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Alright. Soo, I don't shave "down there" or anything.
If a guy was to finger me, would he be be turned off? Like, would he think it's gross, or freak out, or be totally repulsed or something?

I'm not saying a guy is going to do that to me. I am only curious.

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Okay so heres the deal, im 17, female, and my boyfriend of 5 months is 18. I'm a virgin and he's not. I get so happy when we're togeher, and I mean happy, like I have mini orgasms and I get very wet. He makes my stomach lurch so much, like butterflies. He said that he would wait for me until I was 18 but he doesn't know if he can wait much longer then that. We don't see eachother much, it's a long distance relationship, and I actually haven't seen him since November. We talk about sex all the time, mostly teasing eachother. I wanna do it so bad, but I'm so self-concious, he doesn't know that though. Like I said, we don't see eachother much and when we do, its like heaven. Last time I saw him, we made out for 7 hours straight and I let him finger me and he always feels me up and he love to suck on my boobs. I've felt him up(down & inside) and he's so big! My bestfriend keeps telling me I should do it and I want to do it.
I guess the question is, after all that, why should I be embarassed about my body and should I just do it?

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okay i'm on the pill and i normally take my pill within the same hour everyday since i'm supposed to take it around the same time everyday. my friend told me that i have to take it at the same time within like 2 minutes everday. if i take it within the same hour is that bad?

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I was at a bar with my bf the other day. Suddenly in walks in this Britney Spears look-a-like wearing a really low cut top with her tattoo showing on her boobs. She sits on our table with her friends (we were on one of those really, really long tables with a bunch joined together) As soon as she sat down, my bf started staring at her. I ignored it at first, I mean, she was striking and you would notice her. But then 10-15 minutes later he was still staring at her, and when I looked at the girl she gave me an uncomfortable look and then said something to her friends who looked our way and looked angrily at us. Then some guy said "Quit it, mate." I've never been so embarassed in my entire life. I asked him why he was staring at her and he said she looks like one of the Suicide Girls (it's a goth/punk erotica site) and he recognised her by her tattoo. I got up and walked out of the bar, because I felt really uncomfortable (as did the girl, I could tell)

We've fought since then. He said he is sorry and feels like a pervert for objectifying a woman like that AND for staring at another girl when with me. I'm not unreasonable in that I get mad when he looks at other girls, but he went WAY too far. Right now we're kinda on the verge of breaking up. I can't believe he would do this. Should I take him back and give him another chance? I'm so hurt and angry and feel like I'm not good enough for him. Some people say I'm being too harsh, am I? I can't believe he'd do this to me.

thanks - 19/f

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Hi, so i'm a bit stuck. I lost my virginity a few weeks before I was 16 (which i'm quite proud of considering the reputation of my school and friends). I was at sgegness and I met a boy through a friend I have there. We clicked straight away it wasn't love at first sight or anything. I had only known him a few days and we weren't technically together but I had sex with him anyway. The next day he asked me out although we knew we lived too far apart and I didn't want anything serious. But I said yes and we had sex again that night because it was my last night. I left and we kept in touch but we lost contact. I definately don't regret it. But I never loved him and everyone says that your supposed to love the person you lose your v to. Am I wierd for not loving him? will rate all answers :)

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every night my EX IMs me and talks about us having sex and what we would do if we were alone and how great our sex was.. the thing is he has a gf now.. would that in anyway be cheating? its not like were really doing anything were just talking about doing shit..

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i heard some people saying that birth control pill starts to take its full effect after 7 days, but one of my friend told me whose mom is a nurse said that it takes a full month for it to take its effect. Do you know when exactly does it start to take its full effect?

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I need birth control i had sex and i plan on to keep doing it with my boyfriend we've been together 2 years, but i have NO idea how to convince my mom to get it. i can't very well say heyy i had sex get me some birth control cuz she'd freak and probably make me break up with him. i know theres ways around it saying my periods are irregular nd stuff but that won't help ive already tried. anyy tips?!

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Okay I move way too fast with guys. I don't think I'm a slut because I don't go out with that many guys I'm kind of picky. I'm in this relationship with this really great guy and we have been together for 9 now and on the 7th month we had sex on the 8th month we did four play (hand jobs,fingering etc)and oral. he doesn't have a problem but i do is that bad?????

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I was wondering when you have sex without a condom
Does it feel better or more different for the girl or the guy?

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im ready so don't be like it's when you are ready caue i am (: but approximately how long in a realtionship do you think you have to be in to be felt up..like i like this boy soo much and he likes me a lot too...but like 2 months or what..cause i dont want to get a reputation like "wow they went out for this long and he got it and so if i go out with her for that long i can get it"...soo just give me an estimated amount of time (: thanksss a bunch.

if it helps. im 14/f

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Hey guys

I went to planned parenthood the other day and they told me i should be taking my pills for about a week until they work. Does this mean it's okay to be taking the pills for 2 weeks (or a little more) and to have sex? I won't get pregnant right? well of course with birth control theres always a risk but i mean, the pills will be working by then right?

thanks

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Would the birth control pill prevent pregnancy if a guy doesn't wear his condom? Bbecause I heard that birth control pill is highly effective and so it does not get woman pregnant.

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please tell me your first time sex stories..from what i have heard none of the first timers are pleasureable. i would really appreciate it if you shared yours and tell me how it went. thank youu soo much (:

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so me & my boyfriend had sex for the first time last friday. and also saturday. & we used a condom & since it was our first time, we didnt do it too long since he popped my cherry & it hurt the second time. now im wondering if i could be pregnant? we used wasted 3 condoms & filled each with water once we were done with them & there was no hole, so the condom was good. so is there any chance of me being pregnant? i doubt it , but i just want more opinions.

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my bf wants to try anal. i thought he was kidding because he always said no, it's gross. i guess not this time. i really don't want to. for so many years of being anemic and constipated from my diet, the idea of a penis being shoved up there.. is not appealing. i've had friends say it's not pleasurable and everything. that it's only good for the guy because it's tight. he 'missed' once and that was a bitch.

so what's your anal experiences? horrible, good? :/

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if you are not on birth control and you have sex with a guy wearing a condom what is the chance of getting pregnant?

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Okay. So this probably sounds really dumb or lame but I’m worried... but okay.
Me and my boyfriend went to this party, and I ended sleeping over, as did he, so we shared a bed. I stayed fully clothed, well he was just in his boxers. We were kissing alot, and eventually he was on top of me (i was still fully clothes, and he was still in his boxers)..he was pressing up against me, and I don't know he came or not. Is it possible if he did, to get pregnant? I’m suppose to get my period around tomorrow or so and my breasts feel tender and hurting, which is how I can usually tell when I get my period, but could worrying about this change when I’ll get my period, can my body play tricks?

Please help!

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ok how long do you think me and my bf should be together before we have sex. he's thinking 5 months but idk im ready whenever but idk how long do you think we should wait?

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do you think it's too fast to be past second base after 3rd week of going out?

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