ok how long do you think me and my bf should be together before we have sex. he's thinking 5 months but idk im ready whenever but idk how long do you think we should wait?
christina answered Tuesday October 30 2007, 8:43 am: I think you should wait until you're both positive that you're ready. You didn't share your age, but making the decision to have sex with someone shouldn't be taken lightly considering it complicates things & you will end up regretting it if you're not completely ready.
grrwtf answered Monday October 29 2007, 6:09 pm: your boyfriend sounds like hes just trying to please you. it doesnt matter how soon it is. you can have sex after being with someone for one month [or a week:] either way it works, its just whenever yall feel is right, and you will know. [ grrwtf's advice column | Ask grrwtf A Question ]
thelaura answered Monday October 29 2007, 10:11 am: If you're of age and are 100% ready physically and mentally, there's no set time. I suppose people may tend to wait a while because it makes it more special (with the build up etc) as apposed to just jumping into bed on your first date! [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
queenhearts answered Monday October 29 2007, 5:13 am: It's your decision.. everyone has different opinions. Some will say a month, half a year or even a year. But it's best to wait for a while at least. Whenever you feel ready and or whenever you feel like you trust him. You don't want to jump into something and not know the guy well enough, and have him tell all his friends he had sex with you sorta thing.
If you give into sex easy [even if you want it] then there's a chance your guy will leave you and try to get with someone else. It's always a possibility. I can't say much because it's your boyfriend and I don't know him.
Wait as long as you feel you need to.. it makes the relationship stronger. Well, sex is worth the wait. Desire will eventually take over. :]
coOokiie answered Monday October 29 2007, 4:26 am: You don't care doesnt sound very yeh =S
Your boyfriend is smart enough to know and seems like a really good boyfriend he cares he doesnt want to push anything too foward 5 months is good,and no affence but you should care :S. [ coOokiie's advice column | Ask coOokiie A Question ]
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