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okay im going to my girlfriends house on sunday for easter and i want to know what exactly turns a girl on like what to do to her you know like kissing her neck. i need all the help i can get!! thanks
ok you should definitly kiss her neck. Also a lot of girls think its so cute to go up from behind them, give them a hug, put ur hands on their waist things like that.
Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!
you got raped. you need to calm down, and you should probably tell someone.
i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ?
Well just because he got a boner when you did that doesnt mean he actually likes you, you should ask him about it. Tell him you noticed he got one and if yous should start dating. And maybe since you's are so close(big brother lil sis thing) maybe it'll be good to go out, because you's can share things with eachother and have a close relationship. Hope things work out!
1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?
((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))
love: the girl who doesn't know!!
Well its not exactly wrong, but like if you dont want people to think your bie i wouldnt tell anybody. And if u did eat out your bestfriend, wouldnt it feel weird, btw you's ever since, or maybe it could make you's come closer. Chances are you might like it and start to do it more and maybe turn Bi. Hope i helped
I made my desicion but I dont know what to do I want to do I want to get put on the pill just to be safe but I dont want my mom to know about it I mean should I fake that I am sick and say I have to talk to the doctor privately what do I do I need help some one out there PLEASE HELP
Well if your talking about BC, my friend wanted them too and she has friends that are older then her , that could get the pills for her so she got the pills from a friend put them in a bag instead of the containor and tried to keep them hidden. Hope I helped!
theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them
Well since your not going out , watch a movie. Like reach over her for something and stop when your right infront of her face and do something stupid, silly . Lick her face or something.Ask for a hug get into the mood , turn the lights off or dim the lights. Hope i helped
ok, the other night, I stayed the night with my best guy friend. We have been flirting and hugging and things like that with no problem. But then we were laying together and we were doing a little rubbing and touching on eachother and then I started feeling weird like I...or we did something wrong?? I dont know why either....does any one know why that might be?
Well if you've never done anything like that before, thats might be why you felt a little weird, oh maybe because you like him and you'd rather do things better with him knowing you like him. Hope i helped
can you please tell me how/what/why is ....
mastuerbating (how)
hand job (how/what)
fingering (how/what)
when a guy 'busts' (what/why)
when you pop your 'cherry' (what/why)
or anything else like this im 17/f and totally mature and no one has told me any of these
thanks so much if u can
Mastuerbating is..with a guy he (jacks off is another term) goes up and down and makes him self cum. With a girl its when you finger yourself and make your self cum. Handjob is basically a girl mastuerbating to a guy. She goes up and down on his 'below area' untill he cums.Fingering is when a guy fingers a girl. He can use one two three or how many fingers he wants, it feels good. When a guy bust, its when he gets a hand job, blow job, and sex. He'll bust when hes horny, and has like a boner. When you pop your cherry its when a guy fingers you too deep or yous have sex too hard. You bleed like you have your period. It hurts. Hope i helped any others please feel free to ask!!
ok well i have been going out with this guy for a while now and every thing is going really good but i want to take it to the next leave and i dont know what to do can anyone help me
p.s. i dont really know how to give a guy head or like how i am supposed to let him fingure me can anyone help me please?
Well the next level it depends how far you've went before.If you only made out the next step would be handjob and fingering. For a handjob you just grip not so tight but not loose and go up and down until the guy busts.Fingering is when the guy sticks finger/fingers up your 'area'. it feels good and you dont have to do anything just sit. THe next step after is head and eating out.Head is when you just go up and down using your mouth and let the guy bust in your mouth. For a bj you can use your hands too it dont really matter. For eating out a guy pratically just eats your "area" and it feels really good.Hope i helped!Anything else leave me a inbox.
i`ve never shaved 'down there'..i`m scared i`ll get razor burn, but it really bugs me and i want it all gone..without getting it waxed. Does using shaving cream keep it from no razor burn? what else could i use so i dont get it, because i`m in a swim class at my school..and i really dont want red bumps to be visible. i use a venus razor, if that counts for anything..
You can take sissors and trim before you use a razor ..then use shaving cream and shave it in the shower
People are always saying not to do anything until you're totally and fully ready. Well, my boyfriend is ready to finger me and I want him to and i want to be ready but like..how can i become ready?
Well for the h/j part. I was kind of scared the first time i did it so like as a joke id be like "what percentage are you at" so hed tell me and usually if you dont want it on you roll up your seleves and go under a blanket. if he doesnt mind. And to be ready just make sure u really like him. hope i helped
hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
You should definitly tell him. If he loves you enough, it wont effect the relationship if anything hed care for you more. hope i helped
Hey, im really scared about doing stuff sexually with a guy because of some of the stuff with my body..do guys care what a body looks like? i have stretch marks on my boobs because they grew so fast..and i have little dots on my but..and i dont know why? i just wanted to ask you if a guy cares about what his girlfriends body looks like to do sexual stuff with her.. i havent done anything yet...but im scared of what might happen when we do stuff..thanks!
well a guy might care it depends what kind of boyfriend you have, if u ever do do something. try it in the dark? tell him you'll be more comfortbale doing it in the dark. hope i helped
well, Im super scared for my friend. She asked me thia question. "If you're giving a guy a hand job, and he whipes some of the stuff away, and then fingers you, can you get pregnate?"
I have no clue, and i wanna help her and be there for me! Please help me (well, i guess it would be my friend)
If you don't know dont answer, because I only want to tell her the real truth!
thanks!
Theres a slim chance...he shouldve washed his hands
what are some different ways to masturbate an for the pleasure to last longer? Thanks
if your a girl..you can buy some toys maybe..and watch some porn on tv
Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!
Tell a teacher, tell a parent, an adult, tell your office, princable or tell him to leave you the f*ck alone.
If someone eats you out, will you get an orgasm?
Y0U CAN ...BUT Y0U MiGHT N0T ..iT DEPENDS iN H0W MUCH PLEASURE Y0U GET 0UT 0F iT. S0ME PE0PLE D0NT EVEN HAVE 0NE DURiNG SEX!
i no this is stupid but, what the heck is a condom?
A C0ND0M iS S0METHiNG A GUY WHERES WHEN HAViNG SEX..iT PR0TECTS THE GiRL FR0M GETTiNG PREGNET ..
ANY 0THER QUESTi0NS JUST ASK!
I know this is pretty stupid to ask... but.. I've been with my boyfriend 4 months. and a couple nights ago.. he fingered me... well... I bled a little... and ever since that night hes done it... and now.. I'm really starting to hurt. but... It feels sooo good... and I dont want him to stop.. but what can i do to not make it hurt soo bad? is there anything..
Boy I feel stupid :(
0KAY JUST TELL HiM N0T T0 USE AS MANY FiNGERS 0R S0 DEEP - AlS0 LET HIM TRY T0 EAT Y0U 0UT iT FEELS S0 G00D AND D0ESNT HURT AT ALL!
ok ive done a hand job before but my friend keeps askin when is he gettin his and i keep tell him i dont kno and like i dont wanna come off as a ho doing that to someone im not with..is that hoeish ? i do have feelings for him though
WELL MAYBE Y0U SH0ULD TELL HiM HE'S N0T G0iNG T0 GET 0NE SiNCE Y0US ARENT DATiNG. iTS KiND-0F H0EiSH BUT YEAH Y0U CAN D0 iT iF Y0U LiKE HiM AND WANT T0!