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I made my desicion but I dont know what to do I want to do I want to get put on the pill just to be safe but I dont want my mom to know about it I mean should I fake that I am sick and say I have to talk to the doctor privately what do I do I need help some one out there PLEASE HELP
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well do you have somebody older than you like a friend or like a aunt that could help you who you could trust that wont tell your mom
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ok well what you can do is book an appointment to go to the doctors on your own - they will not tell your mum. They keep it all very confidential. If you want to be put on the pill they will most probably let you (even if you are underage) but what they will say is about 'hiding the pills from your mum'. If you dont want to tell her they will also recomend getting an injection every 12 weeks instead or an implant (a little stick like thing which is put in the inside of you arm, you cant see it and you can have it for up to 3 years)They both work as well as the pill.
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Luv nicki xxxx
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You could go to a family planning clinic, and they'll give you birth control for free, just tell them that you're sesexually active. You also have to realise the risks involved with taking birth control. Subtly ask your mom if theres any history of blood clots or anything like that. If you go to a doctor, they have to tell your mom, but family planning clinics usually don't ask.
Mad Love,
Victoria
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Guess what? You're mother doesn't have to know about this! Great, huh? All you have to do is go to a Planned Parenthood clinic (try not to stand out. sunglasses, a coat, and a hat should do the trick), or somehting safer like a doctor. If the doctor says that they should call your mother, it's not true because the wonderful thing is that this is YOUR business!
However, I don't think hiding things from parents is a good idea, so you should probably tell her. Hopefully, she will think it is a good idea and support you on it. If she freaks out, well, you'll probably end up pregnant and she'll have to take care of the kid. It all comes full circle. I mean, you probably have a good reason for not wanting to tell her, so you don't have to if you think she won't support you.
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This probably isn't the right thing to say, but I think you should tell your mom that you are going out with a friend or something and then make a private appointment at your doctors.
However, your Mom should really know about it. But if you really don't want to tell her go ahead with what I said above. It's better to be on the pill and for her not to know about it than to not be and end up pregnant or something.
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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If you have an aunt, a friend who can drive, or just someone you can trust to not tell your mother ask them if they'll take you to a healt department or planned parenthood. They'll have to do a pap smear beforehand but can give you the pills as soon as possible. Your mother won't know because of the patient-doctor agreement! DO NOT GO TO YOUR FAMILY DOCTOR unless you intend on your mother finding out.
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Its good you want to be safe, I wanted to be safe too thats why Im on the pill. But instead of tryin to do it without your mom finding out, just tell her your periods are irregular, and you have really bad cramps, and that you want to be put on birthcontrol. Thats what I told my mom, plus its free at your local health department.
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Well if your talking about BC, my friend wanted them too and she has friends that are older then her , that could get the pills for her so she got the pills from a friend put them in a bag instead of the containor and tried to keep them hidden. Hope I helped!
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I would go to your mom and tell her. I'm sure she would respect your decision and be glad you don't want to get pregnant. If you don't want to, you can always tell her you need to speak to a doctor privatley. I would tell your mom though. There is only so many things you can hide before she finds it. Besta Luck
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what kinda pill are you taking about be more descriptive no one is gonna no what you are talking about if you just put the pill i mean come on
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its easiest just to tell your mum, tell her that you just want them to regulate your periods or something
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You don't need to fake that you are sick, just tell your mom that your period is irregular and that being put on the pill will help regulate it and you will be safe by not getting pregnant. When your mom brings you to the doctors, tell her that you want to talk to them privately because you can and she should understand that. You can tell your mom about it because she should know and it's not like she is going to get mad.
-Karen
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