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my ex and my friend??
ok so my ex has always been my best friend and we are still really in love with each other (i know this for a fact) and well you see he just started talking to my friend. and if i know my friend she will fall for him and it makes me really sad. i cried all day today because i saw them together. it really upsets me but i can't be mad because i really love my friend and i really love him i just don't understand how they could do this to me. so here is my question:
1) How can i approach him and talk to him about our feelings for each other?
2) What should i say when i'm talking to him about this?
3) What should i do about my friend?
Thanks for any advice i need it bad.
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first you need to talk to your friend and tell her that you still have feelings for him and make it clear that he is off-limits and it will really upset you if she and him have an intimate relationship, you should approach your ex in whatever way works for you, if you are uncomfortable face to face call him and tell him how you really feel. tell him you realize that you still really like him and if he still likes you too he can understand what you are feeling.
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My thoughts on the subject: If you two are "really in love" why are you each other's exes? Also, If you are "really in love," just because your friend falls for him, that doesn't mean he's going to fall for her. If he truly loves you, then he'll keep on loving you. That being said, I'll tackle the specific questions you asked.
When you guys are just talking and having a good time, (you said you were good friends, so this situation shouldn't be too hard to make happen) be a little flirty. Then, when things calm down a bit, and things get quieter, say something like, "We've been having a lot of fun lately, haven't we?" and see what his reaction is. If he has a positive reaction, just tell him how you feel. As for your friend, give her a little credit. If she knows about your feelings for this boy, and she's a good friend, she'll back off. Just make sure you talk to her before she really does fall for him (if she even does) or she might get a little bit defensive.
Hope I helped, good luck =]
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Well, if he likes your friend and starts to go out with her, he isn't as in love with you as he lets on to be.
1) If he is your friend and/or is still really in love with you, you should be able to feel comfortable talking to him about your feelings.
2) You should tell him how you feel, plain and simple.
3) I don't know that you should do anything about your friend. Realistically, if she is the one he likes and he wants to go out with her, there isn't anything you can do about it but accept it.
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