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how can i let a boy no that i want to do things with him?
ok well i think im ready to start doing sexual things..! like i dont really know how to explain it but....i am .. the only thing stopping me is i need 2 find a boyfriend..sooooo i guess my questions are: how can i let a boy no that i want to do things with him..??.. and like any comments..!! btw. 14/f
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Im 14 and I lost my virginity when I didnt have a boyfriend. The guy was 18 and a seducer.
Well if you want to love a guy that you have sex with then just take your time and slow down.
But if you just want to have sex.
Go for an older guy.
Or they will find you ethier way.
Your virginity will be goon soon.
Guys are Guys.
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You're 14,your sexual urges are jus hormonal.You may think you're ready but deep down you aren't.When you do get a boyfriend,before you could start having sex with him,you both need to be psychically and emotionally ready. You should not get a boyfriend just to have sex,that's being slutty(sorry) but when you get a boyfriend,the both of you should make sure you have feelings for eachother that you dont feel for anyone else,and ensure that he is the person that you really do want to lose your virginity too. Having sex for the first time jsut for the sake of having sex is something you will regret in the long run. and when you get to be 30 and you're talking with your friends you want it to be something that was memorable not jus oh yea i got tgtr with a guy so i could have sex with him.And when you do choose to have sex make sure you are being responsible and practicing safe sex. Think smart!!
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Look at this website and please rethink your decision.
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You may be physically ready, but that's not all there is to it. Sex has an entire emotional dimension to it. You don't even have a boyfriend. Sex should be the last thing on your mind. What about having an emotionally beneficial relationship with a guy? Isn't that more important to you? Sex is meaningless without it. You will definitely regret having sex at a young age later in life if you do. I mean, what adult wants to think back and know that they had sex with a 14 year old for no reason? It's actually kind of sick. I know that's going to be hard for you to picture, being 14 yourself, but 14 year olds are still kids. Would you want to remember having sex with a little kid? No. So don't have sex until you are older.
You are not ready.
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You don't need a boyfriend. You have better things to concentrate on at 14 years old.
If you're ready for sexual stuff, just masturbate. It's better for you to do that because it doesn't bring the complications of "love" & guys into the picture.
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Sweetheart you dont need a boyfriend. You need to google "female masturbation" and go learn a few things.
You have hit a point in your life where the hormones are finally kicking in and you are suddenly ridiculously horny for reasons you cant really explain. It happens. Before you are ready for sex, you have to learn to control those urges. To be able to supress or take care of them on your own.
Until you could be with a guy you really liked, be incredibly horny and want to have sex with him, and walk away from the situation and NOT have sex because you knew it wasnt the right time, you arent ready to have sex or be sexual with a guy.
The hardest part about sexuality is mastering your own ability to say no.
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Wow , Hun . Slow down now .
Look at this your 14 , You don't even know how to get a guy to like you and you want to have sex , Sounds bad and desprate .
Your young . Wait . You have rageing horomones . Of course your -might- wanna do stuff . But contain yourself . We don't need any more pregnat teens out there O.o
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