved and went to different school and whatnot. So i was left with one good friend. But we kept getting into fights all the time and i was getting fed up with it. So one day i let it all out and said how i was feeling and i told her she was a bad friend(because she is). She clearly didnt care and we stayed friends. Like people always ask me how i deal with her and stuff and im just like idk i just do, but i think im relizing that im just useing her becuase i dont have anyone left, i mean yea we have lots of fun times but i think i spend more time not likeing her and talking about her behind her back. What should i do? i know this itsnt the right thing to be doing!
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Gabrielle: Hunny, all you need to do is tell her that you don't want to be friends. If you don't, you'll be stuck in the hell hole of a friendship that you are already in. I had to did the same thing a while back. I let her down gently, and she kept coming back, so i had to get her where it hurt, her heart, so don't be like me, and actually get to the point in the beginning( still gently) and you won't have to put up with her bull.
Danielle: First of All Doll, if you are talking about your friend behind her back then she really isn't considered a friend, so don't call her that. Now, when you are ending this, get to the point and don't beat around the bush by saying things like "I know we haven't been the happiest, and we had a good friendship but," Think it out clearly, do you really want to end this friendship. Tell her first that if she doesn't shape up in a few days it's over, adn if she doesn't she won't come back to you. You won't have to deal with her fukked up life.
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You need to go and make yourself some new friends, and stop being a fake to this other friend. Let's be realistic here, you say SHE is a bad friend, but what are you? Not much better, that's for sure.
How, exactly, does that make you a better person in the situation? I'm sorry, but it doesn't.
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