If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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okay this is going to sound like an extremely lame question but.. i used to masturbate alot, not so much anymore tho.. anywayz, i don't know how we got on the subject, but my friend said that if you masturbate then you are no longer a virgin. i have never had sex with anyone, but am i still considered a virgin or no? thank you (link)
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You're a virgin.
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okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me. (link)
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I could tell you about how much everyone would be sad about your death or about how your life will get better and all this other shit. And both of those things happen to be true. But before you kill yourself, I must tell you that my New Orleans Saints , fresh off a 3-13 season in which their city was destroyed and the franchise was nearly moved to San Antonio, were given no chance to succeed this year. Everybody thought they'd have no chance, must like you feel like you have no chance now. But hey, they're 9-4 and about to win their division this year. They came out of nowhere and my point is, they stunk. If they can make something of themselves without quitting, you can, too. Killing yourself is cowardly. You don't want to kill yourself, you want your pain to end. It will. I gurantee somebody out there has it worse.
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Over the years I've trained my body to withstand pleasure and concentrate on something else. Now when me and my girlfriend have sex, it lasts for hours, is this normal? One night we went for four hours straight using no pills no attatchments and none of any of those other lovely toys. Is it a bad thing that this lasts this long? How long should it last? Usually I just go until she's completely exhausted and it still feels like I can get up and run a marathon as if nothing had happened. I think there's something wrong with me. Please, if anyone knows how I can fix this tell me. Thanx o^.^o (link)
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Teach me. You are abnormal, but shit, it's in a good way. If you really want to curtail the sex, don't beat off for awhile. You'll come quicker.
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I hear that guys like girls to be shaved.
Then i heard guys like the 'landing strip' better.
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It depends on the guy. A lot like them shaved. Some like it all natural. The landing strip is always a great idea to me. It gives you hair and offers the no hair option. I'd say do that. Or do a thing where it's like a heart. Or a flower. But that takes skill.
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17 female and i've been doing cyber sex online without my parents knowing of course and I was wondering if i've been doing cyber sex did i lose my virginity?
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No, sweety, you haven't lost it yet. You have to have real sex to do this.
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My cousin has been masturbating since she was 3 years old. Is that normal? She is 17 now. (link)
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That's just impossible. Maybe you meant 13. But three? No way. And yes it's normal of it was 13, but not if it's 3.
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hey, if you masturbate so much will u actually lose the temptation to have sex when u are older? haha i am just wondering ... thanks in advance :) (link)
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I hope not.
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Me (16/f) and my boyfriend (20/m) have recently started fooling around n stuff and the other day when he was figering my and i gave him a hand job and we were doing that n he just all of a sudden pulled "it" away and put "it" back in his pants. i dont know why though...any thoughts as to why he would do this????? (link)
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I have no clue. This does not compute in my brain. Man doesn't want to get too sexual with girlfriend. Syntax error. It is illegal to have sex with you and this includes any type of sexual activity(oral, anal, blah blah). He may just covering his bases, but if nobody finds out, I'd do you.
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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice (link)
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Hey, I'm answering this way way after everybody else, but yes this is rape. It is illegal to have sex with a drunk person and the fact that you told him to stop furthers proof that it was indeed rape. It's not your fault, that's what women tell themselves a lot, and that simply isn't true. It's his fault, he raped you. You didn't put up more of a fight probably b/c you were scared he'd hurt you if you did. Tell a friend, counselor, hell anybody you trust. He probably won't be convicted b/c there is no more proof. Sorry, but it's the truth. It's a he said/she said type deal. However, it's not too late to tell somebody and thats what you should do.
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What are the odds somebody gets pregnant if you use a condom and shes on birth control? (link)
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Low, but still possible.
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How old is way too young to have sex? my bf wants to with me but were only 15!! is that too young please help... if that is too young what should i say to him..
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If you're not ready to deal with the possibility of being a parent, then you are too young. It's just that simple.
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ok so i asked a question a long time ago about my boyfriends best friend kinda took advantage of me well to day i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and he said that we needed to talk so i called him and he said i've been acting kinda shy and he said whats wrong?
and then it was quiet and he said again Your mostly shy when my buddy comes around Did he do something to you? Luckly my mom called and i had to go so i told him i'd talk to him about it later. What should i tell him or What should i do Please help me ASAP!
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Tell your boyfriend that no matter what he's about to hear that he's not about to go do something stupid, like kill his friend. Then tell him. Tell him in person. Then tell your mother.
