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my mom is dumb
Ok im a fifteen year old male. I thought my best friend hacked my myspace and i blamed it on him. When really it was my mother. I dont know how she did it. She read all my personal blogs. She brings me to counseling now which I dont need. Because I said in there Im manic depressive. I know I am Ive been diagnosed by a retired doctor that my mother didnt know I was seeing because he was related to one of my good friends. What do I tell the counselor? she keeps asking me whats going on why didnt you tell your mom this. Im a very private kid and i dont like to discuss things with my mom. what do i do? My mother deleted all my 984 friends. Including my best friend which is austin. I think shes jealous I have friends. She doesnt like austin. He's a great person too.
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Your mom has a point, but she went way too far and crossed a whole bunch of lines she shouldn't have even gone near in trying to make it. Her point is that you should have told her about the depression and that being the private person that you are, she doesn't know things about you that she probably should. Here's what you should do. Tell the counselor what your mom did and how ridiculous she's being. Don't even bother about telling him/her about your depression and stuff. That can be dealt with later if it even needs to be. What your mom did needs to be dealt with now. It was completely unacceptable and the counselor will probably feel the same way. So, basically, use the counselor that she got you against her. Fun, huh?
Now on to your depression. You made it sound like having manic depression wasn't a big deal for you and it wasn't that serious. It sounds like things are going just fine for you and that you're dealing with it in an healthy way. If this is true, good for you. Remember though, that manic depression is serious. Your mom should have known about it. Anybody that reads your blogs would have known. Isn't your mother more important than them? She cares so much about you even if she has a poor way of showing it. Sounds like she needs the counselor more than you. She really needs a few lessons in parenting. Yeah, she made some mistakes as a parent, but she didn't make any as a person. Her intentions for you are very good. Setting everything aside, please be positive that your depression isn't serious enough to be greatly affecting your life. If it is, you really should look into getting some kind of help for it.
Good luck. :)
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Maybe if you would talk to her about your problems, she won't feel the need to research you behind your back out of worry.
Being a private person is one thing, but when your councilor suggests you say certain things, you need to tell her. How do you ever expect to get over your problems?
I highly doubt she is jealous of your friends. I would be willing to bet she just wants to know what goes on in your closed up world.
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If you are diagnosed with manic depression you hsould have told your mother. How is she suppose help you. The only reason that she is checking up on you is because she is worried about you. You may be a private person but something like that you shouldn't keep from her. If your mother cares enough to take you to conseling go and just tell her how you are feeling and why you didn't think you should tell your mother that. all the conselor will ask if what happened that you felt this way and stuff. Your mom probly deleted your friends because she was worrried and didn't know if your friends were the ones who were influencing to not talk to her and things like that. Let your mom get to know your friend and know that he is a good kid. Your mom most likely didn't delet your friends because of jealousy, she probly doesn't want you talking to strangers or some thing...
hope I helped
-Sarah
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