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every night my EX IMs me and talks about us having sex and what we would do if we were alone and how great our sex was.. the thing is he has a gf now.. would that in anyway be cheating? its not like were really doing anything were just talking about doing shit..
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It seems like your ex is only worried about himself. When you are in a relationship, it's a commitment not only physically, but emotionally, and mentally. Him having thoughts about someone else is normal at times, but to actually go as far as telling you what he wants to do with you, is wrong. Just think if he got with you, and you found out he was talking like that to another girl, it wouldn't feel to good on your end.
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it's cheating.
cheating doesn't only consist of doing physical things. in my opinion, you can cheat just by having a side relationship. him saying these things mean he's emotionally involved and gets off by thinking of him with you (his EX!) it's not fair to his girlfriend. you need to stop talking to him because if you don't, you could get yourself into a lot of trouble with her and her friends and they could accuse you of doing stuff you didn't actually do, or intend to do.
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Hey. It's not really technically cheating, but it's deffinately not okay. I would tell him to stop becuase it's wrong, and if he doesn't stop I would save the conversations and tell his girlfriend. It might seem harsh but cheating is not okay in any form, for any reason, and he's not cheating on you right now, but talking about having sex with you means that if the opportunity came about, he would have sex with you, which deffinately is cheating.
I'm not sure how clear that was but I hope I helped. If you don't understand leave something in my inbox and I'll re - explain.
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I think it is cheating. Think about it... if your boyfriend was talking to another girl about having sex with her, how would you feel? Even if he hadn't actually done it (yet), you would still feel betrayed. And that's what cheating is... betraying someone's trust. So yeah. It may feel good to know that your ex is still attracted to you, but allowing him to talk to you that way when he has a gf is the same thing as letting him cheat on her with you.
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Block him, send the conversation to his current girlfriend.
Why the fuck are you talking to this guy anyway?
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well it isn't fully cheating. but it isn't right ether. he shouldn't be saying thaat stuff and you shouldn't be lettign him. if he has a grilfriend then he should stop sayign all that stuff. He isn't faithful enough..and this coudl lead to potential cheatings so therefore youneed to tell him to stop or it is goign to turn into him cheating on her.
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yes i somehow relate that to sexual relations
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