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In all honestly..can some precum get you pregnant? My bf have sex and we like to not use a condem for like 30 seconds at first. then he puts one on..and we go for 5-7 minutes usually (sometimes less sometimes a minute or so more) and he finishes. the likliness of me getting pregnant isnt all that high right?
second question...my bf only lasts for 3-7 minutes. is this normal? i have heard of guys going for 15 mins,30 mins, etc. is there any way to increase how long he lasts?
third question..i was dumb and made a horrible mistake thinking i would be ok if we had sex on the 4th and 5th day of my period (which was light at the time because 5th day is my last day) unprotected. my health teacher told me it was unlikely but still possible. i took a pregnancy test today..and im due for my period right around now or within the next 3 days about. .it came out negative. should i still be concerned?
PLEASE HELP! if you only know the answer to 1 of my questions..please answer! 5's for anyone who is nice! :) thank you so much
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I really don't know how else or how many times I have to answer this same question. If your bf puts his dick inside of you, there is always the remote chance you will get pregnant. The longer he's in there, the bigger the chance. Especially, unprotected. Precum can get you pregnant. The chances of you getting pregnant are low, but are you willing to take that chance? Second thing, yeah thats normal he goes for about 5 minutes. Commend him. He could be a minute man. Third, if your pregnany test came out negative, you shouldn't be pregnant. But if you're having to ask this many questions about sex, you're not ready to be having it. Rate me low, I don't care. I'm not here for ratings, I'm here to give answers.
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what are the chanches of a condom breaking when have sex? (link)
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I read somewhere in a study of 50 fertile couples where condoms were the only method of birth control used, 8 women got pregnant. None of the men did. So your chances are about 16% of it breaking.
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i do not understand why everyone is always saying "don't have sex" all i hear from teachers now is "sex will ruin your life, it hurts you, its horrible, don't do it, you'll regret it, yada yada yada" um, you wouldn't be here if it weren't for your parents having sex. teachers shouldn't say this. it is actually a great thing if you do it at the right time. i think they should tell us the disadvantages of having sex when you are young, not just in general NOT HAVING SEX. is there a reason why people tell us this? (link)
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Yes. Because sex is a very VERY powerful thing. You could create another human being by what you are doing. So you better do it with someone you truly care about and when you're 16, most people aren't in love. Sorry, but they're not. Sex is great, but you said it yourself, "if you do it at the right time" and a lot of the time, people don't. Plus warts on my dick are not on my Christmas list. You don't know who the other person has slept with, or if they have anything, or what, and it can complicate things. Guys:it's no big deal. It felt good, I got off. Girls: It's the next step in our relationship, he must love me. See my point?
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im 12 years old, and i think im pregnant. my boyfriend of 3 years nad i had sex lats night and im suffering from all the sypmtoms. but he pulled out, i promies, so i don get it. am i pregnant (link)
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Well, you could be. Having sex at 12 is really, really bad, but it can result in pregnancy. See a doctor soon and he can be able to determine for sure. I can't answer your question from here.
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Im a 16 year old boy who doesn't want sex....at all i have a girlfriend and i guess she expects me to be perverted maybe because her other boy friends were. Im a virgin shes not.She be offering me oral sex but i don't want it.then she calls me gay and all these other homo names.
I was raised on not being able to see people kiss at all if i said sex i was slapped,and i never seen a womans vagina ((Porn)) until i was 15 and I gagged when i seen it.Is this normal? am I gay? (link)
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Ok you're weird, but not gay. If a girl offers you oral sex, you need to say yes. Pussies aren't gross.
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When a guy "cums all inside of you", what does that mean? (link)
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He releases sperm inside of you.
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hey ok im a girl and i dont know how to fingure myself... i know this sounds weirdd but yeah... umm please tell me how i want to so bad tell me EXACTLY what to do dont just be like do whatever feels good and yeah dont give me a website eitheerr thanksss (link)
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I'm not a girl. But I usually slide my finger about an inch inside of her and do the come here motion, while i gently rub her clit. Try two fingers close together going in you fast or slow depending on how you like it. But I'm a guy. All girl are different. What you like may not be what somebody else likes.
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my friends wants me too have sex with him and i dunno if i should or nt...should i? (link)
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You're 12. No. Plain and simple. You're not ready. 12 year olds shouldn't be having sex. It complicates it a lot. What if you get pregnant? Get a disease? The list goes on and on.
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