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The names Sammy. I'm 16. 5'0" & 96 pounds. Homeschooled & in the 11th grade. Live in the beautiful state of North Carolina. I loove Hollister & Pac Sun, they are like the best stores ever invented. Smoothies are my anti-drug, haha.


I enjoy helping people- so ask whatever you feel like, no matter what it may be & I'll try my best to help you :)


By the way, I've learned not to take things in life for granted. Always remember that. ♥

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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks

Yeah, it's possible. If you're active in sports.. you're likely not to get your period or be late sometimes.

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do guys prefer for a girl to fake an orgasm if they don't get one during sex?

Noo, don't do that. Most women don't even have an orgasm during sex in the first place. And, the whole point to sex isn't all about making sure you have an orgasm. If he later found out you faked it, he would probably feel really bad & then begin to wonder weather ANY of the orgasms he "thought" you had were real..

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hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know?

Nope. He would probably be able to tell that your hymen has been strecthed/broken but that can be from other things like fingering, tampons, sports, etc. so he wouldn't know exactly what caused that to happen. Plus, I'm sure he'd believe you if you're telling him you're a virgin since you are marrying him.

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if my period wasnt late at all and its only just started and not really really heavy does that mean that im pregnant?

Nope, If you get your period, then you're MORE than likely to NOT be pregnant. :)

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Is it bad that im 16 and I am having protected sex with my boyfriend of five months like once every other week?

Well it may be bad to some people but not others. If you're religious or anything like that- then yes it can be bad because you're having sex before marriage. Although, if you aren't religious.. then there's really nothing wrong with it if you're using protection and it's something you really wanna do and not regret with your boyfriend. :)

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ok here is the sitution i am 13 and in 7th grade there is this boy i like and i thought he liked me because all the time he grabs ma hips and rubs his you know what on m butt. and i sorta like it but when my friends ask him if he likes me he says no whats up with that please help i rate high

He may like you, but just not wanna tell your friends. Or possibly, he doesn't like you at all.. he's just being a guy by doing all those things to you. He might just want to "hook up" with you. So be careful :)

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okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else?

No, it's not weird at all. Most girls that do shave down there don't have sex, they just think it looks and/or feels better. So it's fine :)

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is it possibly to get pregnant if you have sex without a condom but the guy didnt cum

Yes. Because he more than likely had "pre-cum" and you can still get pregnant by that. So next time I'd advise you to use a condom, so your chances of being pregnant aren't as high. :)

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I was talking to one of my guy friends and he said that the taste of a guy's cum depends on his diet. Is that true? Like, he said that if the guy ate fruits and stuff that it'll be sweeter.

Personally, I think that it's true. I've read a lot of places that it's true, too. But I guess it could really depend on the guy himself as well. Like it may effect some guys by the types of foods they eat, but then with others.. it may taste the same all the time no matter what. :)

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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.

Yes, that's still considered rape. Anytime you are forced into having sex when you don't want too is considered rape no matter how long you've been dating the person or how many times you've had sex in the past.

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I gave my boyfriend a handjob, and i'm afraid I wasn't that good. He did ejaculate until after. Why is that? Does anyone have any good advice/ tricks on what feels good and will make then ejaculate while you are doing it? Thanks alot

Yeah, we aren't really suppose to answer these kind of questions on here in much detail. So all I'm going to say is that you need to ask him what he likes, don't be afraid to do that. You should be able to talk to the person you're being sexually active with. He will tell you what he likes best, etc & it'll help you a whole lot more. :)

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how long after you're pregnant until you become noticable bigger?
and also, if you buy a pregnancy test, can that test only be used once?

Yes, you can only use a pregnancy test once. It's usually around 3 to 5 months when you start showing or becoming bigger. ♥

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do girls boobs hips or anthing in that matter grow when they have sex.

Nope, they don't. ♥

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When I go to the bathroom and get rady to wipe I aways look @ my underwear and every time I do they is this whitish Yellowidh hard crust stuff what is it and what should I do?

It's discharge. Every girl gets it & it's perfectly normal. There's nothing that you can really do.. ♥

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i could never put in a tampon and ive have been fingered about 3 times since the last time i tired....do u think i would be able to put it in now?

Yes, you should be able too. But actually you should have been able to put a tampon in before you were fingered. Girls that have never been fingered or anything else wear tampons all the time. Make sure you read the box carefully & follow the directions. Good luck! ♥

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when you shave your vagina are, is wierd or normal to shave everything? i mean like completly bald i guess youd call it, i dont really know what im talking about but i need help. all thoughts appreciated..thnx

Nope, that's not weird at all. You aren't the only person who shaves "everything". ♥

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Alright...weird question..but oh well. My boyfriend always likes to like suck on my nipples...(heh)...and now like a week later I have a weird scab thing and its never happened before..and we've been together to a year..so umm why did this happen now?

He was probably sucking too hard & gave you a hickey. Nothing to worry about- just tell him to be easier next time? ♥

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Can you get a girl pregnet after haveing butt sex with her and some cum drips on to her vagina

Yes, it's possible for her to get pregnant like that. BE CAREFUL! ♥

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Can you have precum by itself before you ever have cum

Yep, that's usually how it works.
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is there anyway i can like my my vagina better for when i get fingerd....like not to make the guy grossed out lol

Nope, not really. A guy isn't gonna think your vagina is gross anyway. The only thing you could do is shave or trim down there because some guys are turned off by a lot of hair. I don't know if you already do that though.. ♥

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